On 2017-05-11 09:56:52 GreyKnight said:
Gents remember this is a fantasy world where we buy fantasies. As harsh as it sounds it is a fact. We know the rules of the game when we enter this world. If you come here looking for emotional attachment you are playing with fire -- trust me. I play here out of choice as I hate relationships and yes there are some amazing ladies here. But always know and understand the rules.

I am sure the ladies can testify of punters proclaiming their undying love for them everyday. And I am sure we all know of ladies that were taken out of this industry by punters to be in a relationship. How many of those ladies and punters return? A lot!

If your reason for leaving is to find that special someone then I say good luck! But if it is to abscond from sex I say: " See you again soon in the purple world"

Well said!

I support and have no judgement when people come/leave the industry. We are all human and 'the only constant is change'.

HOWEVER it may be easy to leave the scene when you're virile and hitting the student bars and clubs... but when you're older and have late nights at work, change nappies instead of golf shirts and your hair becomes peppered with grey....

That 25 year old named Missy who is one easy booking away will in all likelihood have you back to punting ;)

I encourage each individual to do what feels right to them and wish you all the best of luck.

Regarding basic girls... maybe the industry people get into a rut. Kind constructive criticism is always appreciated (to someone who would like to succeed). So hopefully we all listen and strive to do our best.

PS. Anyone who would like to book me in future, I always try my best but if anything I can do to improve, please let me know :) I'm still a little naive and in one phone call not that long ago I thought Greek was a nationality!!!!!

On 2017-05-11 09:56:52 GreyKnight said:
Gents remember this is a fantasy world where we buy fantasies. As harsh as it sounds it is a fact. We know the rules of the game when we enter this world. If you come here looking for emotional attachment you are playing with fire -- trust me. I play here out of choice as I hate relationships and yes there are some amazing ladies here. But always know and understand the rules.

I am sure the ladies can testify of punters proclaiming their undying love for them everyday. And I am sure we all know of ladies that were taken out of this industry by punters to be in a relationship. How many of those ladies and punters return? A lot!

If your reason for leaving is to find that special someone then I say good luck! But if it is to abscond from sex I say: " See you again soon in the purple world"

So true my friend !!!

Good luck to you man, I tried and didn't succeed.

Resignation accepted.
Go forth!
There is a whole wide world out there.
But I know you will be back here begging for a job.

Good luck dude! Hope you find what you need out there, some o us found it right here.

Cheers

Love the conversation, I agree with the people saying this is a fantasy place and you buying it. However like all things in life they reach saturation points and for you gentlemen that still enjoying it I envy you in a way as its great feeling when you enjoy the lil pleasures of this industry.

But I gotta say the older you are the easier it gets to get laid... too many older ladies even married ones are getting on the side so the argument of older means harder to get some hence you call I disagree.

If you really want to go, just delete your id and go, why announce it to the whole of ESA and make a big scene about it, no one is going to beg you to stay. Your money your choice.

It is 24 hour later and you still here. There is no clause when you sign-up that say you need to give a month notice. So please leave immediately. Do not pass GO, do not collect R200.. Carefull that the door don't hit you on the way out

Yewrew

"Carefull that the door don't hit you on the way out"

Would that be the revolving door ?

Good luck but it's gonnna be a lonely horny road down there lol.

Have tried for 25 years and still feel that rush every time I get a gap in my schedule.
Longest period I've stayed away was 7 months .
Am not going to do that again lol