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First time massage - a bit embarressed
First time massage - a bit embarressed
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Posted: 2017-07-13 12:00:03
hi everyone,
Can the wonderful people here guide on the etiquette when going for a massage. after going through many profiles i have narrowed it down.
She mentioned her services,so it will be a very good massage and a good ending.
The lady mentioned, i come, shower and then a massage, which all straight froward.
My question relates to the following, after the shower, do i put my boxers back on and the wrap the towel or just use the towel with no boxers or just run around naked onto her massage table...lol
I don't mind if guys have a good laugh at this one but being nervous is one thing but now i don't know what the etiquette
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Posted: 2017-07-13 13:06:18
Hi Cas....no need to feel embarrassed :) after your shower, to make you feel more comfortable, you can put the towel around your waist and your therapist can help you to remove the towel once you are settled on her massage plinth....I massage glutes as well so undies get in the way ;) enjoy your experience! :) Jewel
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Posted: 2017-07-13 13:14:01
No... you get to the venue... meet the lady.
She takes you to the room so you can get undressed and take a relaxing shower.
PS you walk with your towel back to the room.
She will make sure you nice and comfortable.
Now the relaxing starts and she will show you exactly what to do....and the rules will follow as you go.
Have fun
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Posted: 2017-07-13 13:15:56
Spot on Jewel, it does help the client feel more comfortable having a towel wrapped around the waist, whilst at the same time adding to a sexy massage experience when the therapist helps remove the towel and get the client comfortable...wishing you many memorable massages Cas1...Syren...x
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Posted: 2017-07-13 13:46:30
If you go for a Massage with GFE,
1. Arrive at venue
2. Shower
3. Leave clothes and towel on floor in shower (same as at home)
4 make your way back to the room with willy swining free
5 jump on plinth and wait for action.
The MG will pick-up after you as you go from shower to room same as your gf.
Massage without GFE
Do as the ladies have mentioned above.
Most important part is to enjoy it.
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Posted: 2017-07-13 14:34:01
Being somewhat shy myself, keep the towel on after the shower, for some reason most of the ladies then leave the room quickly to do whatever! Lie on the bed, take your towel off, cover your bum if you want to. As soon as the lady comes back, she'll remove the towel. And then just enjoy.........
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Posted: 2017-07-13 14:43:03
Some good tips :)
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Posted: 2017-07-13 14:47:09
Edited: 2017-07-13 14:48:44
As a rule, I always drape the client with a towel as he climbs onto the massage table, whether the client decides to keep underwear on or not and the towel stays on, until it is time to massage the glutes.
I suggest that you do what you are comfortable doing. If you are shy, communicate this to your therapist, so that she knows. And if you are uncomfortable with taking your underwear off, then leave it on. It can be removed during the course of the massage treatment, once you are more relaxed and its time to massage the glutes.
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Posted: 2017-07-13 16:36:57
Edited: 2017-07-13 16:39:36
All solid advice, as you work your way through your list you will find that you click with one or two of the ladies. As you become more comfortable, you will find that you can shower, dry off and move straight to the plinth.
Some ladies have joined me in the shower afterwards but that was definitely the exception to the rule.
I prefer Elements as the showers are all in the room and there is no needing to cross a passage or walk down the hall as is the case with other venues. The other venues I have been to are always mindful of other patrons and the shower facilities (although shared) have never been an issue for me, but I am sure an accidental meeting is just around the corner.
It is always a good idea to ask what are the boundaries when you meet a therapist for the first time. Some allow touching others do not.
Be respectful and know that they are there to provide a service.
Enjoy and let us have feedback on how it went.
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Posted: 2017-07-13 17:19:28
I say try them all and certainly do book with Lady Ray. Oh My Gosh!
And don't stress, you will receive guidance on what to do. ;)
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