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Feel Intimidated?
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Posted: 2017-06-03 04:14:16

Just a question guys, do you'll ever feel intimidated by booking a lady?

I'm an avg punter for past so no expert, maybe 5 - 6 times a year. When I do though I love to book a lady I think that looks hot and look at reviews on prev experiences etc. I browse through many profiles, which so many hot ladies on ESA and make calls with local SA ladies to enquire but in the end, I end up booking for e.g. A Thai lady (No offense to them, I just personally feel they don't judge) coz I'm afraid that a "top 10" or well reviewed lady will judge me or provide a par service if I had to come quickly on first round or my member not big enough etc.

Anyone else feel that way or is it just me?
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Posted: 2017-06-03 10:04:25

My friend. You have no need to feel that way. Trust me the ladies here have seen it all before. So no need to try and impress them. Just go an relax and enjoy the punt.

I remember my first few visits to HOE were VERY daunting. Those were my very first punts. So I can understand how you feel. And yes not all punts will be spectacular, but a lot depends on how you treat the lady. A little respect and good manners are far more important to them than stamina and n big member.

The top 10 ladies should also not intimidate you. If they gave bad service or judged men they would not be in the top 10.

My advice -- go for it and enjoy!

Just my 2c...
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Posted: 2017-06-03 10:23:59

Saint

With a name like that you should not worry.

Just remember that it is a reciprical situation, as much as you are unssure , they are just as unsure of who is entering their space.

I found that a friendly smile and a bit of a chat usually just ease things and you become mmore comfortable.

Manners are implicit, and I always pay upfront. Don't ever negotiate a price, if they charge too much, take the next one.

And youi will have spectacular punts and less than spectacular punts. Do research, and activate your gold membership. Those HD quality pictures just brings to the fore some hidden flaw that you might not be partial to.

And a lot of ladies have personal galleries where you can actually see their face.

Have fun




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Posted: 2017-06-03 10:48:49

Saint, whats the worst that can happen?
Just be courteous and relaxed, fake it till you make it! ;-)
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Posted: 2017-06-03 11:05:36

Both Grey and INL said it well.
Go for it. I would say the Top 10 (who are not necessarily the top service providers, by the way) and the top service providers even better, because they are more likely to be professional, understanding and non-judgmental.
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Posted: 2017-06-03 11:07:22

Ja well...maybe I feel a bit intimidated sometimes as well. I know what I look like, how I see myself. That would probably be how the lady see me as well then. Maybe I dont need to feel this way....but I do.
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Posted: 2017-06-03 11:23:14
Edited: 2017-06-03 11:24:14

I just want to say that even me as a WG also feel intimidated by some very very good looking and handsome punters... Questions like: Why would they want to book a woman my age if they can have a 20 year old... or, what if he sees my stretch marks and selilite? Or, what if he doesn't like my freckles all over my whole body?... will it be a turn off? So its not only men who feel like this... a good provider will never judge you. We all have flaws...
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Posted: 2017-06-03 11:25:44
Edited: 2017-06-03 11:33:06

On 2017-06-03 11:23:14 Ms Paige said:
I just want to say that even me as a WG also feel intimidated by some very very good looking and handsome punters...



Handsome punters?? Shit!! Adding to my issues! Nobody told me there were those as well.
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Posted: 2017-06-03 12:07:39

Dear Saint

We are here for your pleasure or whatever the need ..... We accept people and appreciate people for who they, let me speak for myself.

I don't expect people who come to me to look like top models with 8 packs, in fact the more average you look the more I'm more comfortable because I'm not flawless but I do my best to look attractive.

I have met people with the biggest packs and treated them like them/him like he was the only man in the world on the basis of respect and appreciation I received. What is more important to us is good hygiene and respect, you can be the most handsome and sexiest guy in the world but if you are not clean you will not get the best.
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Posted: 2017-06-03 12:10:48
Edited: 2017-06-03 12:35:03

On 2017-06-03 04:14:16 LilSaint said:

I'm afraid that a "top 10" or well reviewed lady will judge me or provide a par service if I had to come quickly on first round or my member not big enough etc.

Anyone else feel that way or is it just me?



Let me just add this

In a setting like this, it's for the ladies advantage that you cum quick and the size doesn't matter at all. We also worry if you take long to come wondering if what we are doing is not "right".

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