To be honest if you haven't started, don't get into it. This is an addiction just like any other vice,

On 2024-09-02 16:18:17 PricelessD said:
Run bro, there will always be a new WG you wanna chow.

You are so right!!! Its the gift that keeps on giving.

Theres a song by King George I discovered over the weekend.

"Cause one thing that I found out
I can't have one woman, gotta have three
One woman just to hold me down
One woman just to lift me up (oh yeah)
And I gotta at least have one woman on the side
That really don't give a fuck"

On 2024-09-02 14:23:20 Issy6969 said:
I am a 25 year old professional from Pretoria, I have been tired of dating and just looking to have fun for a couple of years b4 setting down one day.

I just want to know if I do go down the punting path, will I become so addicted that It will not be possible to be a faithful husband?

I was thinking maybe choosing 3 WGs who I can visit regularly instead of having a new WG every time would be a fine and wont cause much harm?

Too late, you already have a username.

Consider yourself fucked.

That was the short of it.

Here is the long...

Dear Issy6969,

Thank you for reaching out and sharing your concerns. It's commendable that you're reflecting on your desires and future goals.

Regarding your question, it's essential to acknowledge that engaging in frequent casual encounters can potentially lead to addiction, emotional attachment issues, or objectification. However, this outcome depends on various factors, including:

1. Personal boundaries and self-awareness.
2. The nature of your relationships with the women you choose.
3. Your emotional intelligence and ability to differentiate between physical and emotional connections.

Your idea of selecting a few regular partners might seem like a manageable approach, but consider the following:

1. Emotional attachment can still develop, even with a smaller number of partners.
2. Regular encounters can create a sense of comfort, potentially blurring boundaries.
3. The risk of STIs and unintended pregnancies remains, despite fewer partners.

To ensure your future relationships' well-being and your own, consider:

1. Reflecting on your motivations and emotional readiness for casual encounters.
2. Establishing clear boundaries and communication with your partners.
3. Prioritizing respect, consent, and mutual understanding.
4. Regularly assessing your feelings and adjusting your approach as needed.

Regarding your concern about faithfulness in future relationships, research suggests that:

1. Past behaviors don't predetermine future fidelity.
2. Self-awareness, communication, and commitment are key factors in maintaining healthy relationships.

To mitigate potential risks, consider:

1. Seeking guidance from a therapist or counselor.
2. Engaging in open, honest discussions with future partners.
3. Cultivating emotional intelligence and self-reflection.

Remember, your personal growth and self-awareness will play a significant role in navigating future relationships.

Best regards,

SuperFuck

Resources:

- National Health Service (NHS) - Sex and Relationships
- American Psychological Association (APA) - Healthy Relationships
- The Guardian - The Impact of Casual Sex on Mental Health

Omg hahaha.

You know you want to. Love this thread. Warning with a warm welcome and a little angel and devil on each shoulder. Gr8 job guys. Us ladies don't need to do the luring of new punters. The punters doing it for us. Super cool. Thanks guys. When you have him in we will do the rest lol. Mwas

Don't do it buddy, it's short lived pleasure, and you ultimately lose more than you gain.

You're gonna waste a shit ton of money trying to keep up with all your desires... And also, it will affect your sexual experiences with the women in your life.

On a different note, this can turn out to be some of the best sex you'll ever have, particularly if you have obscure fetishes and/or kinks.

All these ppl giving you advice and they also punting what a democratic lot. Lmao ya ne

My personal piece of advise before you start out on that punting journey.

Take a month.. treat the forum as a text book to pass an exam... read the forum as much as you can.. and learn from the ones thats been here through years and years of punting.

There many pieces of great advise hidden away amongst the everyday interactions amd posts. Sometimes from most unexpected sources.;) as demostrated on this thread alone.

Read about "school fees" punters paid.. try to learn from their mistakes before you end up in same situations.

Read about "the scams" going around.. take to heart the advise given regarding a punters phone etc and how to deal with the scams if you should encounter them.

Read threads where "punting etiquette" is discussed.. you will be surprised at how punters and ladies agree and disagree on certain things..

You will find info on what to expect in a massage appointmemt or a fullhouse or a fetish appointment.

Have a question that you might think the forum discussed before use the search function, use key words to find what you looking for, you will surely find atleast one thread somewhere having some answers.

Hopefully you will pass your (first test)first appointment with no hiccups and no drama and be back to tell a tale of pure bliss.

Good luck
And
Happy Punting

Go BIG or Go Home

Enjoy the few pleasures in life

As Kick implied - no emotional stress, no ties downs and variety is the spice of life