Great thread @zwan. By your leave if I can add something on hygiene (also noted in the Spider Fairy's post on an earlier thread - www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php - if finger play is on your to-do-list ensure your fingernails are cleaned and well trimmed. The quickest way to have pussyplay denied to your hands is to have unkempt digits.

On 2017-04-21 17:43:26 jaykay96 said:
Great thread @zwan. By your leave if I can add something on hygiene (also noted in the Spider Fairy's post on an earlier thread - www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php - if finger play is on your to-do-list ensure your fingernails are cleaned and well trimmed. The quickest way to have pussyplay denied to your hands is to have unkempt digits.

@JK96, thank you very much for noting that important hygiene sector to be included in Zwans guide. Your guidance is deeply appreciated. I've never been exploding so much since then.

i.e Clean cut fingernails made my nana a lot easier to spew.....lovely feeling indeed.


@zwan......Well done! Keep spinning that web, it looks beautiful darling.

From the Arac Fairy......*wink*

Good guide. Applause!

Mmmmmmm Mr Z the teacher,well done thanks for teaching them how to handle me on the first day.

Learnt the last part the hard way.. don't loan money.. does not matter how great the connection was.. "I'll make it up to you is just a lie" oh well.. Had some fun times none the less..

Thank @Zwan.After watching from the sidelines for sometime I am now ready to take the plunge. This thread will come in handy as I start my journey.Lalaa,Poppy,Miss BD and Monika here I Cum.the universe is listening.

On 2017-07-12 16:55:10 Goofy2 said:
Thank @Zwan.After watching from the sidelines for sometime I am now ready to take the plunge. This thread will come in handy as I start my journey.Lalaa,Poppy,Miss BD and Monika here I Cum.the universe is listening.

Mmmmmmmm I'm glad you had time to prepare yourself

@ BD I've had a lot of fantasies playing in my head.Time to tick them off my bucket list.

Wow!love this! Awesome guide. Good job x

I have been asked to add to this guide.
Part 4 -

Being a gentleman.
Pretty much what it states. After talking to some girls this comes up quite often. Most guys who partake in this industry are bluntly just not gentleman. The lady you are seeing is a person like you and me. She has dreams, family, friends etc. She could have been your daughter or wife So treat her like that. She is not your fucktoy (although some girls cater to this fetish just search the forum), so don't assume she is. I have found just not being a dick and nice to girls in this industry opens up an entirely new world of fantastic service.

Don't be condescending
You have no idea how much this can piss of any of the girls in the industry. Refer to my top part again about who this person is.

Don't pitch up drunk.
This is self explanatory and just overall a no no.

Don't punt after 11 with someone new.
Cannot explain the shit times I have had doing this.

Hygiene.
I heard a incredibly funny but disgusting story... Lets say be certain your bum is clean you don't want to leave skidmarks.

When to pitch up.
Do not pitch up early it's kak manners. Pisses girls of to no end, they need time in between bookings to freshen up and mentally prepare themselves. Be on the time that you scheduled at the door, gate whatever entrance there is.

Don't push boundaries.
As with any person including yourself there are things that tickle your fancy, some don't. Same with the lady. You can quickly pick up on these things. The girl does not want to kiss you as your having a session... don't force yourself (probably smelly breath). I am already hearing the argument "I am paying a lot of money, I can do as I well please with her". She is not an asset, don't be a doos. Just imagine yourself kicking your advocate in the balls and saying that afterwords.

I will leave this part with one of my life ethos.

"Through the journey of life try and not be a doos" - Buddha