Ladies we love you but can I please share some insights from a man's mind....
Boys feel free to add!

Great outfits - we have our likes but when you make the effort and dress up and oooze confidence and appeal because you feel it we see it and ooh it works....

Being comfortable - trust me there are some of us here that will rock up clean and presentable and wanting you to like us..... Unfortunately sometimes our efforts go unnoticed and that's when we have those regrettable punts

Bjs - please do experiment especially when I've come clean.... Oooh tongue out during the blow yes mama

The twins - please don't put both balls in the mouth and vacuum suck sometimes it actually hurts or theres no sensation. Some of us like then gently licked....

The shaft - please do lick from bottom to top. Not only deephtroat rushed.

The stroke - I love it when you guide me to which strike suits you.... Trust me there's many angles, depth, pace we are capable of. Some of us like to see you moan when we get it right.

Nerves - ladies to me you're all queens so also read me when I enter and help make it comfortable for both of us cos to be honest as soon as I arrive that's my only objective. If you're comfy then I know trust can be built then we both have fun.

Money exchange - if I do come presentable and you can see I'm a good guy don't just ask for it. I know it's tricky for you cos there's some assholes out there but I also know you can pick up that energy very quickly so know that I'm also trying to set your mind at ease. If you see this treat us the same please.

These small things make it worth it because trust me I've had many regrets after a punt immediately and it doesn't make it worth the try sometimes.

I usually end up with a regular for long periods of time.

Thank you beautiful ladies for being here for us.

When I'm on my way and you are running late to get ready for me ease communicate it, I will allow you more time. take that shower and put on that outfit please we are human we understand don't welcome me in your sleepers have nice heels on

All valid points mentioned..and noted..

...only disagree on one...;)

Money exchange..

Never should a lady feel the need to ask for the agreed fee..;)

After the greetings, a punter that values discretion, will place the "admin" on an entrance table or coffee table or dresser, he will make sure she notices this but wont need to say anything..;)

Then proceed to shower or to wash hand if you dont need to shower.

A service provider that values discretion, will use your freshen up time to "check" on the "admin" or not ;) depending on if there had been trust built between the two of you.

With admin out of the way there is no reason for anyone to not get down to business and get fully engaged in the session.;)

100% Miss Red you beautiful woman. I think there's a moment where we read each other. So yes agreed I'm reading the situation to see what makes you comfortable. Gosh it's so touch and go these things. Cos we also are looking for a comfortable exchange. So I hope I get it right everytime.....

May I add to this list:
1. Clean, Dry and Fresh Towels.
2. Soap, or some form of hand/body wash.
3. Wet wipes.
4. Don't make me wait at your gate for 100 - 150 seconds.

This is a great post. As for money exchange, let's allow ourselves to be guided by the ladies in that regard.

A simple think like a "hanger" for my clothes makes a big difference and the BED.

There are some real dilapidated beds, and if the bedding itself are not in a great condition then its even worse.

Have to mention, never had any concerns about the "plinths" in used for massage, even when FH were on offered using the plinth.

Fancy outfits, heels etc do nothing for me.

Plain dress/ skirt, no make up, sandals are my preference. And irrespective of whether I have just showered I will shower again on arrival and always display good manners.

By doing these small things I usually (99,9% of the time) I get a great response from the lady and the small things become regular things that we do.

My motto is simple...don't be a doos and the small things will take care of themselves.

Great inputs guys.

@goofy, for me a sultry costume never goes wrong, but making a connection with the lady is far, far more crucial to making the encounter unforgettable. My finest encounters were both those with sexy outfits and those with plain clothing. There was a connection between us in each of these situations.

Being courteous is fitting for a gentleman and makes for a more positive encounter. The lady will probably respond in a similar manner, as you mentioned, and the little things will take care of itself.

This is a great topic Albavg17, and you sir (also the other gentlemen) sound like a real mensch. This is what I've always believed punting to be about; a gentleman meeting a lady (yes of course there's the transaction aspect but be that as it may).

I also agree with goofy, lingerie and all that jazz is not important to me. In fact I'm always happier to find the lady wearing her normal clothes even a gown or PJs. I just love the girl next door vibe.