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Sir Shadow Hefner - Re: Basic Rules of Engagement
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Posted: 2023-12-14 22:44:02
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One more I would add for the gents; be the clockwatcher. Don't put a lady in an uncomfortable situation of having to tell you that your time is up.

Business is business, and if you've budgeted and agreed an hour, then not a minute less nor a minute more sir. Time is money. I've slipped on this a few times when the conversation is flowing and the vibes are vibing. In which case you either top up the rate or just set an alarm beforehand.

I've had huns getting ticked off with me for rushing out in the middle of a flowing conversation asking me "Am I chasing you out!?". But I'd rather preserve the longevity of a regular thing than be that client that takes advantage and just hangs around forever and ever.
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Posted: 2023-12-15 06:01:15

On 2023-12-14 22:44:02 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
One more I would add for the gents; be the clockwatcher. Don't put a lady in an uncomfortable situation of having to tell you that your time is up.

Business is business, and if you've budgeted and agreed an hour, then not a minute less nor a minute more sir. Time is money. I've slipped on this a few times when the conversation is flowing and the vibes are vibing. In which case you either top up the rate or just set an alarm beforehand.

I've had huns getting ticked off with me for rushing out in the middle of a flowing conversation asking me "Am I chasing you out!?". But I'd rather preserve the longevity of a regular thing than be that client that takes advantage and just hangs around forever and ever.



Got to agree with this.

Arrive on time and leave on time

Be respectfull

No negotiations on price, pay the full fee, and more if services is of a high standard.
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Posted: 2023-12-15 06:32:24

On 2023-12-14 22:44:02 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
One more I would add for the gents; be the clockwatcher. Don't put a lady in an uncomfortable situation of having to tell you that your time is up.

Business is business, and if you've budgeted and agreed an hour, then not a minute less nor a minute more sir. Time is money. I've slipped on this a few times when the conversation is flowing and the vibes are vibing. In which case you either top up the rate or just set an alarm beforehand.

I've had huns getting ticked off with me for rushing out in the middle of a flowing conversation asking me "Am I chasing you out!?". But I'd rather preserve the longevity of a regular thing than be that client that takes advantage and just hangs around forever and ever.



Spoken like a true legend
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Posted: 2023-12-15 07:29:35

Spot on ladies and gents. All points mentioned above are valid and should be mandatory.

Gents, respect goes along way, if a wg says so FH, respect it, dont push for it.

So often we hear of stories where guys don't get 'their way' in the bedroom then they end up posting bad reviews about the WG.
Guys should also take some accountability.
We as punters rate WGs but you think we will get all 5's if the ladies have to rate us?

Yes we pay, doesn't mean respect goes out the window....
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Posted: 2023-12-15 07:59:42

Emphasis on

On 2023-12-15 06:01:15 Kooni said:

ARRIVE ON TIME and leave on time



... its just bad etiquette to show up 20mins before a date's meant to start and you're messing with the discretion of it all (even if she happens to be in an apartment block or hotel).

you're putting yourself at risk of bumping into a previous punter or security etc
and at best, you're cutting in on time she'd have otherwise spent freshening up for you, changing out the linen, slipping into something sexier, or just taking a (much needed) moment of silence.

I'd actually say it's more of a faux pas to show up early than to be a couple minutes late. We've got cash to count, toenails to paint and pictures to take and would *certainly* find something to fill a 5-10 min delay with, versus feeling rushed, running around like headless chicken, trying to accomodate *as well as* impress you, who showed up 30 mins early.


Another sidenote: its SO rude to decline a offer to shower, especially when its 5pm and you're in work clothes. I dont care how clean you think you are after a full day in your office, a quick wash, including your hands (preferably your nails would be short, and clean)... paired with some mouthwash will likely get you A LOT further than just hoping you're clean. thank you <33
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Posted: 2023-12-15 08:29:31

On 2023-12-15 07:59:42 Hazel Arabia said:
Emphasis on

On 2023-12-15 06:01:15 Kooni said:
ARRIVE ON TIME and leave on time


... its just bad etiquette to show up 20mins before a date's meant to start and you're messing with the discretion of it all (even if she happens to be in an apartment block or hotel).

you're putting yourself at risk of bumping into a previous punter or security etc
and at best, you're cutting in on time she'd have otherwise spent freshening up for you, changing out the linen, slipping into something sexier, or just taking a (much needed) moment of silence.

