Easy answer and your question is really due to a lack of life experience.

A relationship with ANY chick (side or otherwise) takes up your time and gives you headaches. That's just reality.

The beauty of WGs is that you just there for fun, for a limited time and then you move on.

As the wise and great Charlie Sheen once said:
I don't pay women for sex,I pay them to leave me alone, after we have had sex.

On 2023-12-29 22:42:52 Slow Rider said:
Side chick's have always been my way to go.. they are way more happier and cost a quarter of monthly punting..my two seconds worth

Then why are you on ESA?

Currently have a 19 year old woman laying in my bed while I'm working from home who claims to be my girlfriend.

That's not all, she wants babies.

That's not all, WG's want babies too.

On 2024-01-03 13:51:31 UltraSuperFuck said:

Currently have a 19 year old woman laying in my bed while I'm working from home who claims to be my girlfriend.

That's not all, she wants babies.

That's not all, WG's want babies too.

Interesting

On 2024-01-03 11:39:33 Max.ledger said:
Easy answer and your question is really due to a lack of life experience.

A relationship with ANY chick (side or otherwise) takes up your time and gives you headaches. That's just reality.

The beauty of WGs is that you just there for fun, for a limited time and then you move on.

As the wise and great Charlie Sheen once said:
I don't pay women for sex,I pay them to leave me alone, after we have had sex.

I agree with you,it is lack of life experience,I guess when you younger ,you judge those that pay for sex and don't understand why they do it.

On 2024-01-03 11:39:33 Max.ledger said:
Easy answer and your question is really due to a lack of life experience.

A relationship with ANY chick (side or otherwise) takes up your time and gives you headaches. That's just reality.

The beauty of WGs is that you just there for fun, for a limited time and then you move on.

As the wise and great Charlie Sheen once said:
I don't pay women for sex,I pay them to leave me alone, after we have had sex.

Also after reading everyone's comments about how WG's are much better I totally agree with,I was actually planning on this year strictly working girls and just stop texting these girls and thought we would just loose contact and they even got angry when I stopped talking to them and I thought thank got it's over but until one of them texted me the other day saying she misses me and missed hearing my voice and seeing me.

At first I'm like I'm not gonna do this because this year it's strictly esa but when you see the curves and the beauty on this chick ,that's the weakness for me that I'm just to pussy to break a girls hurt and tell her we can't do this ...it's kinda switching my esa plans but hopefully I can get the courage to break it to her that I'm good.but will see how I do this.

I keep saying this... everything in life is transactional.

Even if you don't punt or you don't have a side chick - you give your time, your energy, effort into getting to know another human being and all just to find out if you're compatible or not. It still costs you whether it is cash or energy.

But anyway, I was wondering all these "dudes have side chicks" - are you okay with them having other "dudes?"

I think this could be a lucrative market for me because clearly people think it's okay to fuck people around, so maybe the side chicks should do the same and just do as they please with several guys to at least earn something other than clearly wasting their time lmao!

I can't believe we live in an age where people are still reducing people to sex objects like this and not willing to at least pay for it because you just expect sex at everyone else's expense, except your own. Lmao!

On 2024-01-03 17:22:46 Raphael_ Xclusive said:
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But anyway, I was wondering all these "dudes have side chicks" - are you okay with them having other "dudes?"

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LoL, my money is on them side chicks having side dudes whether the guys are okay with it or not. Hell, I'd say they have way more than a few while most guys will only have one.

I do feel sorry for you though Raph. Sounds like you never have and possibly never will experience non-transactional sex driven by your mutual desire and nothing else. Nothing can be more satisfying and no amount of money can buy it. Hope you get to experience it sometime in your life.

JP69

People like to say this up until they get traded in for a younger model especially once they have passed their "sell by" date. Then the tune changes somewhat.

On 2024-01-03 17:22:46 Raphael_ Xclusive said:
I keep saying this... everything in life is transactional.

Even if you don't punt or you don't have a side chick - you give your time, your energy, effort into getting to know another human being and all just to find out if you're compatible or not. It still costs you whether it is cash or energy.

But anyway, I was wondering all these "dudes have side chicks" - are you okay with them having other "dudes?"

I think this could be a lucrative market for me because clearly people think it's okay to fuck people around, so maybe the side chicks should do the same and just do as they please with several guys to at least earn something other than clearly wasting their time lmao!

I can't believe we live in an age where people are still reducing people to sex objects like this and not willing to at least pay for it because you just expect sex at everyone else's expense, except your own. Lmao!

I disagree,I can also spend a lot of money on my side chicks and at the same time tell them ,they can fuck who they want but if I'm the best option out of everyone even when u told them do you,then u can't really say their fucking themselves over,it's basically different for everyone.and some sides will tell you it's cool if you fuck other people because we just having fun,not all the time it's about money or a transaction but the vibes are just good and some women feel offended when u start telling them about money,the only want u...I was kinda shocked when a bunch of ladies told me that...I was like damn I've been doing the quick easy punting way thinking it's normal and not realising some people just enjoy you for u but I guess we make mistakes and we learn from them but it was an eye opener because u hear all these stories that women just want money but yeah I guess I've just been lucky but again women do like to be spoiled and she'll spoil u with her money to so you basically spending on each other.