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Posted: 2024-07-13 08:53:32

If you can't afford what you want, maybe instead of throwing a tantrum, move on and try another lady? The service provider is not your girlfriend. She offers a service which you pay for, and have you ever thought what it feels like to have to kiss a man who's breath smells like onion or smoke? We spend a lot of money on good mouth wash to kill all the germs. So please, don't make a scene because you are actually the pain in the arse.
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Posted: 2024-07-13 08:55:05

Looking through a few of the previous, mine would be:

- the ongoing debate about the true definition of GFE? Does it include kissing, OWO etc because that is what I would expect from my Girlfriend (if I had one);

- the "to be discussed in the room" bullshit!! If a venue will not be open and honest about what a SP is willing to offer and the fee around her services, it is a hard pass for me;

- the comment above from Le Bijou about "fingers in her vagina" WTF is that about? I am sorry - I have been around for while on this site and have seen my fair share of ladies. Yes, a few have preferred not to be fingered but really, that generalised statement is just a load of crap and illustrates their lack of understanding of the industry.

Sorry Le Bijou, I definitely will not be visiting your establishment anytime soon.

- And finally, what is it lately with ESA's banning policy? A member has been banned for mentioning the receptionist at a Pretoria's establishments. That, in my view, is totally off the wall. It is not like she is or ever was a working girl - just a kind receptionist.

My 2c worth.

Might be banned - so long :)
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Posted: 2024-07-13 09:24:07
Edited: 2024-07-13 09:26:08

On 2024-07-13 07:53:48 Bobby Z said:
On 2024-07-12 13:29:21 Hazel Arabia said: On 2024-07-12 12:59:17 Le Bijou said: but I don't know one women who likes fingers in her vagina. It is not pleasing at all.

I was with you up until this point. What?

Yep. She lost me there. Plenty of women LOVE this!



I will cum incessantly on a couple of willful fingers, long before i even think of coming up for air... So actually, I pity the women who don't fully get the pleasure
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Posted: 2024-07-13 11:29:27

As a SP my pet peeve is when a punter makes a booking and everything has been discussed including boundaries and then proceeds to push those boundaries or better yet completely disregards them nevermind you as a human being and thinks it okay then when you put your foot down suddenly us SP's are the ones in the wrong BUT you as a punter disrespected us first nevermind being forceful and grabby which in turn leaves blue marks... honestly I have my set fees but I am always willing to accommodate my clients as best I can just not when they think they can still come in and show utter disrespect... FH does not necessarily mean GFE and I think that is where everyone is getting confused (just my 2 cents) also when phoning a lady ask her all these questions for clarity
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Posted: 2024-07-13 12:13:57

On 2024-07-13 11:29:27 Lianca said:
As a SP my pet peeve is when a punter makes a booking and everything has been discussed including boundaries and then proceeds to push those boundaries or better yet completely disregards them nevermind you as a human being and thinks it okay then when you put your foot down suddenly us SP's are the ones in the wrong BUT you as a punter disrespected us first nevermind being forceful and grabby which in turn leaves blue marks... honestly I have my set fees but I am always willing to accommodate my clients as best I can just not when they think they can still come in and show utter disrespect... FH does not necessarily mean GFE and I think that is where everyone is getting confused (just my 2 cents) also when phoning a lady ask her all these questions for clarity



Agree Lianca

If the services and fees are discussed and agreed upfront, then there should be no confusion going forward - definitely not during the session. In my mind, the lady has the right to stop ALL proceedings there and then and ask the gent to leave without any reimbursement.

You can actually add that to one of my pet peeves

- Guys that give us a bad names by acting like douches
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Posted: 2024-07-13 12:54:38

Absolutely!

