The reason i punt. I have low esteem and low condidence. Is there a lady whom can help with this. I took up punting as i know how to make money and spending it on ladies. i know in real life most ladies here would never give me a second look. Is there a lady whom can help me with my self confidence dilema.

Confidences is sometimes so overrated.. ;)...dont get too hungup about the no confidence part....when the right person crosses your path you wont think about confidence or lack thereof..nature will do its thing..like it should.;)

On 2024-10-12 19:29:20 GTR9000 said:
I know in real life most ladies here would never give me a second look. Is there a lady whom can help me with my self confidence dilema.

Have you ever seen some of the lady's boyfriends? I would be offended if they did give me a second look.

Disclaimer: Ladies, before you burn me at the stake, please remember I am generalizing.

Confidence.



Pressures to meet fickle demands society places on one makes it no easier especially if one is questioning of self.

Confidence is not a thing one can pull out of a hat like a rabbit, a magic trick, if one feels it is lacking.

There are those that make one feel more comfortable with oneself than others....and the more time one spends with such people, the greater the probability you will gain "self worth" and shine without worrying about the "lack" of "confidence"... that comfortable self awareness and acceptance of what one deems one's own shortcomings.


One can be a leader, a successful entrepreneur, confident in business but, socially...awkward. ...as you said.


Not all of us a made the same way.


And that is perfectly fine. The integrity of being oneself without pretense.

I am something like you yet, here I am in a space where one would imagine there should be no lack of confidence.

It is called being human and to never lose touch with that part of oneself.

I like the socially awkward...maybe because I consider myself one...?

Smile and know there are many who will find you extremely endearing.

RB.

Whilst sucess may be the envy of others. The world is lonely.it lonely at the top. Some time there is no time to do what you want too. Spoiling some else is choice. But punting kills my confidence but i still do it. Life is a double edge sword.

You have mail

On 2024-10-12 19:29:20 GTR9000 said:
The reason i punt. I have low esteem and low condidence. Is there a lady whom can help with this. I took up punting as i know how to make money and spending it on ladies. i know in real life most ladies here would never give me a second look. Is there a lady whom can help me with my self confidence dilema.

Let's go have lunch and a few drinks sometimes you just need some good ppl around you.

You right the wacky fun people left my life years ago.. now it is all serious wannabe " im so rich" pretencious idiots that roam the earth. I am need of a pep up.. but loniliness is a bummer at times. Dont ever be fooled by smile or a loud voice.. deep down something makes us all regret ans sad

On 2024-10-14 22:04:15 GTR9000 said:
You right the wacky fun people left my life years ago.. now it is all serious wannabe " im so rich" pretencious idiots that roam the earth. I am need of a pep up.. but loniliness is a bummer at times. Dont ever be fooled by smile or a loud voice.. deep down something makes us all regret ans sad

Aaaaaaaa .... GTR9000.

The measurement of self by the car one drives, ones address, social media demanding "slick and quick"...the profanity of aspiring to Hollywood plastic, a life of easy come and easy go, old values shunned and laughed at, fickleness in relationships from parent and child, to spouses, to friends....

Loyalty , integrity not only toward others but, toward self an unknown.

This "flow" thing...mental confusion being one thing one day and another the next.

Gender being shamed so that all things must now be "its"

Any form of custom and tradition attacked using any excuse to do so.

It is called

Capitalism

and your humanness as well as mine and many others will take second seat to the flash trash and sheep chasing the next monetary fix.

You are not alone.


:)

RB.

Confidence is the key
If u stop worrying to much what women think of u .U will be confident and become yourself.
Women likes a man with a good personality.