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Re: Is there such a thing?
Posted: 2016-04-18 10:46:53
Edited: 2016-04-18 10:48:59
Edited: 2016-04-18 10:48:59
There was a time when every enquiry asked if I had movies, hardly any guys ask me these days. When my bedroom TV broke, I didn't bother replacing it. I didn't want the porn playing in the background during bookings. I was SO irritated by the fake oohs and aahs.
My first experience with porn was in this industry. And originally it was SO erotic and I wanted to do everything I saw in porn movies. Now at that time I was only beginning to discover the sexual side of me, IOW what turned me on and what I needed for my sexual satisfaction. I found that my own sexual needs were quite vanilla actually. The things I fantasised about, the things I saw in porn, didn't nearly, almost, maybe turn me on in real life.
I also learnt the most important sexual lesson ... there's nothing wrong with me if I don't wanna be double penetrated, or have some guy shoot all over my face or be fisted, or that I donkt wanna have a beer bottle up my twat.
The second lesson I learnt is that the guys in porn have no idea WTF they're doing. I've found the very same thing with clients obsessed with porn. They don't have a cooking clue. I've only ever seen one pornstar that I can imagine making love to. I watch these guys muffing, and he's nowhere near her clit.
I still get turned on by porn occasionally, though.
My first experience with porn was in this industry. And originally it was SO erotic and I wanted to do everything I saw in porn movies. Now at that time I was only beginning to discover the sexual side of me, IOW what turned me on and what I needed for my sexual satisfaction. I found that my own sexual needs were quite vanilla actually. The things I fantasised about, the things I saw in porn, didn't nearly, almost, maybe turn me on in real life.
I also learnt the most important sexual lesson ... there's nothing wrong with me if I don't wanna be double penetrated, or have some guy shoot all over my face or be fisted, or that I donkt wanna have a beer bottle up my twat.
The second lesson I learnt is that the guys in porn have no idea WTF they're doing. I've found the very same thing with clients obsessed with porn. They don't have a cooking clue. I've only ever seen one pornstar that I can imagine making love to. I watch these guys muffing, and he's nowhere near her clit.
I still get turned on by porn occasionally, though.
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Re: Is there such a thing?
Posted: 2016-04-18 11:36:29
A wg told me that some guys try to emulate what they see in porn in the bedroom with fucking them jackhammer style and try shoving their dicks up a lady's poopshute becoz they think thats whats required.
Lets face it, current porn is very very different to classic porn. These days anal, fisting, dps, pissing, hardcore extreme sex acts is the norm in porn.
On 2016-04-18 10:46:53 Bbw Nadia Blows said:
The second lesson I learnt is that the guys in porn have no idea WTF they're doing. I've found the very same thing with clients obsessed with porn. They don't have a cooking clue.
A wg told me that some guys try to emulate what they see in porn in the bedroom with fucking them jackhammer style and try shoving their dicks up a lady's poopshute becoz they think thats whats required.
Lets face it, current porn is very very different to classic porn. These days anal, fisting, dps, pissing, hardcore extreme sex acts is the norm in porn.
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Re: Is there such a thing?
Posted: 2016-04-18 11:43:20
The sensual aspect of it is what turns me on, also when it is very clear all parties really, really enjoy it.
But sadly, not very much of this quality to be found. Seems it has to be shocking, almost violent and very explicit. Hopefully one day the producers, directors and photographers will realise this. Most of it has degraded into smut.
But sadly, not very much of this quality to be found. Seems it has to be shocking, almost violent and very explicit. Hopefully one day the producers, directors and photographers will realise this. Most of it has degraded into smut.
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