I've seen a lot of ladies offer CIM and OWO, I just don't understand why. It would put you at a higher risk to get a std...

I've been with a few ladies who are just ready to start sucking without me having a condom on. There response is generally "I only do that in clean gentleman"... just because you can't see any sort of visual trace of a std does not mean I don't have one... HPV strains which lead to a higher chance of cervical cancer don't site up visually.

I just don't understand the point of putting yourself at a higher risk in a risky industry.

personally i also lack understanding on certain things - such as what motivates / pushes a punter (or a WG - I'd say the exact same thing if this post was written by one of us) to post about this.

mostly, this comes from a place of privilege and doesn't address the fact that many (if not most) WGs are survival sex workers - that is, when it comes down to offering OWO vs keeping a roof over their head, most do not have a choice. and no, that's not an exaggeration.

there are equally as many people who disapprove and judge these services, as there are punters who come onto the forum, complaining that a GFE provider doesn't kiss or offer OWO.

there are lots of risky industries and jobs. firemen quite literally run into danger but without them, we'd pretty much be screwed. that is to say that, in an already-risky profession, it is up to the professional themselves, to weigh the risks and take extra preventative measures as they see fit. in this industry, that means healthcare and caution and awareness around boudoir activities.

yes, some STIs do not show up visually - thus it is a responsible provider's job to be tested regularly and to follow safe sex practices. similarly, it should be EVERY provider's responsibility to learn the signs of what is / is not acceptable. here follows a quick guide on checking clients for (visible) signs of STIs.


Where to look:
- Lift the penis and have a good look around the genital area
- Lift up the testicles and pull back the foreskin
- Look over the tip of the penis
- Look between the area of the anus and penis or vagina
- Around the anal area
- Through the pubic hair
- Look between vaginal lips
- Look over mouth and lips for blisters and sores, especially if you kiss your clients

What to look for:
- Sores, blisters, rashes, and warts
- Itching, redness, swollen glands, unpleasant odour
- Crabs (pubic lice)
- Discharge or bleeding
- Look over the tip of the penis for inflammation

Milking the penis:
- Gently squeeze along the shaft of the penis to see if an abnormal discharge emerges that is distinguishable from pre-cum
- If it is milky, thick, yellowish, greyish and/or smelly it could be gonorrhoea
- Pre-cum can look normal but it may still be carrying STIs or BBVs


Final word:
It's best to check your client after you've received payment and before they have a shower or go to the toilet. Urinating can clear penile discharge and it will take approximately half an hour for it to build before it is visible again. Sometimes STIs can have no symptoms. So an absence of visible symptoms does not necessarily indicate an absence of STIs. For this reason, checking for visible signs of STIs should be followed by safer sex practices.

You can discreetly check your client for STIs while helping your client undress for the shower, when performing an erotic massage or giving them a hand job. Try to get as much lighting as possible while you inspect for visible signs of STIs by brightening the lights or turning all the lights on. Additionally, remember to wash your hands after inspecting their genital area to ensure you do not transfer bacteria from your client's genital area to your genitals.

Before starting your shift, try to organise a co-worker that can back you up and conduct a second inspection on the client if you are unsure or the client is insisting they do not have an STI. If you choose to continue with the booking, offer to provide an alternative service, such as a hand job or an erotic act like masturbating in front of them while they masturbate themselves.

Also kindly note that as a client, if this is a concern for you, you're encouraged to do like a big boy would, and communicate. I promise you that a professional, responsible provider will not take any offence to you asking her for a condom before she begins to perform oral sex on you. Also, even if she does perform covered BJs, the inspection is still necessary as a condom doesn't prevent the spread of pubic lice etc.

On 2024-02-29 14:31:18 Hazel Arabia said:
here follows a quick guide

That is not a quick guide and I am certain zero % of the girls do that inspections.

On 2024-02-29 14:38:36 Minime V10.1 said:
On 2024-02-29 14:31:18 Hazel Arabia said: here follows a quick guide

That is not a quick guide and I am certain zero % of the girls do that inspections.

when you know what to look for, inspection goes relatively quickly and doesnt happen under a microscope (unless.. ahem. nevermind) :)

the inspection itself usually happens during the massage part of the booking, thus before the genitals can even go in the mouth.

Thanks for the detailed inspection run down Hazel

I always do a thorough check... And just for interest sake, I have been told, that TCP always helps to disinfect before and after such an encounter

Anyways have a blessed day all

Any punters who went through such a detailed inspection (toilet test included)? Maybe Im just old and this is a new thing.

On 2024-02-29 14:45:38 Milah said:
Thanks for the detailed inspection run down Hazel

I always do a thorough check... And just for interest sake, I have been told, that TCP always helps to disinfect before and after such an encounter

Anyways have a blessed day all

much love, Milah <3

shame doesn't prevent these things from happening behind closed doors but only stops the spread of information. Super important to acknowledge our privilege and that others may not have the choices that we do xx

Hugs hunny

True story tho

XOXO

On 2024-02-29 14:50:32 Minime V10.1 said:
Any punters who went thru such a detailed inspection (toilet test included)? Maybe Im just old and this is a new thing.

perhaps you are! although I'm sure back in your day, providers still had ways of ensuring their wellness. and, would you care to share with us how many times you've picked up the clap, from receiving OWO?

I will admit that I'm not always the most diligent in following each of the above to the tee - especially where it concerns inspecting before the toilet (because frankly sometimes men enter the door with an already-full tank) .. much like every booking can't follow an ideal workflow. the above was *only* meant to be a guide. not The Ultimate Guide (TM)

have you considered what it is the provider is doing/looking at, while you're on your belly with her hands between your thighs? kisses x

On 2024-02-29 14:52:31 Hazel Arabia said:
On 2024-02-29 14:50:32 Minime V10.1 said: Any punters who went thru such a detailed inspection (toilet test included)? Maybe Im just old and this is a new thing.
perhaps you are! and, would you care to share with us how many times you've picked up the clap, from receiving OWO?

have you considered what it is the provider is doing/looking at, while you're on your belly with her hands between your thighs? kisses x

Never picked up anything (or give anything).

On my belly?? Ok, so, while Im on my back...What is she doing.....my penis is in her mouth so she cannot see it.