I'd actually say it's more of a faux pas to show up early than to be a couple minutes late. We've got cash to count, toenails to paint and pictures to take and would *certainly* find something to fill a 5-10 min delay with, versus feeling rushed, running around like headless chicken, trying to accomodate *as well as* impress you, who showed up 30 mins early.


Another sidenote: its SO rude to decline a offer to shower, especially when its 5pm and you're in work clothes. I dont care how clean you think you are after a full day in your office, a quick wash, including your hands (preferably your nails would be short, and clean)... paired with some mouthwash will likely get you A LOT further than just hoping you're clean. thank you <33



I couldn't agree more the other day a gent arrived way before his time I opened the door with foundation in my hand and messy hair he looked at me as if he was about to run for the hills lol I had to say your early and I am not ready as I freshen up between clients he was ok I kept apologizing I gave him a massage no music thank Goodness he appreciated the service that he tipped me double my fee. Even though it turned out great it could have been much better in my opinion
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Posted: 2023-12-15 09:22:21

Swinging, swinging, swinging, NO!

I'm not going to watch the time. You pushing things to far, Mr Hefner, wanting to be the perfect man. I'm beginning to see the shadows beneath your eyes. I think you need an orgasm. The kind that makes time time stand still. Lol.

Touching heaven is the holy grail for me, and when time stands still I'm not going to be opening my eyes to peer at the clock. It's the SPs job to bring me back to earth, preferably slowly, but a crash landing is forgivable on occassion.

Ja sure, 90% what the lady wants, but gotta have something for yourself as well, Mr Hefner. And my time is my time. Im the client, the lady is the manager. I dont want to be 'working', aka managing time, during a session. Managing the session is the ladies job, you mess it up. It's on you. Your business. You fix it. Lol. So Mr. Hefner, don't feel bad about slipping. After all, slipping and sliding is what you paid for.

Off topic, but ladies, it's not sexy to tell us about your other clients, either the one before or the one after. So we'd rather hear that you a lady of leisure when having to push an appointment back. 'I overslept, just woke up, can we push our appointment back by 30 mins', even if it's 4pm, works better than 'this other guy took forever to cum and when he did, he messed all over me and the curtain as well, I need some time to clean it all up'.

Or worse, you answer the phone, muffled moans and groans in the background and an out of breath SP: 'I'm still busy with another client, can we move ours back by 30 min'.



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Posted: 2023-12-15 09:50:37

Hahaha you judge me too harshly J_J. I just meant that you have to respect the lady's time and be a gentleman enough to stick to the agreed arrangement (30 mins, 1 hour, etc.). Sure, we would all like to spend hours upon hours in our orgasmic bliss when we are with our faves, but then pay for your time then. It's only fair. It takes two mate, you can't expect to spend 90 mins when you've paid for 60. That is selfish.

And no, you can't expect time to "stand still" unless you're paying for it to stand still. And GTFOH with saying I'm trying to be the perfect man, this is a basic fact. You do the same at a hotel when they tell you that the check out time is 10:00 AM. Then by 10:00 AM (plus minus) you check out? No?
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Posted: 2023-12-15 12:13:06

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On 2023-12-15 09:50:37 Sir Shadow Hefner said:


And no, you can't expect time to "stand still" unless you're paying for it to stand still.


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You can't pay for time stand to still, my dear Hefner, only a goddess can do that, lol

On hotels I'll pass. I'm particularly bad there, but would never behave like that with a lady. But now that you raise it, any ladies offering membership rewards with preferential late check out privileges, lol



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Posted: 2023-12-15 12:41:07

On 2023-12-15 12:13:06 J_J said:
H On 2023-12-15 09:50:37 Sir Shadow Hefner said:

And no, you can't expect time to "stand still" unless you're paying for it to stand still.
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You can't pay for time stand to still, my dear Hefner, only a goddess can do that, lol

On hotels I'll pass. I'm particularly bad there, but would never behave like that with a lady. But now that you raise it, any ladies offering membership rewards with preferential late check out privileges, lol





Lol, you my friend are indeed in the silly season *face palm* hahaha

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