Been dating this lady for few years now,she told me shes a mg with the jerking off but lately i found out she offers extras to clients...I do love her but the extras part i cant take and when confroted she lies about it what should i do

Why did she lie about the extra service? No then she's a WG. Not a MG.
Honestly no one can say what you need to do.
It's you that lives with this feelings and knowing that she lied about it doesn't make a stable foundation for your relationship.
How did you find out if i may ask?
Did you punt and phone her? Or looked for a girl and seen her profile?
Honestly sir...what makes you beta?
YOU on a escort site, what are YOUR intentions (not good)???

Welcome to theclub my friend. One learns the hard way that "you are the special one" in this industry is very seldom true. I am not saying never, but very seldom. Some (not all) WGs will tell u anything to make sure u return.

As hard as it is now, u need to move on....

I hate it when people always pretends to be perfect when there aren't even close to be.


you love her oh please spare me that,if you loved her she wouldn't be doing extras.things are tough these days,and offering extras doesn't make her a WG.

does she know you are a punter??

does she know you had three some like a boss???

you do not love a person only when there are good to you,you love a person in good or bad that's what love is.



take care of your woman so she won't have to offer extras anymore or else let her go,she deserve better.

#hypocrites

I say the same as what Miss Barbie said.

Don't take the ladies response to heart it probably hits home harder than they think.

More importantly though nobody is perfect and I think your initial thoughts and reactions are perfectly normal, if you love someone the thought of them knocking boots with someone else is always going to send you the wrong way wether you have been faithful or not. Even if you talk about swinging and the like your woman still goes home with you and not someone else.

It's fairly evident from your reaction that you feel something for this woman so you have a decision to make, if her offering extras is a non negotiable for you find out if that can change if not then let her go and move on, it doesn't make her a bad person or you for that matter it just means that you guys are not on the same wavelength and that's okay.

The reality is that as a man if you provide for your woman in a way that satisfies her she should have no need to want to be in this industry. Having said that there are men who have tried and failed dismally and I believe there a women who have left the industry permanently after having found love and are happy.

My view is that no male is open minded enough to let their women work in this industry while they are in a relationship. Some will protest and say it isn't so but we know this is true.

Easier said than done but if you want success get her out of the industry and move on with your lives.

@Bolla, I do concur........

On 2017-05-01 10:26:50 Bolla said:




The reality is that as a man if you provide for your woman in a way that satisfies her she should have no need to want to be in this industry. Having said that there are men who have tried and failed dismally and I believe there a women who have left the industry permanently after having found love and are happy.

My view is that no male is open minded enough to let their women work in this industry while they are in a relationship. Some will protest and say it isn't so but we know this is true.

Easier said than done but if you want success get her out of the industry and move on with your lives.

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On 2017-05-01 10:11:23 Miss Barbie Doll said:
I hate it when people always pretends to be perfect when there aren't even close to be.


you love her oh please spare me that,if you loved her she wouldn't be doing extras.things are tough these days,and offering extras doesn't make her a WG.

does she know you are a punter??

does she know you had three some like a boss???

you do not love a person only when there are good to you,you love a person in good or bad that's what love is.



take care of your woman so she won't have to offer extras anymore or else let her go,she deserve better.

#hypocrites

Barbie doll, you forgetting all women aint the same some you provide and they satisfied with but some dont know how to close their legs.some got self esteem and dignity and some dont give a fuck..yes i provided for her took care of her kids but the whore in her is just too much... and if she can go around sleeping around so why cant i have fun to get over her? Please do think before making any comment

She should be honest with you. The fact that she has not been honest with you about the extras is a huge red flag. Perhaps you need to inquire about the nature of the extras and if she has still been offering them since she has been with you.