***TRANSSEXUALS ARE NOT A MONOLITH***

I've endured way too many instances where cisgendered people assume that all transwomen ("shemales") are the same.


"Transwomen don't like pussy." Some do, some don't. "Transwomen love dick." Some do, some don't. "Transwomen all have deep, masculine voices." Most do - some don't. "Transwomen all love biryani." Some do, some don't. I <3 a good veg biryani.

You catch my drift, I hope? We (trans folk) are INDIVIDUALS just like you cisgendered peeps.

I was slightly annoyed when a ciswoman that I was "entertaining" with asked me whether transwomen prefer fucking ass to fucking pussy. Oh the pressure! Now I had to answer on behalf of all transwomen. I'm sure, dear reader, that you will also come to the conclusion that the lady did not think her question through. IT DEPENDS UPON THE INDIVIDUAL - the INDIVIDUAL trans individual.

At least she was well informed when it came to the correct terminology. She did not refer to me as a "shemale". Kudos to her :-)

I know that I refer to myself as a "shemale" in my adverts, but that is utilitarian. It's probably the most widely recognised word in the adult industry used to describe transwomen. Shemale Porn! Wank you very much.

I was only ever called a "LadyBoy" once before. A Swiss German dude muttered to his friend (who was mesmerized when I walked by) "Sie ist Ja eine LadyBoy." I shot him a withering look. If you "clock" me and decide to "out" me, at least use the correct terminology, motherfucker.

If you wish to label me according to my extraction, then use the word HIJRA (Hindi). In the Polynesian culture, we are called FA'AFA FINE. In Mexico we are called MUXE. I believe the Brazilians refer to us as BONEQUAS.

If you choose to be kind and respectful towards transwomen, acceptable (welcomed and appreciated) terms are trans, T-girl, transwoman or even transsexual. LadyBoy is only acceptable when referring to Thai transsexuals (kathoeys).

Here is a casual interview by an Italian journalist of one of my favourite trans YouTubers, Eurasian ASHLEY ADAMSON. She discusses life for transwomen in Thailand and she categorises the 3 different types of LadyBoys. Very, very eye-opening (even for me) ...

m.youtube.com/watch

Here is an interesting video of LadyBoys. If the YouTuber reporting did his research properly, he would of realised that one of the reasons for Thailand being so tolerant and accepting of trans individuals (while the countries bordering Thailand are not particularly so) is because it was never colonised. One of only 11 countries that were not besmirched by colonialism.

m.youtube.com/watch

"What do I think of Western civilization? I think it would be a very good idea." (Mahatma Gandhi)

Yours INDIVIDUALLY,
LB69

Nice post Miss LeilaB. Don't like the term shemale myself. I say tgirl. I like the term ladyboy, find it cute. Normally I just say lady. The Thais girls I say lady to in the beginning, are quick to point out they are ladyboys. They seem to be worried that I misunderstood their ad, however, once that is cleared up they are ok with being called lady.

On 2024-03-04 08:59:32 9cloud9 said:
Nice post Miss LeilaB. Don't like the term shemale myself. I say tgirl.

Thank You 9CLOUD9 :-)

The term "shemale" is dehumanising, but very effective when advertising in the pay 4 play arena. And that's why I chose this term to advertise myself as. A t-girl's gotta do what a t-girl's gotta do ;-)

I have no qualms about being referred to as a "shemale" in this fantasy world. After all, I did sign up to be objectified by punters. However, outside of this arena and in private, personal situations, referring to me as such would be unwise.

In celebration of the term that helps me make my moola, here are some descriptions of SHEMALES ...

1) Chicks with Dicks (probably the most well-known one).

2) Girls with Guns (Cocked n Loaded - and hopefully of a good calibre).

3) Sluts with Nuts.

4)Bitches with Balls.

5)Broads with Swords (I think I just created this one?)

6) Knobs n Knockers (the name of an online store if I'm not mistaken ... lol).