On 2024-07-13 11:29:27 Lianca said:
As a SP my pet peeve is when a punter makes a booking and everything has been discussed including boundaries and then proceeds to push those boundaries or better yet completely disregards them nevermind you as a human being and thinks it okay then when you put your foot down suddenly us SP's are the ones in the wrong BUT you as a punter disrespected us first nevermind being forceful and grabby which in turn leaves blue marks... honestly I have my set fees but I am always willing to accommodate my clients as best I can just not when they think they can still come in and show utter disrespect... FH does not necessarily mean GFE and I think that is where everyone is getting confused (just my 2 cents) also when phoning a lady ask her all these questions for clarity

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Posted: 2024-07-13 14:17:22

On 2024-07-13 11:29:27 Lianca said:
As a SP my pet peeve is when a punter makes a booking and everything has been discussed including boundaries and then proceeds to push those boundaries or better yet completely disregards them nevermind you as a human being and thinks it okay then when you put your foot down suddenly us SP's are the ones in the wrong BUT you as a punter disrespected us first nevermind being forceful and grabby which in turn leaves blue marks... honestly I have my set fees but I am always willing to accommodate my clients as best I can just not when they think they can still come in and show utter disrespect... FH does not necessarily mean GFE and I think that is where everyone is getting confused (just my 2 cents) also when phoning a lady ask her all these questions for clarity



Get a "skok stok" for the hard of hearing and persistent ones!
First warning is what will follow if he persists.
The subsequent "skok stok" therapy can then be finished off with a healthy dose of pepper spray...please make sure that you stand up-wind!
Why should you be the one left with bruises!?
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Posted: 2024-07-13 14:55:15

My pet peeve (and it seems to be a craze lately) is clients that books and don't show or cancel 5min before the booking time. I know life happens, but it will only take you 30 seconds to type "sorry can't make it". You don't even have to say why. I mean 10min before the booking time you know you won't make it if you are still sitting in a meeting..... or clients that book an outcall for 3 hours, you drive 100km to him, gave him a very good discounted rate and after an hour and a half decides he is too tired to continue and think it's right to only pay half of your fee. To me, when a client does the above, shows me that he has no respect for me or my time, but expect or even demand that I must treat him with respect..... xx
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Posted: 2024-07-13 16:01:31

All it took was a "fingers in the vagina" comment for a venue to lose a client? Tough crowd, haha!

I've come to accept that the service provided by some ladies on here is not what it used to be so there's no point in complaining about it because the majority do not read the forum in any event.

The upside is that I got to experience the glory days and have had some of my best shags with the assistance of this site. As frustrating as it was sometimes, the good outweighed the bad back then.

There's one thing that has become apparent to me though if I were to compare "now versus then":

It appears to be an "every man for himself" attitude with the younger service providers judging by the comments on the site and from conversations with other service providers.

Yes, here and there you might find two ladies who are a united front - they stick together, counsel each other, give tips on service, hygiene and how to retain clients. But for the most part the younger ladies are going at it solo with an objective of making as much money and as quickly as possible and perhaps the hope of getting into a sugar daddy/blesser situation to have an Instagram worthy lifestyle.

Anyway, shout out to the gems that one meets every now and then. They deserve all the good karma that they are receiving and more.
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Posted: 2024-07-13 20:18:03

On 2024-07-13 14:55:15 Galaxy The Original said:
My pet peeve (and it seems to be a craze lately) is clients that books and don't show or cancel 5min before the booking time. I know life happens, but it will only take you 30 seconds to type "sorry can't make it". You don't even have to say why. I mean 10min before the booking time you know you won't make it if you are still sitting in a meeting..... or clients that book an outcall for 3 hours, you drive 100km to him, gave him a very good discounted rate and after an hour and a half decides he is too tired to continue and think it's right to only pay half of your fee. To me, when a client does the above, shows me that he has no respect for me or my time, but expect or even demand that I must treat him with respect..... xx



Get you!
Once had to cancel a booking one hour before it was due to start, due to something unexpected.
I was shitted on from all angles - LoL. Makes you doubt on whether to do "the right thing" and cancel...

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