Yah..." It just doesn't make sense to me"

On 2024-10-24 08:19:59 Candice Lumi said:
It truly makes no sense.

On 2024-10-21 09:45:52 ~Taps~ said: I really am at a loss here. Let me set the scene: Friday afternoon, I made contact with one of the ladies on the site. I was genuinely complimentary and respectful towards her. I requested a custom video- The video was fairly mainstream, a little tease and self play but I also checked she was comfortable with it first. We agreed to everything, including the price- which was quite a handsome amount: R1000 for a 15min video.
Now, I'm well aware of the vast range of services I could get at that rate- it wasn't naivety, it was a purposeful choice to support a local lady.
As we chatted, she expressed some social difficulties and asked if I'd be willing to support her by purchasing more content- I obliged. She asked for some time to make my video and I understand her day had prior commitments- again, I obliged.

So essentially, there she was- set up with a respectful, complimentary, compassionate guy who genuinely wanted to support her. Moreover, the potential for a repeat customer.

I'm sure you can guess how this ends- empty promises, excuses and close to 3 days later still no video! I'm just a bit flabbergasted- why not just take a few minutes and make the video? Why burn this bridge? Also, souring the pond for other, more honest ladies.
More outrageous still, every few hours she continues to post on the advertiser forum.

No it doesn't make any sense....

I notice this often complaining of SP's. No name and shame, other SP's replying more than happy to deliver at better rates / service ect....

Zero acknowledgement to them. Dead silence from complainer then members taking the turn to bash each other, so the thread is no longer relevant to original issue.

BUT.... somehow goldmembers "know" who she is, while the rest of us remain non the wiser. You will find she will still be supported financially and with glowing reviews, the rest of us ignored.

So besides the advertiser thread where I post specials ect...This was my very last interaction on this clique- general forum.

I left this sort of BS behind the day the last school bell rang for me back in 2007 with my middle-finger up in the air xo

On 2024-10-24 11:24:36 Morticia Sensuelle said:

No it doesn't make any sense....

I notice this often complaining of SP's. No name and shame, other SP's replying more than happy to deliver at better rates / service ect....

Zero acknowledgement to them. Dead silence from complainer then members taking the turn to bash each other, so the thread is no longer relevant to original issue.

BUT.... somehow goldmembers "know" who she is, while the rest of us remain non the wiser. You will find she will still be supported financially and with glowing reviews, the rest of us ignored.

So besides the advertiser thread where I post specials ect...This was my very last interaction on this clique- general forum.

I left this sort of BS behind the day the last school bell rang for me back in 2007 with my middle-finger up in the air xo

I can assure you gold members do not know who these nameless ladies are. If someone really wants to know then they send the punter a personal message.

Please understand that when someone does an anonymous complaint, it is because they just want to let off some steam. It is about them and not the community.

So please don't run away, you presence is enjoyed.

On 2024-10-23 17:50:11 Need4Passion said:
On 2024-10-23 15:54:11 Teletubby said: On 2024-10-23 13:00:27 ...

I don't need to join a debating club - arguing is basically what I do for a living.

Better get a new job then coz you suck at it. Feel sorry for your clients, just wasting their money talking shit.

Gosh, I was gonna leave you alone but you just make it too easy. Go take your meds.

N4P

My previous response seems to have been rejected by the moderators (not sure why, it was entirely within the rules), so trying again. (As an aside to the moderators: Haven't I been in moderation jail for long enough now? I've been a good boy and promise to behave)

I'm actually very good at my job. In legal proceedings, the 'debate' is settled on the strength of the respective arguments - one side doesn't get to do the equivalent of sticking their fingers in their ears and say "I'm not reading that" when their argument is blown out of the water, or strut around like they've won just because they called the other side a bunch of simps. Both of which you're notorious for doing here.

Btw if this is "too easy", then you should be better at it.

On 2024-10-24 12:28:39 majorjohn said:
On 2024-10-24 11:24:36 Morticia Sensuelle said:
No it doesn't make any sense....

I notice this often complaining of SP's. No name and shame, other SP's replying more than happy to deliver at better rates / service ect....

Zero acknowledgement to them. Dead silence from complainer then members taking the turn to bash each other, so the thread is no longer relevant to original issue.

BUT.... somehow goldmembers "know" who she is, while the rest of us remain non the wiser. You will find she will still be supported financially and with glowing reviews, the rest of us ignored.

So besides the advertiser thread where I post specials ect...This was my very last interaction on this clique- general forum.

I left this sort of BS behind the day the last school bell rang for me back in 2007 with my middle-finger up in the air xo



I can assure you gold members do not know who these nameless ladies are. If someone really wants to know then they send the punter a personal message.

Please understand that when someone does an anonymous complaint, it is because they just want to let off some steam. It is about them and not the community.

So please don't run away, you presence is enjoyed.

Thank you xo
Any and all support is appreciated right now.

Been through hell and back the past 3 years. I'm playing full time nurse, cleaner, cook, gardener, pool boy to a sick bed ridden mom. Dad's gone since Feb 2022.

And I'm playing full time dark goddess, femme fatal masseuse and escort aswell, because financial implications all fell on my shoulders.

With my dad's passing it took 3 years up to last month to finalize the deed. This set me back about R120k in laywers fees, municipality bills ect...

So currently it's hand to mouth because this whole story left me milked dry with all my savings gone. But it's R120k placed in a R400k investment as the house is my inherentance which I share with 2 brothers.

So it's been tough but I'm still smiling and trying. And I'll continue to do my best up until my body says I'm finally done with death (rockstar fingers).

But good to know people enjoy black goats too. Now i also let off some steam xo

God bless you Morticia, you're a sweet soul

Hi beautiful people! Thanks for all the messages in support of this. This really can be a great community!

It's absolutely true there's tons of diverse porn and other visual platforms. Cheaper, even free. For me, it genuinely is about supporting the ladies on this site whom we all appreciate and endear- ladies just trying to make ends meet. And of course, it's often an alluring introduction into a physical meet up- builds rapport and anticipation.

I won't lie, I feel a bit despondent- I'm not naive and I know this has happens but it's really disappointing to have a friendly, helping hand slapped away.

But again, you all are wonderful- ladies and punters alike. In the DMs and on the thread, even just sharing the experience is some solace.

I hear the "name and shame" argument. I don't care for a public row or to target someone out of spite nor vengeance. That said, I do respect the unwritten code and really one of the quintessential elements of this site: to help vet people and have each other's backs.

I've messaged the lady as a final attempt for resolution, with tomorrow being a week since the payment so I thinks that's fair opportunity- failing this, I'll post the name to help save the next guy from being stolen from. I think that's reasonable?

@shoeguy]
Blessed be for you aswell xo

@Taps
I can respect that, there is a certain inner-strength few posses from showing mercy and compassion xo

Some people give a damn about reputation and comeback bussiness. They underestimate the word of mouth and the possibility of repeat bussinesss that could be generated. Sooner or later we all pay school fees but itlle make us wiser.