What fetishes do you want? dont be shy tell us all.

Did not read all the replies, but if your are 22 and earning more than avarage and looking for a bargain punt then you are an ass. That is like going for a wacky wensday and asking for an extra free burger. Start living and move out of your parents house.

On 2024-10-16 16:56:17 Chizu said:
All I want is a girl

Ok

In the last two months I've had about 7 clients aged from 27 - 34....

1 didn't pay my full booking fee.
2 asked to take me out for drinks.
1 asked to take me out for coffee.
5 of them did not respect my boundaries within the booking and contacted me after hours...
Only 2 out of 7 were respectful.

Past experiences with younger men were the same.
Younger men wanted to pay less, expected freebies/looking for fuck buddies/gfs, or were flat out disrespectful.

This isn't a dating site or a place to pick up fuck buddies.

You pay us for our time.

Every older client that asked me out for drinks, coffee lunch etc. paid for my time.
The older gents understand that we are running businesses and that we provide for our families and that trying to date a WG just won't work out because you cannot look after her/& her family financially so she cannot just leave her job because she needs it.

Entry level salary in a "normal" job is R4k to R6k pm...
Majority of WGs are single moms and cannot survive off that let alone can any single person survive off that pm...
Then you get men who complain that they don't want to look after women financially but expect her to drop her job for you and suffer?

There's no guarantee for us ladies that if you take us out of the industry that you will support us financially while we find new jobs, finish studies etc. and that you will be committed to us and in it for the long haul.

Most WG/punter relationships end in heartache because a relationship takes a lot of work and sacrifice and punters are here because they don't want to put in the work and make sacrifices, they just want NSA services...

Most younger men are still immature, cocky, and don't understand how this industry works... so that is my honest opinion on why most girls prefer older men.
If we wanted a fuck buddy or dinner, we'd go out with people outside of this industry...

(There are also older men who don't get this concept either, but very few compared to the younger guys).

Older gents also ASK what ladies like rather than pointlessly fucking us for hours on end and we don't even orgasm because you assumed all women are the same and cum on command like ladies in porn movies.

It boils down to maturity and respect at the end of the day for me which the younger gents are yet to learn...

You also complained about them charging you millions.... Again, you are paying for a service, if you can't afford an all night with an escort then why are you here?

@Ashleigh

Wow what a straight forward honest post! Well said my lady and so true. It gives a bit more perspective into the shit an SP has to deal with on a daily basis.

Never thought I'd be glad to be classified as an "older man". Lol!

Some entertaining posts on this thread. Had a good laugh.

Thank you, GK <3

You're one of the good guys xoxo

Hey young studs :)

I suggest you guys get pointers from your fellow punters who have been around a bit and "get" how to operate in this world.

But choose wisely who you take advice from. Look to somebody like Shadow Hef (hi Shadow) who gets around respectfully and knows how to get the most out of this life.

Don't get sucked into the redpill rhetoric / Andrew Tate followers who give bullshit advice (negging and negotiating). That shit doesn't work on women in their 40s, you will be met with amusement at best, scorn at worst.

Arrive on time. With cash in your hand, unless otherwise arranged PRIOR to the appointment. Clubs and restaurants may be going cashless out there but in this world we still love cash ;)

Be kind and remain a little humble - an older woman can really accelerate your sex game but you have to be teachable. Drop the ego along with your pants :)

OP: What fetish services are you into? It seems like you are after a niche service at a budget price, despite "earning too much". Do you see the disconnect?

Love you guys *kiss*
L xx

Looking back I was definitely a bit of a dickhead occasionally when punting in my youth

Personally, I don't know why younger guys even bother punting. This is for married men and thereafter.

The young guys have everything at their disposable for hook-ups. Chicks are just out there to have fun, not looking to settle down. Young guys have the time and energy without all the family responsibility so it's flippen easy to get laid. It's so easy to workout and be in good shape and be attractive to women. Why they choose this is beyond me.

N4P

Do not worry Lauraji.
Tu toh ekdum mirchi ho,bilkul Tikka.

Guys are not having to take it red pill,blue pill or whatever colour pill during session by you.

Even older bhais.