This is going to sound very strange.

But I feel as if I have a love affair with all my Gents.

The more open and susceptible the Gentleman is to letting go of self, the greater the probability the session shared will leave its imprint on both of us.

I do not know to hold back nor, care to hold back.
What I do is sincere, selfishly indulgent inviting the Gent into my way of play.

That is why I do not do role play or dress ups or fantasies.

I love it as real as it can be....just like lovers might be... even in an erotic session like mine.

And thus yes...many times have had to remind myself of the space I occupy and that it is transactional as I am sure the gent is reminded too.

The pity is that the presumption of most is that in the transaction, a cold hearted and calculated and scripted session is the given.

Of course it is about being paid for time and services rendered let us not be stupid about that but, it goes much deeper than the wallet and I always remind the Gent they are 50% of whatever shall happen between us and thus....to let go and...trust.

As to feelings, real feelings....not infatuation or that pussywhipped feeling... rather a genuine curiosity because one feels,something in the pit of one's tummy...that I believe is VERY possible.


Has it happened to me?
Yep.
Did anything of happen of it?
Nope.
Why?
Because it simply would not have been the right thing to do.

Maybe one day that "one" will find both of us in the right place at the right time and c'est la vie!

RB.

On 2023-12-07 21:08:29 Russian Bridgitte said:
This is going to sound very strange.

But I feel as if I have a love affair with all my Gents.

The more open and susceptible the Gentleman is to letting go of self, the greater the probability the session shared will leave its imprint on both of us.

I do not know to hold back nor, care to hold back.
What I do is sincere, selfishly indulgent inviting the Gent into my way of play.

That is why I do not do role play or dress ups or fantasies.

I love it as real as it can be....just like lovers might be... even in an erotic session like mine.

And thus yes...many times have had to remind myself of the space I occupy and that it is transactional as I am sure the gent is reminded too.

The pity is that the presumption of most is that in the transaction, a cold hearted and calculated and scripted session is the given.

Of course it is about being paid for time and services rendered let us not be stupid about that but, it goes much deeper than the wallet and I always remind the Gent they are 50% of whatever shall happen between us and thus....to let go and...trust.

As to feelings, real feelings....not infatuation or that pussywhipped feeling... rather a genuine curiosity because one feels,something in the pit of one's tummy...that I believe is VERY possible.


Has it happened to me?
Yep.
Did anything of happen of it?
Nope.
Why?
Because it simply would not have been the right thing to do.

Maybe one day that "one" will find both of us in the right place at the right time and c'est la vie!

RB.

Doesn't sound strange beautiful lady...

You are sincere and honest

Game of thrones have interesting foot prints

If you can make a man forget its a paid session and he truly feels like your lover... You have perfected the art of fuckery in more ways than one

Actually sexy Nickey B.

I have perfected nothing in the space of fuckery.

I am simply not scared to be vulnerable and open for scrutiny whichever way it may go..nothing more nothing less...and NOTHING perfected. I don't care to impress.

And in that I hope to find the "essence " of the "other"...truth uninhibited, unpretentious and passionately needy and generous in each others surrender.

RB.

On 2023-12-07 21:48:42 Nickey Blue said:

If you can make a man forget its a paid session and he truly feels like your lover... You have perfected the art of fuckery in more ways than one

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So true Nickey, some of my best time spent ended with me forgetting to pay. Once I left and only in the uber half way to my destination I realised I forgot to pay. Frantically messaged the lady and she didn't make a big issue about it. Pretended she forgot to (or maybe she did, lol). Did an immediate EFT from the UBER, and broke one of my rules, by creating a permanent electronic paper trail between us.

I can only speak for myself here.

No 2 people are the same some guys walk in and I can't wait for them to leave while others walk in and I don't want them to leave leave because I am indulging in either their pleasure or mine or perhaps even both.

The bookings where I want the guy to leave like yesterday are the bookings that are hard work and effort for me their is not one SP who can say that all her clients are Amazing that would be a blatant lie.

The bookings which flow easily are not hard work because they are the reason I enjoy this business.

Let's not fool ourselves for 1 minute into thinking that the money is not important because without it we can not dress up do hair by make up to hide our butter faces pay the dentist a visit by heels toys condoms etc. So pay the lady her damn asking price because over and above her business expenses she also needs a roof over her head she also needs to take care of her family she needs to eat she needs to beable to afford medical care if the need arises so yes there has to be a fair exchange of energy.

Is there an answer to above question. Or us all being individual and way we feel determine our actions especially regulars. There's times when one becomes genuine hangout friends without benefits without the complication of dating etc. Best just go with the flow the rest whomever preplanned our destiny or created us along with our choices will determine results.

Thank u for all the intresting points of view and expressing them. It's always good to learn and see others points of view.

It is about the money.

Don't fall for a wg. If she expresses her feelings she is just trying to lure you in and take you for a fool and a free ATM.

Find someone out of this industry don't be taken for a ride. Wgs don't make good marriage partners...

On 2023-12-08 10:19:26 Baziel said:
It is about the money.

Don't fall for a wg. If she expresses her feelings she is just trying to lure you in and take you for a fool and a free ATM.

Find someone out of this industry don't be taken for a ride. Wgs don't make good marriage partners...

Well...


Let's put it this way.


If u are the "Baziel" in the mainstream of life like u are on this platform darling many a working girl u have come across in the mainstream of life and I can guarantee u that u would have no luck with any lady on this fine earth never mind wg

U are despicably obtuse as "Baziel" and I suppose no different otherwise in your daily living?



RB.

That's so funny lolol