7) Prossies with Sossies (Proudly South African. I came up with this one ... Heehee)

8) Totty n Titty Combo (I can't take credit for this funny one - read it on this very forum a while back). Thanks unknown author :)

9) *DRUMROLL PLEASE* ... TITS n BITS ... Hahaha


Order your SucKulent Shemale today (Mrs.Delivery ALWAYS Delivers)


Ps: A bit off colour, I know, but hopefully amusing? I am here to amuse ya'll :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

On 2024-01-31 20:32:50 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said:
On 2024-01-25 00:14:31 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said: ***MY APOTHECARY***

Apart from the obligatory love gloves (condoms) I also keep an impressive selection of playtime enhancers.

Sex toys, cockrings, restraints, paddles should just be standard items in any seasoned, professional adult entertainer's bag of tricks (my personal opinion).

Just the other day, a guest asked me whether I keep a "prolong spray". I offered him a choice of 2 different brands ;-)

I have an array of tabs to help keep the fun up ;-)
I have the popular RED DRAGON (available from most adult stores) and also those MAGIC BLUE PILLS. CIALIS (weekend Viagra) is also available at LBs APOTHECARY.

Then ... *DRUMROLL PLEASE* ... I have injectables, as used by porn stars, deftly administered by your Naughty Nurse.

Poppers (alkyl nitrites) are always available. I was gifted a bottle of BERLIN BLACK last week. NICE :)))))
*PRO-TIP* ... Keep your poppers refrigerated for maximum shelf life and efficacy.

I also keep a "herb kit" especially for my "HERBoys"... #PuffPuffPass

Beverages? That goes without saying, but if we are to spend more than 1 hour playing, please be considerate enough to bring along a beverage/s of your (our?) choice. ALWAYS APPRECIATED :-)

"OMG ... LB! ... can it get any better than this?!" ... I hear you excitedly exclaim. Ummmmmm ... no ... not really ... Hahahahahaha

Gentlemen, LeilaB aims to P-L-E-A-S-E. Cum on over and shoot your shot ...

Yours Cocked n Loaded,
LB69





[EDIT] ... Forgot to clarify - FULL ACCESS to MY APOTHECARY for extended and overnight bookings. Limited access to my apothecary for minimum (1hour) bookings.





***QUESTION #18***

*Do you travel with YOUR APOTHECARY, LeilaB?* ... Someone asked me this question recently.

*MY ANSWER* ... I believe the Yanks have drive-thru pharmacies. How convenient is that? I digress.

I travel with just a part of MY APOTHECARY. I try to travel light-ish.

I plan on taking myself and MY APOTHECARY (and SEXY wardrobe and makeup - STILLETOS included) down to the coast soon-ish ;-)

Yours IMMACULATELY,
LB69

Enjoyed this post. All those toys and enhancers must make for a fascinating and fun experience. Do you find that poppers enhance an orgasm significantly?
Anal beads are wonderfully erotic to both parties, each having their own set of course. Pulling them out just before or during orgasm can really result in toe curling epic orgasms.

On 2024-03-05 06:27:26 9cloud9 said:
On 2024-01-31 20:32:50 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said: On 2024-01-25 00:14:31 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said: ***MY APOTHECARY***

Apart from the obligatory love gloves (condoms) I also keep an impressive selection of playtime enhancers.

Sex toys, cockrings, restraints, paddles should just be standard items in any seasoned, professional adult entertainer's bag of tricks (my personal opinion).

Just the other day, a guest asked me whether I keep a "prolong spray". I offered him a choice of 2 different brands ;-)

I have an array of tabs to help keep the fun up ;-)
I have the popular RED DRAGON (available from most adult stores) and also those MAGIC BLUE PILLS. CIALIS (weekend Viagra) is also available at LBs APOTHECARY.

Then ... *DRUMROLL PLEASE* ... I have injectables, as used by porn stars, deftly administered by your Naughty Nurse.

Poppers (alkyl nitrites) are always available. I was gifted a bottle of BERLIN BLACK last week. NICE :)))))
*PRO-TIP* ... Keep your poppers refrigerated for maximum shelf life and efficacy.

