On 2024-09-11 09:20:29 Sinnlich said:
I made an enquiry and in return was requested to make a voicenote stating some information. Honestly I don't mind sharing the info... but the voicenote part scared me off. Maybe I'm paranoid, but seems like more ammo yo blackmail. Never mind that, with AI speech can be copied at 95% with less than 30 seconds of speech recording.
Don't know, maybe its just me that think this is a step too far?
On 2024-09-11 09:38:48 Need4Passion said:
I don't think about all that since getting a voice note doesn't mean you have to send one back. I would and do just type my responses 99.9999% of the time.
The real issue I have though is that most times, I'm not in avplace to listen/talk, hence I message to get details (to find out if service and price is suitable) and make arrangements so when I'm out of my uncomfortable situation, I can be in my way with the booking agreed. Now she sends you a voice note to shoot the breeze and probably half the info I need so there needs to be further enquiries anyway.
Like, here I am chilling with the kiddo trying to make a booking for when I drop him off at soccer practice and that voice note comes that I can't listen to with my son so fuck that booking. Let's see for another and I'll listen to the voice note some time later and 90% I never get back to it to make a booking.
Now, I'm a meeting trying to set up a pint for after work on my way home. Voice note. Nope, meeting finishes and I go home coz I don't have time to then listen to the voice note and start making all the arrangements from scratch. I could have been seeing you in the time.
Oh, now I'm with my girlfriend but I want something different when I leave her place in the way home. At least if I get all the info and can arrange a time if the info alligns to leave and punt great, but it's a freaking voice note so I just stay with the girlfriend and end up fucking since it's a guarantee then trying to pull teeth and go straight home.
And when I'm with my bras chilling at a braai and get in the mood but only half of them are punters and the other half will get pissed if you cheat on your hot girlfriend so you try to make a booking in the sly for when you leave and it's a freaking voice note which you can't listen to in front of them.
I get that for many, they might think the voice will be a turn on to secure a booking or it may seem quicker and more convenient for the sender but it isn't always convenient for the receiver.
And then many will say, oh just excuse yourself for a minute and go listen to the message. Ja right, it's never just one message, I have never once got all the info I need in one voice note. You'll then send one back or text back for another and another, and responses will be 10 minutes apart if you're so lucky. So you'll spend time being rude and away from whatever it is you're involved in or have everyone think you have diarrhea that you need to excuse yourself so many times.
There's my rant this morning.
N4P