Thank you all for the contribution.

@Avenger25
That's how it happened to me.
I saw shemale porn by mistake and I found it turned me on.

Pretorialad, this question has been asked many times on this forum. This is my account of my own experience with Shemales:


"And so, as I had promised myself, I made a return visit to SM last night, and it was every bit as exotic and erotic as my first call! Perhaps even more so...I am now a little more comfortable and a little less disconcerted by the uncoiling and quivering and pulsing and thickening of a large black swollen cock mere millimeters away from my mouth and lips! SM was looking absolutely gorgeous...exquisite lingerie, satin stockings, garter belt, leopard skin print high heels, perfectly made-up and coiffed and perfumed...and she had made that all important visit to the nail studio in the morning...so her nails were absolutely sublime too!! SM was running a little late so was not quite ready...she was quite exasperated that she was not in fact 101 percent preened for me...although I thought she looked quite stunning! A REAL lady!! SM is a lot more feminine and takes a lot better care of her appearance and puts more effort into getting ready to meet me than a hell of a lot of the working girls that I have visited! Lesson One!!

I have thought a lot about my two visits and although I completely enjoyed them, I still stand by my original appraisal of the SM! To quote paragraph five of my first post "I have only one concern though! IT IS MY OPINION...and nothing or no-one can convince me otherwise. A She-Male was born with the XY chromosome...and so was born a boy. A She-Male has a dick. A She-Male has testicles and sperm and a scrotum. So a She-Male is a MAN!! No amount of sugar coating or body sculpture or exquisite lingerie or hormone replacement therapy or pretty words can alter that very basic fact!!!" AND..."So if I want to satisfy this compulsion that I have to visit a She-Male, I have to be able to accept in my own mind that I am about to visit and have sex with another man!!"

And I HAVE accepted this in my own mind! I have totally accepted that I have kissed and sucked and had sex with a man... not once, but TWICE!! So how does that make me feel... and what does that make me?

I was really overwhelmed by the response to my first SM post here on ESA. The PMs came flooding in. Who was SM? Give me more detail! Did she fuck you? Did you fuck her? One goof-ball asked Hw big waz she down der?
I used to write regularly here on ESA about my visits to local ladies, and although I received many PMs asking for more details about them, I never ONCE got as much response as I have just gotten to my post on SMs! So the interest in SMs displayed by your every day and garden variety of man is obviously very high. This is, of course, supported by the fact that SM porn is constantly some of the most downloaded and watched of all pornography! It seems that most if not all men are absolutely fascinated by SMs whether they like to admit it or not! But why?

I was particularly enamored by Valientes post "For the sake of brevity and being an unsophisticated savage, am I to understand Sir, that you sucked a black dudes cock whilst he was dressed as a woman? Notwithstanding the fact that said dude affected artificial feminine traits, I applaud your courageous foray into the realm of homosexuality and the chutzpuh to write so eloquently of it". "My foray into the world of homosexuality!!!!"...EXACTLY Valiente, yes I had sex with a man! Am I now homosexual? Well, NO I dont believe I am! I have no desire to have sex with men! I have not suddenly morphed into a mincing gay boy with exaggerated gestures and a squeaky voice who gets turned on by smooth chests and slippery cocks! Gay men like MEN...full stop! MEN-MEN, not SMs! Am I now bisexual? I dont think so either...I am not turned on by men AT ALL!! Its the feminine-masculine combination in the SM that attracted me in the first place...and the fact that she/he has a cock is an interesting novelty...it is something to toy with...and put down to experience! And so long as I dont become fixated on and obsessed by that cock and the SMs masculine side, I believe that my life will carry on just as before. I read an interesting analogy somewhere. If a professional rugby player decides to play a game of tennis for the first time, is he now a tennis player? Well no, he remains what he was.. a professional rugby player! But he has now just experienced tennis too! So I dont think that I am now a homosexual...I am just the same as I ever was, the only difference is that I have now experienced sex with a man!

It occurs to me that SMs have prime access to all corners of the market! They are feminine, and yet they have a cock! So they can fuck women if they so wish...they probably dont... do women ever visit SMs out of curiosity?... and they can fuck men! And thats why so many SMs dont just cut off their cocks even though they may actually believe in their hearts and minds that they are actually women...their fortune lies in their cock...why dispense of this golden goose?. I read somewhere that an SM who has boobs said that it is as if she had wasted her money on the implants...All the guys who visit her were more interested in her dick than anything else!!!

And so, from my thus far limited experience with an SM and from reading between the lines of the many responses I have had to my post, I conclude that there are four categories of men out there! The first group loathes the SM and refuses to entertain the notion of visiting an SM...though deep down they are absolutely fascinated by the notion. Valiente, maybe that is you? The second group accept that they would really like to experiment but have yet to gather up the courage to do so, and the third group have actually lived out their fantasy and visited an SM...and may well do so again! I believe that there is also a fourth group...who visit just for the cock, who are actually gay but are in denial, and find visiting SMs a convenient way to fuel their secret lust. The working girls actually have a name for this group... they call them 'The Undercover Gays!' But so be it! Who really cares? We punt because we enjoy it...and it allows us to enact our fantasies, whatever those fantasies might be.

@GREYGREY Perfect!

Great post!

On 2017-05-26 13:24:18 Amsohornee said:
@Avenger25...who can you recommend in Joburg?

I've been out the game for a while, so I really can't comment fully. Wait for Jessica to come back from CT or if u find yourself in CT don't hesitate. I really want to visit Leila soon. Gigi and Pinkie look really sexy as well.

I saw Jenny once when she was in Morningside but the venue put me off and she was looking a bit masculine and dressed down when I saw her.

Honey I'm Bryanston has been around for ages so it might be worthwhile visiting her.

Thing i don't like with the oriental girls is that they are in houses altogether and those places are generally not too safe for my liking. I prefer a WG to have her own venue like Jessica and Mary did.

On 2017-05-26 13:42:58 pretorialad said:
Well I think avengar summed my feelings regarding this quite up. Thanks man.
Personally it is just something different and enticing when one of the ladies pulls down her pants and you see that hidden penis.
I need to correct the predictive text when I said had a dick and replace it with has.
My ultimate fantasy is having a girl and a ladyboy.
Any recommendations Avenger?
I find myself in Malaysia so my options are plenty full.

That is my ultimate fantasy as well. A no holds barred session with a SM and a female - with all the protection of course. This is a bit tricky in SA but hopefully one day I could find myself visiting a haven like Brazil.

Sex with a shemale makes you gay in the same sense that sex with a woman makes you a lesbian.

The fact that you have to ask if it makes you gay should be answer enough.

Definitely gay.