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I think I'm done
Posted: 2024-10-07 22:49:22
I've punting at least once a week for the last 15 years.
I fell in love with a Wg once.
She died of a drug overdose yesterday.
She's the third regular I've had that died young in the last year.
I think I'm done punting. I'm still young enough to do something else with my life.
Delete me.
I fell in love with a Wg once.
She died of a drug overdose yesterday.
She's the third regular I've had that died young in the last year.
I think I'm done punting. I'm still young enough to do something else with my life.
Delete me.
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Re: I think I'm done
Posted: 2024-10-07 23:30:59
Edited: 2024-10-07 23:33:30
Edited: 2024-10-07 23:33:30
I'm so sorry brother, there are a few WGs I know who are sadly addicted to substance abuse, that I genuinely get worried about them cause they good people....it such a dog eat dog world out there and they get caught in circumstances in that I wish life had dished out a better set of cards for them on life, hopefully, they see it too before it's too late to will a positive change, and realize they are unique, important and deserve a place on this Earth
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Re: I think I'm done
Posted: 2024-10-08 06:08:39
My deepest condolences xxx
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Re: I think I'm done
Posted: 2024-10-08 06:54:25
Edited: 2024-10-08 07:00:55
Edited: 2024-10-08 07:00:55
It's sad that people end up abusing substances in this industry. I can just imagine how broken she may have been.
Sadly sometimes it's not them being broken that leads to the abuse. I knew a lady who turned to using substance to cope with the job one day she had a really nasty client like some of the forum dwellers and she ended up taking her own life at first everyone thought it was a overdose but it was suicide. The problem is that faulty people often don't realize what they do to other people or how vulnerable they are or they just don't give a damn because of our line of work what ever the reason not all individuals who do this work is mentally built for the job and it just takes 1 mean spirited person to push them over the edge. Sadly of late there are lots of them hiding behind a member profile on ESA and my guess is if they are meanspirited in a anonymous platform you can only imagine what they are like in person.Most of them don't even care if this is the type of impact they may have on other.
Years ago there where still guys who actually cared on this platform but the bullies would call them white night which they were or pussy struck as a result most of those guys don't even use this platform. I can think of a number of such amazing punters now they just amazing in person and they don't care for this platform anymore.
Moral of the story is think how you may be infecting or affecting another human being before acting you never know the silent battles they might be fighting.
My heart goes out to the lady's loved ones during this difficult time.
Sadly sometimes it's not them being broken that leads to the abuse. I knew a lady who turned to using substance to cope with the job one day she had a really nasty client like some of the forum dwellers and she ended up taking her own life at first everyone thought it was a overdose but it was suicide. The problem is that faulty people often don't realize what they do to other people or how vulnerable they are or they just don't give a damn because of our line of work what ever the reason not all individuals who do this work is mentally built for the job and it just takes 1 mean spirited person to push them over the edge. Sadly of late there are lots of them hiding behind a member profile on ESA and my guess is if they are meanspirited in a anonymous platform you can only imagine what they are like in person.Most of them don't even care if this is the type of impact they may have on other.
Years ago there where still guys who actually cared on this platform but the bullies would call them white night which they were or pussy struck as a result most of those guys don't even use this platform. I can think of a number of such amazing punters now they just amazing in person and they don't care for this platform anymore.
Moral of the story is think how you may be infecting or affecting another human being before acting you never know the silent battles they might be fighting.
My heart goes out to the lady's loved ones during this difficult time.
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Re: I think I'm done
Posted: 2024-10-08 07:11:59
Sorry it's heartbreaking
www.beataddiction.co.za/
Example: Heroin addiction - recovery rate has dropped to 2.5 percent. (Rehabs, out patient programmes etc).
Recovery rate at above link is 98 percent.
I think it is now government funded. Was very expensive.
Also great for alcoholism.
www.beataddiction.co.za/
Example: Heroin addiction - recovery rate has dropped to 2.5 percent. (Rehabs, out patient programmes etc).
Recovery rate at above link is 98 percent.
I think it is now government funded. Was very expensive.
Also great for alcoholism.
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Re: I think I'm done
Posted: 2024-10-08 07:26:52
Edited: 2024-10-08 07:27:58
If I may add to this.
Check out this awesome AA app that has everything you could need!
www.tanukitech.dev/everything-aa
Edited: 2024-10-08 07:27:58
On 2024-10-08 07:11:59 Mandy said:
Sorry it's heartbreaking
www.beataddiction.co.za/
Example: Heroin addiction - recovery rate has dropped to 2.5 percent. (Rehabs, out patient programmes etc).
Recovery rate at above link is 98 percent.
I think it is now government funded. Was very expensive.
Also great for alcoholism.
If I may add to this.
Check out this awesome AA app that has everything you could need!
www.tanukitech.dev/everything-aa
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Re: I think I'm done
Posted: 2024-10-08 07:30:40
Damn for some reason the link is not working here but I'm sure it can be copy pasted into the search bar. I'm also happy to send the link via what's app as it seems to work just fine there as this programe has help the people I know who has used it.
On 2024-10-08 07:26:52 Arhwen said:
On 2024-10-08 07:11:59 Mandy said: Sorry it's heartbreaking
www.beataddiction.co.za/
Example: Heroin addiction - recovery rate has dropped to 2.5 percent. (Rehabs, out patient programmes etc).
Recovery rate at above link is 98 percent.
I think it is now government funded. Was very expensive.
Also great for alcoholism.
If I may add to this.
Check out this awesome AA app that has everything you could need!
www.tanukitech.dev/everything-aa
Damn for some reason the link is not working here but I'm sure it can be copy pasted into the search bar. I'm also happy to send the link via what's app as it seems to work just fine there as this programe has help the people I know who has used it.
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Re: I think I'm done
Posted: 2024-10-08 07:32:17
Jirre dude. If I have to mention how many WG's I have pomped that are no longer around.....
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Re: I think I'm done
Posted: 2024-10-08 08:12:19
This is heart breaking I'm actually crying. I'm really sorry love. I hope time heals your loss...
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Re: I think I'm done
Posted: 2024-10-08 08:42:15
This is heartbreaking..... truly! Someone's family and friends had the worst day ever yesterday or the day before. Hearts were shattered!
I have no words....,
I have no words....,
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