Hey all, to the Wg, out of pure curiosity, how has your thought process and life changed ever since you entered the business? If time could go back would you change your decision?

I think everyone would change their ways of the decisions they made if we could turn back time. Doesnt matter what u do for a living or how ur life is now.

So agree with what you say pumpkineater couldn't have said it any better. Best to just live in the present and little in the future and hopefully learn from previous mistakes. A nice imaginary thoughy but it probably have huge consequences is imagine having time travel devices like Dr who,or back to the future series.

I discovered my sexuality. I dont think without working id have been an inch of the sexuql being that I am. And I realised just how sexy and seductive I am.

On 2024-06-22 20:30:26 Pumpkineater said:
I think everyone would change their ways of the decisions they made if we could turn back time. Doesnt matter what u do for a living or how ur life is now.

I beg to differ. Regret helps none. Best to try to be content with who you are and what you do, as there's no telling whether different decisions would've brought about a better outcome.

Living in the past creates a blindspot to your future ...
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Interesting topic though ...

I would imagine, the industry amplifies whatever your experience was beforehand. If you had a good healthy outlook on sex, then likely you would find growth in that area; as seemingly the case with Ms. Ella

But if your experience was bad, possibly abuse, then likely your views on sex and men will be more negative.

But let me not generalize. The bigger question, what kind of support do sex workers need (whichever end of the spectrum they fall on)
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On 2024-06-23 12:43:49 J_J said:
Living in the past creates a blindspot to your future ...
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Interesting topic though ...

I would imagine, the industry amplifies whatever your experience was beforehand. If you had a good healthy outlook on sex, then likely you would find growth in that area; as seemingly the case with Ms. Ella

But if your experience was bad, possibly abuse, then likely your views on sex and men will be more negative.

But let me not generalize. The bigger question, what kind of support do sex workers need (whichever end of the spectrum they fall on)
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To answer your question from my point of view.

Yes we all go through trauma some time or the other, and we need counselling. But my opinion is dont try and change who I am. Just help me get through the trauma i had experienced. Dont try and force me to go to church cause im not a hippocrate, dont try and get me in a rehab, cause you probably have more addictions then i do. And dont try and get me out of the industry, at least im not stealing and robbing people and murdering people to make a living, and dont judge me for my choises in life. And my past has nothing to do with my future choices. And dont ask me why im doing this job. Im doing it cause i like sorry love to fuck. If anyone could give everyone of us the future we all wanted then this world would be a humanly created heaven. And we all would live like robots. But thats life. And thats why we live.

This song is a very nice way of saying what i want to say

Shinedown - Daylight

On 2024-06-23 08:51:59 Ms Ella said:
I discovered my sexuality. I dont think without working id have been an inch of the sexuql being that I am. And I realised just how sexy and seductive I am.

I believe you. Until you expose that perfectly well proportioned body, you fit thr profile of a conservative church girl

Shit - where is the like button for Miss Savaty's post !?!?!

On 2024-06-23 20:37:41 danwest said:
Shit - where is the like button for Miss Savaty's post !?!?!

I like Ms. Savaty view points as well ...