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Posted: 2025-03-29 13:52:52

@JP69, in summary you have sketched the age old CF (cash flow) scenarios! Also similar as "rob Peter to pay Paul"!
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Posted: 2025-03-29 14:44:28

On 2025-03-29 13:48:24 Trygve said:
Surely a better way than paying upfront is to pay, say, 1.5-2 or 3k a month for a retainer.

That way you can get the booking.

She gets reliable income. He gets a little extra.



100% correct.. when a SP knows that she can rely on a steady retainer deal month on month... why would she stuff it up by giving substandard performance..
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Posted: 2025-03-29 15:31:44

This retainer thing, sound a lot like finding a girlfriend. Although it might also work out cheaper than having a permanent girlfriend in the long run.
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Posted: 2025-03-29 17:46:50

On 2025-03-29 14:44:28 Ms Eve said:
On 2025-03-29 13:48:24 Trygve said: Surely a better way than paying upfront is to pay, say, 1.5-2 or 3k a month for a retainer.

That way you can get the booking.

She gets reliable income. He gets a little extra.

100% correct.. when a SP knows that she can rely on a steady retainer deal month on month... why would she stuff it up by giving substandard performance..



Yet so few come forward when someone posts they want a retainer or a regular - or maybe they just PM.
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Posted: 2025-03-29 18:41:16

On 2025-03-29 17:46:50 Trygve said:
On 2025-03-29 14:44:28 Ms Eve said: On 2025-03-29 13:48:24 Trygve said: Surely a better way than paying upfront is to pay, say, 1.5-2 or 3k a month for a retainer.

That way you can get the booking.

She gets reliable income. He gets a little extra.

100% correct.. when a SP knows that she can rely on a steady retainer deal month on month... why would she stuff it up by giving substandard performance..

Yet so few come forward when someone posts they want a retainer or a regular - or maybe they just PM.



I agree with Ms Eve.
I am open to retainer package deals with my regular clients. I know them and they understand that I give great service and enjoy spoiling them. No way I am going to offer it to a first time client, i don't want to be in a situation where I am obliged to see someone that I don't like or do not have chemistry with.

Just my 5 cents xxx
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Posted: 2025-03-29 19:31:03

On 2025-03-29 17:46:50 Trygve said:
On 2025-03-29 14:44:28 Ms Eve said: On 2025-03-29 13:48:24 Trygve said: Surely a better way than paying upfront is to pay, say, 1.5-2 or 3k a month for a retainer.

That way you can get the booking.

She gets reliable income. He gets a little extra.

100% correct.. when a SP knows that she can rely on a steady retainer deal month on month... why would she stuff it up by giving substandard performance..

Yet so few come forward when someone posts they want a retainer or a regular - or maybe they just PM.



And so few come forward from the punters when you post retainer packages on the advertisers promotions.. so guess it works both ways..
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Posted: 2025-03-29 19:56:04

This is my 2c,A business can stand entirely on retainer packages and regulars. The more you know a person the better the sex gets because you create experiences based on their likes. In my experience you screw like rabbits, probably longer sessions and you throw in a lot more extras. You put in the work because you want that deal to go on and on. And hey sometimes we can decide we'd rather do a movie so yeah it can sometimes be like having a boyfriend. All depends on how flexible you both are and how you've communicated what you want and how you understand each other. Just my 2c....
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Posted: 2025-03-29 20:09:44

On 2025-03-29 19:56:04 Peaches said:
This is my 2c,A business can stand entirely on retainer packages and regulars. The more you know a person the better the sex gets because you create experiences based on their likes. In my experience you screw like rabbits, probably longer sessions and you throw in a lot more extras. You put in the work because you want that deal to go on and on. And hey sometimes we can decide we'd rather do a movie so yeah it can sometimes be like having a boyfriend. All depends on how flexible you both are and how you've communicated what you want and how you understand each other. Just my 2c....



This makes a lot of sense, thinking about the benefit for both parties which none of the ladies have pointed out so far.
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Posted: 2025-03-29 20:18:50

On 2025-03-29 19:56:04 Peaches said:
This is my 2c,A business can stand entirely on retainer packages and regulars. The more you know a person the better the sex gets because you create experiences based on their likes. In my experience you screw like rabbits, probably longer sessions and you throw in a lot more extras. You put in the work because you want that deal to go on and on. And hey sometimes we can decide we'd rather do a movie so yeah it can sometimes be like having a boyfriend. All depends on how flexible you both are and how you've communicated what you want and how you understand each other. Just my 2c....



Very nicely put..
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Posted: 2025-03-31 05:00:45

On 2025-03-29 13:48:24 Trygve said:
Surely a better way than paying upfront is to pay, say, 1.5-2 or 3k a month for a retainer.

That way you can get the booking.

She gets reliable income. He gets a little extra.



Smart gent because you are a reliable set income, the reliable honest service provider will treat this client like gold because you never know he might do another retainer or few in the future one never knows so the service provider would do her best to keep him coming back.

Or at least I certainly would.

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