I also keep a "herb kit" especially for my "HERBoys"... #PuffPuffPass

Beverages? That goes without saying, but if we are to spend more than 1 hour playing, please be considerate enough to bring along a beverage/s of your (our?) choice. ALWAYS APPRECIATED :-)

"OMG ... LB! ... can it get any better than this?!" ... I hear you excitedly exclaim. Ummmmmm ... no ... not really ... Hahahahahaha

Gentlemen, LeilaB aims to P-L-E-A-S-E. Cum on over and shoot your shot ...

Yours Cocked n Loaded,
LB69




Enjoyed this post. All those toys and enhancers must make for a fascinating and fun experience. Do you find that poppers enhance an orgasm significantly?
Anal beads are wonderfully erotic to both parties, each having their own set of course. Pulling them out just before or during orgasm can really result in toe curling epic orgasms.

Glad you enjoyed that post 9CLOUD9 :-)

I take great pains to provide the greatest Pleasures for my guests.

Even though I have a selection of toys (including anal beads) I am not the biggest fan of sex toys. I love giving and receiving The Real Thing ;-) There is just no way a toy could possibly compare to hard, throbbing meat pulsating within a tight welcumming hole. YES PLEASE :)))))))))))))))))))))

Having an orgasm whilst using poppers?
*AMAZING*
I only indulge in poppers when enjoying an all night or extended session. It sometimes gives me a headache, unfortunately.

For peeps who are not familiar with poppers, here is a short informative video ...

m.youtube.com/watch

***GOOD THINGS ARE WORTH WAITING FOR/CUMMING FOR/CUMMING WITH/CUMMING OVER***

I was inspired by my last review (here you go ... client.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php ...) to reassure and advise prospective playmates.

If you are not able to secure a booking with me immediately or if you find it difficult to get hold of me - Please Persevere. I will make it worth your while, I promise ;-)

I recently explained to a prospective client (who was obviously horny AF and wanted to have his way at the drop of HIS hat) that I definitely want his ca$h as much as he wants my body. So, *IF* I were available at the time that HE wanted to indulge, I would be there like a bear (or have him over). No brainer really.

Now I know that it's tempting to think that the world revolves around the tip of your erect penis, but I can say with certainty that it does not. I wish it revolved around mine, but I'll settle for you revolving around mine and vice versa. 2 Phalluses + 2 Magnificent Mammaries + 2 Sexy Derrieres = FUN, FUN, FUN :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

The only regret that many of my first-timers (as in first time with me) express, is that they did not get hold of me sooner. I am sorry about this happening (sometimes just bad timing) but I cannot and will not entertain a guest if I am not 100% Ready, Willing and Able to immerse myself completely in some Sexy Action with them. That won't be fair on them and it won't be fair on me either. That is why I work by appointment only and request enough notice from you when you book some Quality time with me.

So, rest assured, once an appointment with LB has been secured, a Good Time is guaranteed ;-)

Yours Ready/Willing/Able,
LB69

On 2023-12-04 20:36:20 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said:
On 2023-12-04 06:25:43 9cloud9 said: On 2023-11-19 22:24:03 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said: ***FROM LIFTOFF TO LIMPVILLE***

One of my regs visited me recently. I welcomed him at the door in sexy lingerie, got him a fresh towel and told him that I'd get us some beverages while he freshened up.

As he emerged from his shower, towel around his waist, I was reclining seductively on the bed in my black lace teddiette, fishnet stockings and high heels.

I handed him his drinksicle, then ripped his towel off and watched him go from "semi" to throbbing liftoff. I kissed him (not on the lips) to show him my appreciation.

Before I could allow him to reciprocate, his phone rang.
"Excuse me, I have to take this call", he said.
It was a woman's voice on the phone.We professional playmates know to be as quiet as a mouse when our guests attend to their calls.

