Oh my! Oh my.It sounds like you're on another spiritual search, my darling. So, farewell, my friend

I was about to laugh but then i read and actually agree with most points especially 4, legit everytime after i bust i lose complete interest in the lady and just want to leave thinking i just wasted my money. 3 is very accurate and 7 hurts my soul so much.

Whichever WG u punted.... She's on something real bad.... It sounds like meth or Rocks or something

Wtf

LoL

Jesus save my soul

My brain was sore after reading the first part of the thread

On 2024-01-30 16:52:25 Jade said:
I hear a lot of guilt - sorry about that. Sex is natural and healthy, there is no need to feel guilty.

I also hear a bit of condescension, as if paying a woman an agreed-upon fee for an agreed-upon service is somehow inferior to buying a girl drinks and giving her compliments to sleep with her.

I personally feel that what we do here is quite honest. You contact me, tell me what you like, and I tell you how much i will charge to provide that. No lying, no pretending to have feelings, and no expectations beyond what is agreed upon. I do get to know some of the people I see pretty well, and I care about all of them.

An analogy of sorts: I can cook perfectly well for myself but I like the ease and variety of eating out (see what I did there?). And there's nothing wrong with paying someone to make a meal the way I like it.

The bottom line is, if you don't enjoy it anymore or if it makes you feel bad, by all means stop. Just don't judge other people for different choices :)

No sorry if u like i was being condescending , im am sorry if you feel like that but personally i didnt want to put it that way its just i realised that, i wanna be able to meet a girl and treat her like a women go on a few dates, make her feel special and we dont have to even smash that can come weeks or months after, i know i'll get played by some girls for being nice part, eventually you'll find someone real, like i have escorts that are friends of mine and we dont smash and i told them about how i feel and they totally agree with me.but i guess maybe its just not within me to do have transactional sex, it fun but weird the first time i did it and nothing has changed over the years. So its like naah dude, some times you gotta listen to yourself if something is not you.

On 2024-01-30 17:46:41 Mila said:
Whichever WG u punted.... She's on something real bad.... It sounds like meth or Rocks or something

Wtf

LoL

Jesus save my soul

My brain was sore after reading the first part of the thread

im not even gonna be on some jesus stuff or anything, i just realised, this is not me, plus some working girls that im friends with say they actually do cleanse and stuff like that, so i came into this thing just keep safe and condomise and not thinking about the spiritaul aspect. theres nothing wrong with buying sex or anything but its not for some people, at first you think it is because it looks fun from the outside looking in but if you just not that guy your not that guy and im gonna be a lame for thinking like that,then so it be.

Hey Marcus2389

Might not have come across as you wished to express yourself....but I get you.

Different strokes for different folks.

Punting is not for everybody as is the choice to be a prostitute not for everybody considering many women out there are struggling to get a job to just put food on the table.

All the best on finding that princess you looking for and should you come back , try enjoy punting for what it is and knows to be...fuckiliciously engaging, sensually inviting,
Full of possible erotic kink and rewarding without expectations or overthinking. Some do know to SEE YOU and make you feel like the king of your own castle.

The point being....you need to see yourself as the king of your own castle too....otherwise it is nothing more than that which u have tried to write about.

RB.

Hey bro, do you man. If it doesn't fulfill you don't fight it. It's supposed to be fun, you're supposed to get your money's worth. If you aren't then it's good to question it.

Lately I have been punting far less than before, and am also seriously considering leaving. My reasons though are vastly different:

1. Many of the ladies under 30, I find, just cannot communicate. Eg. I recently asked a wg what her rates for FH were. She responds her massage rates only and says FH is extra. GREAT. I send another message asking what said FH rates are and I get no response.


2. Personal hygiene. There's been an increase of ladies with dirty feet and smelly vaginas these days. And yet they say they allow you to rim/muff them. Huh?? And some are highly rated. Must be truly desperate simps who see no issue with this.

3. Suddenly, everything is an extra. Kiss? Extra. Muff? Extra. Can I massage you? Extra. Next, just lovingly admiring her body will be extra.

4. The old bait and switch or she looks nothing like her pics.

5. Lastly, just as much as ladies don't like punters wasting their time, we punters don't like it when wgs do the same to us. Some of us have to plan our punts, so please respect it. Yes, life happens, but don't ghost your client when he's literally at your door.

Anyways, my 2c.

And I'm no newbie, I've been punting close to 30 years now so I know what I am talking about.

On 2024-01-30 18:18:26 Marcus2389 said:
On 2024-01-30 17:46:41 Mila said: Whichever WG u punted.... She's on something real bad.... It sounds like meth or Rocks or something

Wtf

LoL

Jesus save my soul

My brain was sore after reading the first part of the thread



im not even gonna be on some jesus stuff or anything, i just realised, this is not me, plus some working girls that im friends with say they actually do cleanse and stuff like that, so i came into this thing just keep safe and condomise and not thinking about the spiritaul aspect. theres nothing wrong with buying sex or anything but its not for some people, at first you think it is because it looks fun from the outside looking in but if you just not that guy your not that guy and im gonna be a lame for thinking like that,then so it be.

Sweetie.... I'm truly sorry for sounding insensitive.... Honestly.... That was not what I meant

Yes there is cleansing involved, due to spiritual exposure.... But it's simple (for me anyway)
A salt bath!!

And praying over me and the person I was with.... No voodoo or anything else....

Good luck and I hope that you have a fabulous evening further

Kisses

Mila

The unfortunate reality is that there's a dark side to punting and I'd like believe that sites like ESA protect one from getting exposed to that side of punting.

As much as I get frustrated lately because punting is starting to lose its spark, I'm also thankful for the ESA platform because without it a lot of school fees would've been paid.

The review system, the advertiser wall where comments are and the gold membership that allows you to see enlarge pictures. All underrated, but go a long way in avoiding the landmines.

Farewell, young grasshopper (OP). Hopefully you won't look back because it doesn't sound like you are cut out for this space.