On 2017-07-05 17:11:24 Ziske said:
Sad that married life has to come to this

It should be kept spiced up and effort should be put in from both sides

Make time for each other, take time to re-explore each other and rekindle that spark

Do you want to marry me ?
:)

I know the feeling... I felt ugly and unwanted when my ex turned his back on me... I was very fat then... decided to do something about my body and looks... I lost 55kg... (a whole person)... and got my life back. Then, after all my efforts he left me for someone else... Story of my life! I walked out and take a good look at myself in the mirror. Ive got a new body and new attitude... "If I can't be pretty enough for him, ill be pretty enough for other men"...
I blame myself for a lot of things... a woman should never give up on her looks and beauty for her husband... she must never let herself go... always make an effort otherwise he will cheat... Woman use the excuse of childbirth for being fat... but hair and make-up and sexy lingerie in the bedroom has nothing to do with being fat... Just be sexy for him... The greatest feeling is when you feel wanted... Just my point of view...

Maybe she wasn't in the mood. Try using a bit of pshyc on her find an article how to get back the flame in ones life to have mind blowing sex like before. Step 2 if step 1 does not work try something spontaneous and something that gets her all horney and excited if u paid attention during the dating phase. If not than u moving onto dangerous ground try hypnosis not sure how she feels about it but if she agrees u can find out whats making her not put out for u. Hope info helps.Good luck.

life is a bitch

Most of us married guys can relate

Life is too short to be unhappy. I'm responsible for my happiness no-one else; I was in one of those marriages once upon a time-- never again. I'm happy! Yes, I had to start over, rebuild my relationship with my kid, get my self-love back and now I love my life in my terms. Happiness!

Hahahahaha dude you read a book in bed, than faked a yawn as a prelude to sex. Don't blame your wife for declining sex. A good night's sleep definitely trumps lack lustre sex.

Seriously dude, very few of the complaining husbands are skilled in the art of seduction, foreplay,
sensuality, eroticism and
plain make out sessions that leads to dragging each other to the bedroom and having crazy
passionate sex as soon as you
shut the door.

Wooing and ravishing at that crucial moment, leads to the most
intense uninhibited sexual pleasures. If distracted with something else the mood gets spoiled and not always possible to
recapture the previous urgent pulsating sexually charged feelings.

Know that I am being very blunt as I believe that some who have replied are saying what they think
you want to hear to make you feel better.

Sorry Sir, I think you really need to
communicate your desires and intentions to your wife clearly.
During your romantic time tell her
you want to "fuck, have sex, make love" does she want to as well. If she says yes, Hallelujah!!!

Take her in your arms, kiss her
passionately, whisk her off to the bedroom and start the foreplay.
Continue the sensual arousing
foreplay making sure to pleasure her into orgasmic bliss.

Pleasssssseeee DO NOT STOP to indulge in any mundane activities such as attempting to read a book, thus causing your wife to lose that
loving sexually feeling and putting on her top, pants and socks for bed.

YAWNING, seriously dude that is just so pitiful. Thankfully wife latched on and fell soundly asleep.

Sweet dreams ;-)

Ms Paige, you are so right, life is a bitch .... and then I married her!

On 2017-07-05 22:22:47 Sultry Indian Jiah said:
Hahahahaha dude you read a book in bed, than faked a yawn as a prelude to sex. Don't blame your wife for declining sex. A good night's sleep definitely trumps lack lustre sex.

Seriously dude, very few of the complaining husbands are skilled in the art of seduction, foreplay,
sensuality, eroticism and
plain make out sessions that leads to dragging each other to the bedroom and having crazy
passionate sex as soon as you
shut the door.

Wooing and ravishing at that crucial moment, leads to the most
intense uninhibited sexual pleasures. If distracted with something else the mood gets spoiled and not always possible to
recapture the previous urgent pulsating sexually charged feelings.

Know that I am being very blunt as I believe that some who have replied are saying what they think
you want to hear to make you feel better.

Sorry Sir, I think you really need to
communicate your desires and intentions to your wife clearly.
During your romantic time tell her
you want to "fuck, have sex, make love" does she want to as well. If she says yes, Hallelujah!!!

Take her in your arms, kiss her
passionately, whisk her off to the bedroom and start the foreplay.
Continue the sensual arousing
foreplay making sure to pleasure her into orgasmic bliss.

Pleasssssseeee DO NOT STOP to indulge in any mundane activities such as attempting to read a book, thus causing your wife to lose that
loving sexually feeling and putting on her top, pants and socks for bed.

YAWNING, seriously dude that is just so pitiful. Thankfully wife latched on and fell soundly asleep.

Sweet dreams ;-)

This is so true. In my humble opinion even the shower/bath session interfered with the possability for some satisfactory action between the sheets.

Will take your advice into consideration the next time I find myself in such a situation Miss Jihad.

Marriage has a way of blunting a man's instincts. I say stop focusing on the wife and also stop punting for some time cause punting is too easy. Start flirting and hitting on other girls. Try this and see for yourself how things get more interesting