He disappeared into the bathroom with his delectable "liftoff". When he emerged after call, he was as limp as a screaming queen's wrists.
"That chick on the phone was probably not so hot ," I said looking at his now deflated appendage.
"That was my wife," he replied.
Oops. Decided to do my best work ever and rather shut up till after the culmination of our tryst ... lol

*Note to self*
Keep snarky remarks to yourself during playdates.

Yours sheepishly,
LB69

LOL. I bet you skilfully and gently coaxed his little soldier respectfully back to attention and ready for action.


Oh yes ;-)

I sometimes get a curious look from some clients when I take their donation and count it (standard procedure) whilst also rearranging the notes right side up and straightening any dog ears on notes (might be a pedantic Virgo thing ... lol)

I sometimes explain that if you respect the money and treat it well, it always comes back to you :-)

Similarly, with c*cks, if you treat them (and their owners) skillfully and very well, they cum for you again and again and they cum back for more of you and your Skills ;-)

Speaking of Skills, we escorts develop an Amazing Skillset in this line of work, as mentioned by this Pro Domme (EVA O) in the first video on this thread ... client.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php


Ps: 9CLOUD9, your post has inspired me to do a post on some of the Skills I have amassed in this industry. Thanxxx

My Dearest Lads and Ladies, tomorrow I will post my very first post regarding the skills that I have acquired whilst being a trans escort/adult entertainer. Stay tuned ;-)

Oh yes, please do. Waitung with baited breath.

***SKILLS I'VE LEARNT WHILST IN THE ADULT ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY***

*** #1 WAITRESSING ***

Whilst living in London, "C", my gorgeous transgirlfriend from the Seychelles told me that a friend of hers wanted 3 attractive tgirls to serve refreshments at the opening party of his dance studio ("Strictly come dancing" participants were coached at this very studio.)

"Would you like to join ma cheri?" C asked me. "Sign me up!" I answered. I'm always up for interesting events.

I loan her a pair of my dancer's heels (we the same size) seeing as we were going to be on our feet the whole night, so glamorous, yet comfortable shoes were required.

We were briefed that we were to look like "Birds Of Paradise". Birds with birds. (lol) The third tgirl was "P", Malaysian and a qualified makeup artist. She did some very elaborate makeup for us. The seamstress, Svetlana, who designed our sexy red dresses, actually sewed them tightly onto our bodies. The dresses were so tight that we could not wear underwear. Duct tape was the order of the day when it came to "tucking" (hiding our candy.)

"Where you from Leila?" Svetlana asked me while sewing my dress to my body.
"I'm South African", I replied.
"One of da dancers, he also South African," she said.
"Is he gay?" I asked
"No, he like woman, I must introduce you," Svetters replied.
"Yes you must," I said smiling at C who was next in line to be sewn up and I rolled my eyes.

The guests started arriving. Lights, Camera, Action! The 3 BirdsOfParadise started serving their trays of snacks. All the guests were DRESSED TO IMPRESS. I really got into the swing of things. My first stint as a waitress/waitron/server. Loved the interaction with all these colourful folks.

I received quite a few compliments - many from one particular guest. He was a professional photographer.
"I'd love to have you in my studio Leila," he said.
"You want to ..... shoot me?" I smiled and asked.
"I'd love to. It will be the best pics you've ever had," he replied x-ray eyeing me.
I excused myself telling him that I have guests to attend to.

There was a group of 2 white gents and a gentleman of colour. There was a little boy (about 3yo) dressed in a little tuxedo, cute bowtie and all.
"Is this little man your son?" I asked the guest.
"Yes he is," he replied proudly.
"Is he allowed to have any of these snacks?" I asked while explaining what each type was.
I knelt down and offered him one of the snacks as his Dad advised him what to try. I got back up and served the 3 gents. The 2 white guys were very warm and courteous. The gentleman of colour was very standoffish.
"Can I get you anything sir?" I offered him
"Nothing for me thanks. There's nothing you can get for me," he replied curtly.
Wow. I was not even coming on to this person to be so rebuffed. I would usually "dagger look" someone who was being rude to me for absolutely no reason, but I just smiled courteously at the 3 gentlemen and said "bye-bye little man" to the guest's toddler.

