hi everyone, I would like a ladies honest opinion on what I generally ask for when I see a girl. I have only seen about 4 so far.My reason for resorting to the purple site is purely loneliness and a longing for some female affection and TLC. Not interested in the bang and go type thing.

So my thing is an affectionate GFE with play and tease but no sex for religious reasons. I feel guilty getting pleasure without giving it back. Also have very little bedroom experience. Not sure if this would frustrate some girls. I'm saving the first time for a future girl who I really like.

I am tall, around 30 years old and in good physical shape with an insane sex drive.

Just wondering what ESA ladies think about this?

So you been on this site from 2011 and only had 4 girls(personal life)?

Um am I missing something?
Perhaps you'll manage to find someone who can cuddle up with you.
Somewhere there was a article about woman to rent for cuddling?
Don't know about the GF experience...that's a bonus.
Good luck...

hi Meg, yes I signed up in 2011 in my early twenties. Was just curious but never followed through. The 4 girls mentioned are ESA girls. As for the personal ones, they are few and far between... Long and complicated story.

On 2017-04-20 22:42:11 cutejhbguy said:
hi Meg, yes I signed up in 2011 in my early twenties. Was just curious but never followed through. The 4 girls mentioned are ESA girls. As for the personal ones, they are few and far between... Long and complicated story.

So you never nookie?
Perhaps you should state what tipe of lady you looking for and what area and for how long.
A bit more detail can go a long way.
Well done for keeping yourself intact for the one lady in your future.
Hats offer to you sir.

Pm me sweety xxx

Thanks for the kind words, much appreciated.
Nope never nookie lol and its getting increasingly difficult to resist.

Basically seeking a slim and sexy causasian Lady under the age of 40 around sandton fourways area for an hour at first and i'l book more time if things go well and budget allows. Although it seems most of the talent is in PTA. would be at least once a month. And a girl who likes her high heels. ..call it a fetish of mine. I have contacted a few girls already. Just a matter of choosing the most suitable lady I guess. I have been contemplating a HOE overnight visit but not sure what to expect.

Why is there this obsession with most guys to insert "something" into an orifice?
GFE is a much more intimate act than that.

If ladies consider you "cute" , whether you from Jhb or Durban, they will most likely be forthcoming.

@cutejhbguy, throw away this religious guilt thing. It's about control, nothing else. Hell, I thought wanking was "evil" and "wrong" when I was a 15 year old, due to the religious bullshit that was force fed into me. Utter crock!
Of course you have an insane sex drive. It's perfectly normal. Don't let an imaginary "friend" in the sky make you believe otherwise. Have fun without the guilt.

@cutejhbguy I can relate to the 'being lonely'..... But this is a very deceptive and addictive lifestyle! Your heart can get smashed to pieces! (Lots of the guys here been there, done that and we have a few t-shirts) many of the ladies give a realy good GFE experience (MG) and as long as you know that going in, that's cool, otherwise rather stay away. Do some 'roof kyk', spank the monkey and keep it at that. Trust me, ones heart can only take so much punishment.......

Thanks for the input guys, will definitely heed the advice.

@mike thanks for the warning. My heart has taken plenty of punishment I wont allow it again. I understand that it is business at the end of the day and deception is unfortunately part of the game. A GFE is just that and nothing more.

Have a good day all.