On 2016-02-28 13:45:46 Bbw Nadia Blows said:
There's no definitive right or wrong answer. Everybody has to do what's right for them and their pesonal circumstances.
For many of us its not just about ourselves. I have a friend who has a very succcessful business: she has no issues with what I do, but she interacts with people who would have issues. And very often we cross paths with those people. I'm also involved with things outside of this industry where being a SW might be an issue. So yes, I'm not being entirely honest with most people I interact with.....but so are most of us.
A few years ago i posted an incident that happened with a friend. Her son-in-law saw her niece, face and all, on one of the adult sites. Now nobody cared too much when this lady was squatting on different people's couches with her kid. And nobody questioned what he was doing on an escort site. But then all of a sudden everybody wanted to get involve and get custody of her kid. And as far as I know she then disappeared and none of them have seen her in several years. If she's still in the business is a mystery. But i bet if she knew what the family were gonna do she wouldn't have shown her face.
Hats off to the ladies who DO and CAN show face. Not everybody is as brave and the cost to most mommy WGs isn't one they're prepared to or can afford to pay.