On 2024-07-01 07:21:45 Vrik said:
Think you may want to say "positive talk"
Some of the old tannies dripping with their bitterness may leave you more depressed when leaving.
:-)
@Vrik... Shame which old tannies have you been seeing?
Sure. One would expect that with regulars you kinda build a bond so if things are bad and they ask how's it going, us as woman would generally then share how it is going. If you dont want to hear it or feel depressed after - Thats a you problem, not a them problem. Golden rule here is to just not ask.
I've been guilty of this in the past. Loads of times. You think you can trust a visitor, and you have no one else to talk to, it's easy to just unpack, but I've come to learn that just rather not. Unless they specifically ask. Rather, now when my visitor says we'll chat about it when I'm there... I just play it off with : Why don't we rather just fuck the shit out of each other and we'll both feel better.
Also it's not cool to generalize. There is plenty old tannies that are more than willing to just listen and if asked offer some advice.
My opinion- I'd take an old tannie actually showing up, giving quality service, always making sure youre comfortable and happy any day above a young pretty one who really doesnt give a fuck. Just saying.
Before you come for me please note : I'm not an old tannie yet. But I'm also not young and pretty. I'm just an inbetweener, that has an opinion and always have way too much to say about everything.
Thank you very much.
Kisses
Ang