i just so happen to be in cape town already - and being a professional girlfriend at heart, companionship is the creme de la creme where my services are concerned.
PETRMAN. oopppssss you been here loooonnnnngggggg enough to know the rules. if she aint advertsing, well say no more. Yup im on a run this morning. LOL
Dating.
Dating ain't no more what dating used to be.
A courting. An engagement of mind and body. The anticipation , excitement of seeing that person.
The hope of a good share in the company of a likeminded individual.
The walking away. The giggles. Laughs, butterflies ....after an evening out and the lingering endearing hug maybe a non intrusive lingering kiss....lips speaking of passion burning.
...and if it be one of those where on the first date nothing in common seems to be the order of the eve then a civil thank you and away one goes.
Today is it all about sex on the first outing. He to score? She to "bag" him?
Finding a solution to one's "lonely" feeling or empty pockets like a "sugar daddy"?
No patience or time to "DATE".
Is this the progressive society we have become where exposing the self and wishing for a "connect" is a weakling thing and the superficiality of being is cash, alcohol, drugs and fast men and women are the thing?
As to seeking a girlfriend/ wife or boyfriend / husband, comes with confused and manipulated fickle societal standards and social integration and social skills defined by Instagram, tik tok and the like?
Seems one stands a better chance of humaneness and being "seen" interacting with programmed AI feeding that need to be loved, liked, seen....wanted?
All the best TigerSweets. May a woman walk across your path that shall show you women in general, DO know how to treat their man like the king of HER castle.
When i started working, i was soooo in love with a colleaque. But she was also pretty heartless. Sexy as hell, but heartless. I somehow started to convince myself all women are like that...
It really took me 2 or 3 more girlfriends/relationships to realise how wrong that perception was. The heartless one, was the 1 out of 100, if not 1 out of thousand.
Haven't really seen anyone in CT, but you have some of the best huggers coming your way soon.
I think Cleopatrata has a tour relatively soon. You will get lost in her motherly bosom, and she is such a beautiful soul.
Arhwen, a bit of a wait till May, but definitely it. She may appear as a tough person on the forum, but such a big heart, loving and caring soul. You will melt in her arms.
RB cycles through CT regularly as well. Keep an eye out for her. She knows just how to nurse a broken man back to whole.
And then, all three ladies are top notch masseuse.
In no time you'll have a spring in your step again.
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Apologies to all the ladies, not mentioned. Can only speak from my own experience. I'm sure there are also exceptional ladies in CT, which I hope to explore one day.
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