Everyone in business and pleasure needs social skills. Good social skills simply make life more enjoyable, they grease the wheels of progress and encourage a smile in others.

Go to any number of bars or restaurants on any given day and you will see patrons treating staff appallingly and staff that seem to think you owe them a living. We all know where the service pleases us and where the staff seem to enjoy what they do, that’s where we go and return repeatedly. It’s the same with punters and WGs.

You get a particular type of person, we have all met them, that believes maintaining good manners and the ability to politely express an opinion is indicative of a person that has an over inflated opinion of their worth. You can do nothing for such people. They have poor social skills.

The key words have been mentioned already; emotional intelligence, social grace, etiquette. A lot of people believe these to be solely feminine traits and qualities, personally I don’t, men should practise them also.

Sadly we get faced by people that have no ability to recognise these qualities. So we get “she was a smelly assed bitch” and “well he didn’t even see me and if he did he was a [enter epithet of choice].” These people always have an always will exist. There is nothing we can do but rise above it, move on and chalk it down to experience.

The secret is never to lower one’s self to a level of discourse that is beneath you or to act in a manner that would shock your nearest and dearest. Be polite, be kind and if faced with disappointment do not return, or allow them to return.

I do not think that you can purchase quality in another person. You purchase a service and the impression of enthusiasm and enjoyment in another. You can however purchase a service and get enthusiasm and enjoyment for free. IF you encourage it in them through being decent humorous, open, sincere and pleasant. (i.e. Through good social skills) If someone does not appreciate your social skills then move on and simply don’t look back.

A good review works more on facts rather than perspectives. To be a bit extreme; “Personally I found the crack smoking Nigerian dude, dirty sheets and broken windows were not conducive to my enjoyment and it fell far below what I expect in a lady” Some people would not be put off by that scenario, the fact that you were does not mean you have to be insulting.

Similarly “she fucks for the A team and sucks like an Electrolux” is not exactly helpful. She is not alone, there are many that do. What added to the experience, what made it more than something you can quite frankly get on a daily basis.

So in summary, to answer “Do working girls need social skills?” or “Do punters require social skills?” my answer is a resounding yes. WG’s because it is good for business and punters because it will increase the level of pleasure.

Some really good points, le roux. In fact, you really speak a whole lot of sense.

I am unsure about social skills such as emotional intelligence, social grace and etiquette -- in women they speak for themselves, but in men too? Whilst I am sure that they are encouraged by western influences, are they considered to be a "must have" for men in general, or only punters?

@James... I would say yes. Social Skills in all men brings quite good rewards, both in our professional lives and personal lives. A man with good social skills will navigate through the myriad of relationships in his life with greater ease, this is certain

Put it this way, your boss has an issue with something you have done... you can a) argue your point forcefully and really piss your boss off, or b) allow him to say his piece and then have a calm, intelligent discussion that makes your point and allows your boss to concede while saving face... One of these requires social skills and one doesn't, one will result in favorable reviews when it's promotion time, one will result in being lucky to even get a half way decent reference when it's time to hunt for a new job.

The same goes for when you are dealing with the ladies on this site during appointments. If you are polite, gracious and treat the lady well (I don't mean simply giving her a bottle of plonk) she will relax more and generally be a lot more into the session as she feels a lot more comfortable in your company. This as opposed to her feeling slightly overwhelmed by the farting neanderthal scratching his balls while he demands a fuck.

I think I do need to clarify that I don't mean being very well spoken or being the most well presented, there is just no cure for fixing a face like a slapped arse... Simply put, politeness, chivalry, decency is free... so don't be stingy with it.

Many thanks deamonza -- I have to agree that politeness, chivalry, and decency are baseline social skills.

You say that "there is just no cure for fixing a face like a slapped arse... "
I have to agree that there is a time and a place for a really good PK. Also that it is not good form to hang around too much afterwards, too many temptations to escalate violence. This, for me, is an area where I tend to mostly withdraw from these days, because I learned my lessons the hard way.

On 2015-09-29 01:05:10 Jameslasting said:

You say that "there is just no cure for fixing a face like a slapped arse... "
I have to agree that there is a time and a place for a really good PK.

Dude, I think you misunderstood... I meant there is no cure, for having a face that looks like a slapped arse... hahahaha, in other words when you have a face like mine, having social skills is a very good way to get a girl to pay attention.

I did not mean issuing PK's... at all.