Going to be looking for my first time punt (in the CPT area) towards the end of next month. Probably will be as nervous as ever, and it can either go good or bad. Might be a case of coming multiple times or my --- might not just rise to the occasion.

Any tips for first timers from experienced punters or WG's.

Lol, also the acronyms and terminology is new to me. OWO, ROAR, PSE, etc..

https://redbook.scarletalliance.org.au/abbreviations/

My advice is.

Just relax. You'll do fine.

Ask fellow punters for recommendations as a first timer.

Do your research. Find the girls you like the look of, read the reviews and read the responses to the reviews.

Miss Hazel Arabia would be a good choice.

/T

On 2024-08-17 08:47:21 Acid1234 said:
Going to be looking for my first time punt (in the CPT area) towards the end of next month. Probably will be as nervous as ever, and it can either go good or bad. Might be a case of coming multiple times or my --- might not just rise to the occasion.

Any tips for first timers from experienced punters or WG's.

Excitement is oftentimes misconstrued as nervousness, by the body.
My guess would be that you are, clearly, very excited, haha!

My advice: do not only rely on forum replies. Do your homework and apply logic & due diligence.
Not all amazing ladies are on the forum for various reasons.

I wish you a beautiful trip!

On 2024-08-17 08:52:40 Hazel Arabia said:
https://redbook.scarletalliance.org.au/abbreviations/

Awesome, thank you Hazel.
This should be a pin on the site!

My first time ...

It was a rather bad experience. Not because of the SP but because of me.

I had about 3 double shots of brandy before I had the courage to even send the message. And a whole lot more to build up the "numbness" I thought I needed to go through with the act. Needless to say I was just a piece of dead meat on the butchers block. And certain parts didn't perform as expected.

Whatever you do; don't do that!

About six months later I tried again. This time fully conscious and sober in the bright light of the morning. I had the most amazing orgasm. I think it was probably the first time I had an 'awake orgasm'. Felt my body like I never felt it before. I choose to remember that as my first ... and since then my experience has only been positive.
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Also be careful of your expectations and how that fits with the SPs service offering, and be careful not to impose your will onto someone else.

My summary of services on offer, and it is in no way comprehensive as there are many variations but maybe helpful to draw some distinctions for a noob. You may be seeking pleasure or companionship, or both. These are two very different things, but also often linked.

You may also not know what you looking for and only discover this on your journey. Nothing wrong with that; but ...

Don't impose your will on the SP. The services she provides is the services she provides. The SPs here are strong, which they have to be, because they've been through it all many times. But you could end up being one of the 'grumps' who come on here complaining about not getting what they want or the Egos constantly telling us that they get it from others but not from ones they want.

And even though they strong, don't fuck with someone else life. Just don't!

Thanks to everyone for the advice, even to the extent of posting/sharing the terminologies on a seperate thread.

Will definitely be looking for recommendations and nominations closer to the time.

When in Pretoria, please feel free to reach out....

Hahaha....dude found a punting forum before he found a SP.....somehow I think not

I also joined ESA before my first punt.

I liked to know what I'm getting myself into before I had my first punt.

The reviews and guidance of other punters helped a lot and made my experience so much better. Having a reference about a SP put my mind at ease that she isn't a dodgy character.

The SP recommended was so pleasant I went back for another visit, and have another booked allready for when I return to SA.