I don't want my man knowing about this because i have no intentions of doing this for the rest of my life,soon as I meet my target and complete my project,am out...
I am in a mature loving relationship with a gentleman who knows I am an escort. He doesn't judge me and I don't judge him. We are both at a stage in our lives when we know that time is all we truly have and we don't want to miss out on enjoying and sharing simple pleasures with each other.
Having married very young for many years and one day finding myself completely alone was devastating. I now know better to be honest with myself and to live in the present. To also live as much a fulfilling life as possible. Isolating
myself for five years from receiving love made me a very sad person.
I only realised this recently and started reaching out to estranged family members and friends.
This person has been good for me and helped me start the healing process and mending fences.
If they in relationship, so what is wrong with that. Most girls are here for reason they need to support there family or have kids to provide for. Being single Mother..don't think there is a single lady here because its her First choice of employment. So if they are in a relationship. Hats of to them.
I think this can be a challenging one. There are ladies who hide it from their partners and that's completely understandable. Then there are those ladies that have no secrets from their partners and while to some it may seem impossible it appears to be possible, There's a couple I know that used to swing, the husband loved watching other men do his wife and it turned her in even more knowing that he was watching her. A few years ago she started working as a WG. I asked about this and he told me that they get paid to fulfill their fantasy occasionally even a MFM session is thrown in. My friend asked how many people I knew of that could say that? This works for them.
Then there is the case of the partner knowing about it and wanting to change the situation but fails maintain the lifestyle and income the lady has accustomed herself too or is wracked by jealousy, as has been manifest on a certain thread a couple of weeks back. This can only end in disaster.
I take my hat off to those that make it work because everyone deserves love and to be loved regardless of their environment or circumstances. Be it Punter or WG or MG. It won't always make sense but then again when has love ever made sense?
Recently I was in relationship with a WG from Sandton. Honestly not that big of a deal. End of the day wg/punter are regular people. Routinely she would point out her clients if we were together at the mall. Made no difference to me and her clients would tell her they so her with me. She would tell them that's my bf end of story. I can honestly say my relationship with her was one of my easiest relationships. It didn't work out but that's life. Really I guess it depends on the person but my experience was good. Always wanted to share. Love reading the forum, to shy to contribute but hopefully this is the first of many.
@ Jerram,didn't it make you jealous at all,knowing that she gets with other hunks? I honestly don't think I would date a punter because I would be jealous if he booked other girls and I would not believe it even if he told me that he no longer punts..
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