I have always been asked to pay up front. Be it private girls or venues.

Upfront usually, before she even asks for it. That way no pressure and she'll know I'm not a chancer.

It's normal to pay up front with a new lady - in my experience.
but when I see a lady regularly its always after - slip it under the pillow!!
Often with a regular, I transfer the money, so no cash involved 'for the session' - somehow makes it better / nicer??

I've got no problem paying up front.
I can understand that some of the woman are worried that they may not be paid.
When meeting a lady for the first time I'm happy to put her at ease, and let her know I'm not out to cheat her.
If I get bad service, I don't return, it's as simple as that.
With my regulars, they don't mind if I pay afterwards, because they know me.
However, I still like to pay them before, in case I forget.
It once happened that I forgot to pay a regular, I had driven about a block away, and then realised.
Of course, I returned immediately and paid her, and we had a good laugh about it.

On 2017-07-19 10:03:17 I never learn said:


And give a tip upfront as well.

The pressure is now on her to earn that tip.

I normally give only the tip on the first visit and if she is talented enough to keep it's attention for the full hour, I will return and allow her to play with the rest on further visits.

When I started at E almost 2 years ago, two men never paid me for my extras. When I asked for the money, they said they already paid at reception and just walked out with a smile on their faces. I felt so betrayed and dirty and used. I still can't believe what they did and there was nothing that I could do... anyway since I work from home I'm very blessed with good and decent clients. Some pay me in front, some pay me after the session. Whatever makes them feel comfortable.

What's with putting the money in an envelope or slipping it under the pillow?

Ladies is this the norm, what you prefer or do guys just hand you the cash?

It depend with individual, I've never ask upfront or take it like in hand I usually ask clients to put it on table or bed and never count in front of them ofwhich on that one I've been robbed not once neither twice by silly ones instead of leaving the exact amount u know,,,,,

Dramas happen daily here, my personal trainer whose been my clients since last year when I started has turned things ugly now between us, he decided to pay by ewallet std bank cool he even gave pin that's upfront payment cool, I never withdraw it immediately that's what I normally do with most of ewallets cool, what he did he went back to withdraw it after service I guess after only 3weeks when I went to collect all ewallets guess what NO MOOLA we now fighting he's becoming agreesive even blocked me but now am thinking should I just ignore him or embarrass him, am not worried but still worried n concern how one can do that to someone that u really know like friends,,,,,

Physco indeed.

In the 1980s I went to a venue in Randburg.
In those days some guys used to pay by cheque!
One day I arrived there and the lady who runs the place put up a cheque on the noticeboard in the reception.
One guy had written out a cheque that had bounced - she put a big sign saying "this cheque has bounced" and the written cheque, with guys name on it etc was there for all to see!!

On 2017-07-19 15:20:24 Mike40 said:
In the 1980s I went to a venue in Randburg.
In those days some guys used to pay by cheque!
One day I arrived there and the lady who runs the place put up a cheque on the noticeboard in the reception.
One guy had written out a cheque that had bounced - she put a big sign saying "this cheque has bounced" and the written cheque, with guys name on it etc was there for all to see!!

LMGA. I still have a chequebook! Wonder if there is any of the ladies who trust me...to accept a ccheque from me?