My take, this is big boy rules, so if the punter and the SP are willing to risk it, then it's their business.
The actual issue IMO is the unsuspecting wife or girlfriend (or Angie) that runs the risk of getting infected with their only crime a trusting nature.

On 2024-10-12 15:12:36 StaalBurger48 said:

The actual issue IMO is the unsuspecting wife or girlfriend (or Angie) that runs the risk of getting infected with their only crime a trusting nature.

Exactly!

I have much more respect for someone that is upfront and tells me, listen, This and this happened. I might not like it but atleast it gives me a choice. Which I and anyone else 100% deserves actually.

Had this been done, i probably wouldve agreed to wait a bit and make sure he's okay and then go about our business again. But I wasn't respected enough to have a choice, so, now no matter what a sweetheart / dumbass he is...I will never see him again...

Kicker is, i was giving this guy a free pedi's and a free shave while sitting on his lap. I even bought him his favorite shirt and panties that I keep aside just for him on my own expense. We always go over and i honestly dont mind. I go out of my way for my regulars because I valued
and respect each one of them! I just expect the same in return. And that's the crux of the matter. Sadly I've lost a few really good ones because of the same type of shit happening on different levels and while I know that for the single ones, variety is the spice of life. Fuck i properly enjoy variety just as much as they do, and thats why im probably still in the business.
But I picky, and if i feel ive been compromised, or having a bad day or not feeling okay, i wont see anyone till i know im good. I dont even have a partner and wont have one till i retire one day and know everyone is safe...

But as we all know, boys will be boys, and boys does the most dumbest shit sometimes when using the other brain, and that's never gonna change. But atleast be considerate enough to give us the a choice,okay? PLEASE!

Thank you.

Done with the vent for now haha. Good night kisses to everyone!

Ang

But Angie, aren't you assuming here and making decisions based on assumptions? You're cutting the guy off, a good regular as you say based on that assumption.

Just because he saw a lady that offers anal "probably bare", does not mean he did anal bare with her. Maybe you should just ask him? Personally, I like pussy so even if I visit said lady and she offers me anal, I'm not even gonna ask for it and I definitely ain't doing it bare if I ever do go that route. Just took risky as you pointed out and I don't want any shit, pun intended.

Then, what if he did do anal and used the condom as most people I think actually would? Then it's pretty much sucking the same protected dick that was in a condom like any other booking. Doesn't really make a difference where that condoms been, it's disposed off somewhere else now.

Ask the dude and make decisions based on facts instead of assumptions. Might be better for business.

N4P

On 2024-09-18 09:45:27 Mike Hope said:
I agree with you Kooni, many years ago in my youth I had taken an SP back to a hotel for an all nighter. When we got back to the room after drinking and gambling most of the night we discovered neither of us had condoms. It was either cancel the booking and part ways which meant she would lose out on cash and my young nuts would be full or just go BB.
Booze and youthful naivety won over and foolishly I ended up spending months sweating about STD's

Lol ... I can't comprehend.
Petrol station opens 24 hours isn't it?

On 2024-10-14 06:04:08 Need4Passion said:


Ask the dude and make decisions based on facts instead of assumptions. Might be better for business.

N4P

You're preaching assumptions, yet here we are...

I did ask, and the reply I got was, In his words - I'm a dumbass and I fucked up. I'm sorry.

Anything else @N4P ?

On 2024-10-14 12:40:42 Angie said:
On 2024-10-14 06:04:08 Need4Passion said:

Ask the dude and make decisions based on facts instead of assumptions. Might be better for business.

N4P

You're preaching assumptions, yet here we are...

I did ask, and the reply I got was, In his words - I'm a dumbass and I fucked up. I'm sorry.

Anything else @N4P ?

Probably would have been helpful if you said that before. But yay, happy it worked out for you.

N4P

On 2024-10-14 07:37:48 Allora said:
On 2024-09-18 09:45:27 Mike Hope said: I agree with you Kooni, many years ago in my youth I had taken an SP back to a hotel for an all nighter. When we got back to the room after drinking and gambling most of the night we discovered neither of us had condoms. It was either cancel the booking and part ways which meant she would lose out on cash and my young nuts would be full or just go BB.
Booze and youthful naivety won over and foolishly I ended up spending months sweating about STD's

Lol ... I can't comprehend.
Petrol station opens 24 hours isn't it?

Was on about the 50th floor of a really upmarket hotel in a big city in Europe, not a dingy flat behind a petrol station in Pretoria

Hahahahaha...
I guess lesson learned in a hard way in your case.

50 floor building, upmarket hotel, nearly cost you your life hun.

Well :) let's celebrate the fact that you survived it all, shall we? My darling punter.