But as time has gone by, I've found these sessions lacking for me. Even outside of ESA, the fuck buddies i had were either too mechanical or became too clingy. I needed something else. I wanted to experience authentic intimacy without the commitment. And so I started exploring around girls that said they did 'true' gfe. I have yet to find one in Joburg that ticks my boxes. These include deep passionate kissing. Touching with intention and attention. Affectionate embracing. Eye contact. Being attentive to my desires. I think these can all be done by most but the illusive factor is that they are done with intentional energy. And there is probably the key...energy. Understandably energy can drain the ladies and so many don't engage at that level.
I suppose this post is intended to hear from other punters of their experiences and possible recommendations. And ofcourse to hear from the SPs and their views.
Edited: 2024-01-08 07:29:57
In my experience MGs deliver a more authenic intimacy experience (without the penetration), than FH providers delivering a true "gfe".
The large number of punters that prefer "fuck to come " (multiple rounds), are killing the art of authentic intimacy.
Unfortunately SP have to be mentally tuned to get pounded, instead of delivering a true and intimate "gfe".
Edited: 2024-01-08 07:34:38
Difference between you and I is that was in contrast to the relationships I'd had which were all "GFE" experiences. So I wanted something different.
There was one in particular that perfectly skirted the line between passion and affection; there was always lots of kissing, we pined over each other, but whenever we tried to make love slowly, we failed at it, it always devolved into a rough and tumble.
Why am I telling you this? Take my advice as two cents, the thing that really sells GFE is authenticity. In the punting world, you'll always know that you paid for it, and in the back of your mind you'll always wonder if this is just an act for the time you're here and that's where GFE may approximate but miss the real thing.
The closest I ever got to feeling passion in this world was when an SP and I got genuinely close, which took time, a meeting of minds and genuine concern for each other, I still remember the late night unscripted and unplanned encounters with the lady.
SUMMARY: you can get close to a GFE but because you paid, it probably won't feel authentic. If you really want something authentic, even in the punting world, you need to invest time into it with an SP who is worth it to you.
On 2024-01-08 07:28:40 Kooni said:
Have to agree with you, true "gfe" is a term thrown around by many, but very few that can deliver.
In my experience MGs deliver a more authenic intimacy experience (without the penetration), than FH providers delivering a true "gfe".
The large number of punters that prefer "fuck to come " (multiple rounds), are killing the art of authentic intimacy.
Unfortunately SP have to be mentally tuned to get pounded, instead of delivering a true and intimate "gfe".
Oh! Yes yes and YES!!!
HALLELUJAH!
RB.
On 2024-01-08 07:33:21 DickRich2 said:
Hey, your punting "starter story" sounds similar to mine. I also joined because I wanted an anonymous, no-holds barred lustful fuckfest.
Difference between you and I is that was in contrast to the relationships I'd had which were all "GFE" experiences. So I wanted something different.
There was one in particular that perfectly skirted the line between passion and affection; there was always lots of kissing, we pined over each other, but whenever we tried to make love slowly, we failed at it, it always devolved into a rough and tumble.
Why am I telling you this? Take my advice as two cents, the thing that really sells GFE is authenticity. In the punting world, you'll always know that you paid for it, and in the back of your mind you'll always wonder if this is just an act for the time you're here and that's where GFE may approximate but miss the real thing.
The closest I ever got to feeling passion in this world was when an SP and I got genuinely close, which took time, a meeting of minds and genuine concern for each other, I still remember the late night unscripted and unplanned encounters with the lady.
SUMMARY: you can get close to a GFE but because you paid, it probably won't feel authentic. If you really want something authentic, even in the punting world, you need to invest time into it with an SP who is worth it to you.
DR2...spot on. That's exactly where I'm at regarding the paying for it vs authenticity. And thank you for your insight and view about things take time. As much as this world is an escapism, it does reflect so much of reality...things take time.
Edited: 2024-01-08 08:01:22
You must be joking.
Sorry.
This is NOT a dating site....and if one does not know to to engage in, or bring out of one the "essence" of what a "boyfriend /girlfriend" MIGHT mean to each one of us on the first meet...then is equating a good "fuck"....let's put it different...a "fuck" that gets better....to a true gfe ???...the answer????
So when the sexual intimacy between boyfriend and girlfriend in mainstream of life disappears they no longer an item????
My my...we truly are fuckused.
RB
On 2024-01-08 07:36:21 Lefty said:
Thanks Kooni. The MG world is something I haven't explored yet. I guess it's about breaking the shackles of conventional perception that paying money to come, one has to have penetration. Are there MG who offer kissing?
There are a large number of MGs that do allow kissing, some are more selective about it than others.
I can recommend
Lee
www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php
Honey Boobs
www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php
Kali
www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php
Galaxy
www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php
RB
www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php
Ginger
www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php
Lola
www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php
On 2024-01-08 07:28:40 Kooni said:
Unfortunately SP have to be mentally tuned to get pounded, instead of delivering a true and intimate "gfe".
Get you a girl who can do both ;)
/wiggles fingers
Seriously though, Lefty. Hi! Come and let me make you my man... for an hour or two at least *kiss*
L xx
On 2024-01-08 09:32:54 Laura Love said:
On 2024-01-08 07:28:40 Kooni said:
Unfortunately SP have to be mentally tuned to get pounded, instead of delivering a true and intimate "gfe".
Get you a girl who can do both ;)
/wiggles fingers
Seriously though, Lefty. Hi! Come and let me make you my man... for an hour or two at least *kiss*
L xx
Perfectly put LL. For me the GFE must be exactly that. Make me your man for an hour.
I will be coming to you for that exact requirement ;)
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