I was sparkling like a diamond and I was not about to let anyone dull my shine. That night I was privileged to have met so many interesting people (including a few UK celebs).

I eventually ended up at the (onsite) bar (what a surprise) lol. The photographer had waited for me the whole night. Had a drink with him, took his business card, promised I'd get in touch.

Then it was time for the 3 BirdsOfParadise to fly off. The night and it's thousand eyes awaited ...

Your BirdOfParadise,
LB69

On 2024-03-10 22:24:47 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said:
***SKILLS I'VE LEARNT WHILST IN THE ADULT ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY***

*** #1 WAITRESSING ***

Whilst living in London, "C", my gorgeous transgirlfriend from the Seychelles told me that a friend of hers wanted 3 attractive tgirls to serve refreshments at the opening party of his dance studio ("Strictly come dancing" participants were coached at this very studio.)

"Would you like to join ma cheri?" C asked me. "Sign me up!" I answered. I'm always up for interesting events.

I loan her a pair of my dancer's heels (we the same size) seeing as we were going to be on our feet the whole night, so glamorous, yet comfortable shoes were required.

We were briefed that we were to look like "Birds Of Paradise". Birds with birds. (lol) The third tgirl was "P", Malaysian and a qualified makeup artist. She did some very elaborate makeup for us. The seamstress, Svetlana, who designed our sexy red dresses, actually sewed them tightly onto our bodies. The dresses were so tight that we could not wear underwear. Duct tape was the order of the day when it came to "tucking" (hiding our candy.)

"Where you from Leila?" Svetlana asked me while sewing my dress to my body.
"I'm South African", I replied.
"One of da dancers, he also South African," she said.
"Is he gay?" I asked
"No, he like woman, I must introduce you," Svetters replied.
"Yes you must," I said smiling at C who was next in line to be sewn up and I rolled my eyes.

The guests started arriving. Lights, Camera, Action! The 3 BirdsOfParadise started serving their trays of snacks. All the guests were DRESSED TO IMPRESS. I really got into the swing of things. My first stint as a waitress/waitron/server. Loved the interaction with all these colourful folks.

I received quite a few compliments - many from one particular guest. He was a professional photographer.
"I'd love to have you in my studio Leila," he said.
"You want to ..... shoot me?" I smiled and asked.
"I'd love to. It will be the best pics you've ever had," he replied x-ray eyeing me.
I excused myself telling him that I have guests to attend to.

There was a group of 2 white gents and a gentleman of colour. There was a little boy (about 3yo) dressed in a little tuxedo, cute bowtie and all.
"Is this little man your son?" I asked the guest.
"Yes he is," he replied proudly.
"Is he allowed to have any of these snacks?" I asked while explaining what each type was.
I knelt down and offered him one of the snacks as his Dad advised him what to try. I got back up and served the 3 gents. The 2 white guys were very warm and courteous. The gentleman of colour was very standoffish.
"Can I get you anything sir?" I offered him
"Nothing for me thanks. There's nothing you can get for me," he replied curtly.
Wow. I was not even coming on to this person to be so rebuffed. I would usually "dagger look" someone who was being rude to me for absolutely no reason, but I just smiled courteously at the 3 gentlemen and said "bye-bye little man" to the guest's toddler.

I was sparkling like a diamond and I was not about to let anyone dull my shine. That night I was privileged to have met so many interesting people (including a few UK celebs).

I eventually ended up at the (onsite) bar (what a surprise) lol. The photographer had waited for me the whole night. Had a drink with him, took his business card, promised I'd get in touch.

Then it was time for the 3 BirdsOfParadise to fly off. The night and it's thousand eyes awaited ...

Your BirdOfParadise,
LB69

A wonderfully cute little story! The Birds of Paradise dress is thus presumably the one gracing your ad page?

LB I've been following this thread for some time (as it's always a fun read) and I feel it may be time to take the plunge and make a booking!