On 2024-11-23 10:08:56 Ryantrixyconnors said:
If you truly loved her then you wouldn't want anyone else but her.

Nope, that's not how a man's brain works.

On 2024-11-23 11:53:38 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
On 2024-11-23 10:08:56 Ryantrixyconnors said: If you truly loved her then you wouldn't want anyone else but her.



Nope, that's not how a man's brain works.

Also thinks for most men sex and love are two different things.

A bit tongue in cheek:
Women give sex for love.
Men give love for sex.

On 2024-11-23 12:47:36 Vrik said:
On 2024-11-23 11:53:38 Sir Shadow Hefner said: On 2024-11-23 10:08:56 Ryantrixyconnors said: If you truly loved her then you wouldn't want anyone else but her.



Nope, that's not how a man's brain works.

Also thinks for most men sex and love are two different things.

A bit tongue in cheek:
Women give sex for love.
Men give love for sex.

And ESA has made it much easier for us just give money for sex now!

On 2024-11-23 09:45:04 Chrismartin123 said:
She does know how to please me.

It's the thrill of being with someone who is a professional at pleasing that excites me. Most of the punters here are married and treat their punting life separately from their real life. I'm trying to merge them, my partner is my best friend and love of my life. She's the one who suggested the three some and wants more.

You want you wife to be a SP???

On 2024-11-23 11:53:38 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
On 2024-11-23 10:08:56 Ryantrixyconnors said: If you truly loved her then you wouldn't want anyone else but her.



Nope, that's not how a man's brain works.

How does it work then?
Please, I'd love to have some insight....

On 2024-11-23 13:20:46 Kylie @ Elements said:
On 2024-11-23 11:53:38 Sir Shadow Hefner said: On 2024-11-23 10:08:56 Ryantrixyconnors said: If you truly loved her then you wouldn't want anyone else but her.



Nope, that's not how a man's brain works.

How does it work then?
Please, I'd love to have some insight....

Most men dont need to love someone to want to have sex with her.
We can separate love and sex very easily (unfortunately). I may crave sex with you like crazy because of your body and looks. But as a person, i may totally dislike your personality. We men are despicable like that.

On 2024-11-23 17:57:25 Vrik said:
On 2024-11-23 13:20:46 Kylie @ Elements said: On 2024-11-23 11:53:38 Sir Shadow Hefner said: On 2024-11-23 10:08:56 Ryantrixyconnors said: If you truly loved her then you wouldn't want anyone else but her.



Nope, that's not how a man's brain works.

How does it work then?
Please, I'd love to have some insight....

Most men dont need to love someone to want to have sex with her.
We can separate love and sex very easily (unfortunately). I may crave sex with you like crazy because of your body and looks. But as a person, i may totally dislike your personality. We men are despicable like that.

I think it's perfectly fine...
It's objective and there's nothing wrong with that...

Not everything requires love, for example picking up your doggies mess in the park. It's just an action ,now it doesn't mean you love doing it....

Kylie

On 2024-11-23 17:57:25 Vrik said:


Most men dont need to love someone to want to have sex with her.
We can separate love and sex very easily (unfortunately). I may crave sex with you like crazy because of your body and looks. But as a person, i may totally dislike your personality. We men are despicable like that.

Two observations on that point:

Many girls in this space thinking that sex will turn a man's head and have him leave home for her.

To seek a true relationship in this space is not impossible if one dares to take the sex out the picture and work on the companionship part too.

Something like in "real life".

But then again...is this site not the go to , to live out ones fantasies?


And the other thing when talking about infidelity.

For a man it is all about a bruised ego. She is his possession

For a women it is the end of the world....he has betrayed her trust and confidence.

Men are from Mars and women are from Venus.

...and then you get the oddball..

:)

RB.

On 2024-11-23 09:54:02 Pumpkineater said:
Chros ask ur wife if u can do roleplaying and if she is into that. Then u can tell her u have this fantacy of being with an escort. You wil pay her a 1000 for the hour. Trust me she wil become more than a professional and the extras like wil be free and u know it wil be raw. Money changes people

Had an interesting experience recently. Was staying in a hotel about 150km from home. One evening I messaged my wife to come over and got the typical response that it would be a waste of money. So I deposited some money into her account and she agreed to come over. (Side note, I have a shared cheque account with her and she has her own account. So it was not like I was giving her money that she didn't already have access to).

Anyway, that night I think she probably had one of the best orgasm's I've ever observed her having. (Will write it up later on my orgasm thread as something I want to discover for myself). When she left the room the next morning, she said she feels like a prostitute. In my mind I was thinking, not really, I did all the work and you left me hanging. I'm actually the sex worker, except that I paid. Now I'm thinking, what the fucks wrong with me, lol.

On 2024-11-24 09:47:27 J_J said:
On 2024-11-23 09:54:02 Pumpkineater said: Chros ask ur wife if u can do roleplaying and if she is into that. Then u can tell her u have this fantacy of being with an escort. You wil pay her a 1000 for the hour. Trust me she wil become more than a professional and the extras like wil be free and u know it wil be raw. Money changes people

Had an interesting experience recently. Was staying in a hotel about 150km from home. One evening I messaged my wife to come over and got the typical response that it would be a waste of money. So I deposited some money into her account and she agreed to come over. (Side note, I have a shared cheque account with her and she has her own account. So it was not like I was giving her money that she didn't already have access to).

Anyway, that night I think she probably had one of the best orgasm's I've ever observed her having. (Will write it up later on my orgasm thread as something I want to discover for myself). When she left the room the next morning, she said she feels like a prostitute. In my mind I was thinking, not really, I did all the work and you left me hanging. I'm actually the sex worker, except that I paid. Now I'm thinking, what the fucks wrong with me, lol.

Lol love the experience.

The reason why she felt like a prostitute is the mere fact that you send her money to come visit you and she had to leave the next morning.
(Thinking like probably most woman does) The flood of questions....does he see prostitutes? Would be one, and then the experience. I promise you she thought it was very kinky. And wish secretly you guys can do it more often. But the fact that you didnt finish will bother her aswell. And she will most probably overthink it. So it might come up in a conversation probabably sooner or never.



In your case you were the punter and the working guy. Lol well done you did something we cant do all at once. I think we need to get some lessons from you.

Most of all it was a super surprising experience for the both of you. And now take your wife out to dinner or date night. And ask her how it made her feel and her experiences. You are truely a legend. Cause for all the other guys out there. That is how you experience things with your wife. Spur of the moment. And after giving her time to think about it. Ask her about it. And then start to hint on your fantasies. She will feel guilty for not letting you finish and most probably give in to one of your fantasies. And so you guys can make turns.

Lol....fuck listen to me. Sounding like a real sex therapist. Hahahaha not even close.

But hey....youll never know