To those who love to kiss.

Does one tell or show the other how to kiss them accordingly or do you just go with the flow even if it is a horrible one? Does anyone have patience and bear with it or do you turn your face to the other side.

NB: This is not about a bad breath issue!

Interesting question Kimmylee. I dont have the answer...but asked (almost) the same question to somebody a while ago...

Show them...sometimes the other party is over eager or nervous as hell.

On 2017-03-11 21:35:22 Kimmylee said:
To those who love to kiss.

Does one tell or show the other how to kiss them accordingly or do you just go with the flow even if it is a horrible one? Does anyone have patience and bear with it or do you turn your face to the other side.

NB: This is not about a bad breath issue!

I don't like kissing all the clients.
I'm honest.
It's a personal thing to me.
Some know how to kiss and some are trying to suck out my breakfast from the previous morning.
You will know when your lips touch.. it will be great or f### please don't try that again (naarkolopimaag).
If that happens keep your lips busy in his neck or somewhere else.
Or just show him if you really wanna kiss.
But keep in mind...most clients have partners...you don't wanna change his routine to much.

If you're a good kisser with good hygiene then you control the way the kissing goes. But like you say meg it's not lekker to kiss everyone.

On 2017-03-11 22:10:05 Orpheus said:
If you're a good kisser with good hygiene then you control the way the kissing goes. But like you say meg it's not lekker to kiss everyone.

Now asking a question. ..did you ever kissed a lady that can't kiss?

Many times. Had experiences where the lady just kept her mouth open not really knowing what to do. I had to guide her. Or some of them push their tongues through my pallete.

On 2017-03-11 21:54:07 Minime007 said:
Interesting question Kimmylee. I dont have the answer...but asked (almost) the same question to somebody a while ago...

@Minime007... As a lover of kissing, I can at times clearly tell when one doesn't want to kiss not because they can't but merely that they won't cause it's a personal thing just as Meg says. Personally I still love to kiss regardless. But now here's another thing that would confuse me, that once the good gets going down there and the sex is hot and real you get the most shocking surprise when one immediately starts bringing their lips against mine and kisses me so passionately or otherwise. Could it be that all this while when some people that don't open up to kissing is because you would want to built some form of interpersonal relation first, followed by trust then the openness?

To my surprise after all that resistance, the kiss openly follows. My eyes pop out, then abrubtly close my eyes tightly, then re-open my eyes again to check if it is a genuine response then my focus slips away a bit. It's as if before all else, the lips are observed for a certain period of time followed by an immediate clarification that one "cannot" kiss. Judging at first impressions.

Then comes the technical part of some kisses: they may be at times gushed, smeary, toungue tied/glued (you could swear Freddie Kruger has returned) or may be even followed by painful bites and hardcore sucking/suction of lips. Teeth gnashes and a lot of dog tongue licks, tight lip pats and 2 seconds getaway interval retractions. All that done by an individual all at once possibly stimulated by the sex itself. And that right there is where the patience in me starts to wear very thin. I can not help but ask for the kiss to slow down a bit and start from the beginning because I really don't want to lose my mind.

If and when one is comfortable to let me come close. Yes Wickedness nerves also play an important role in kissing.




[QUOTE;675155;Orpheus] Many times. Had experiences where the lady just kept her mouth open not really knowing what to do. I had to guide her. Or some of them push their tongues through my pallete.[/QUOTE]



@Orpheus... You made my morning.... Lol. This is serious cause even your partner can lose it at times then you start wondering who's lips have they been hanging out with! The hand, the mirror or..........?

@Orpheus i fully agree with you, at times no matter how hard you'll be trying to guide one but hey it would be like you're forced to drink the saliva the whole tongue will be pushed into your mouth as if now it's deep throat or maybe you're feeding the baby who can't open the mouth eish oh no.

Not sure if i am a good kisser or not. But imo, best kissing action is with girls at least in their late 20's. I can almost not recall a girl in very early 20s that kisses well. Not sure whether this is:
1) an experience thing
2) a generational thing (sometimes get the feeling the young ones only like bj & sex and think kissing is over-rated)
3) whether the younger ones is not into me and an early 20's girl find it hard to connect with a guy in his late 40's.

Obviosly, i hope the answers lies in my first two suggestions :-). But i am not blind to the fact that it might be the third...