Is there not a grace period for withdrawing money sent via e-ewallet and failure to do so, results in the money being returned to the sender?

On 2017-07-19 14:41:53 Poppy said:
It depend with individual, I've never ask upfront or take it like in hand I usually ask clients to put it on table or bed and never count in front of them ofwhich on that one I've been robbed not once neither twice by silly ones instead of leaving the exact amount u know,,,,,

Dramas happen daily here, my personal trainer whose been my clients since last year when I started has turned things ugly now between us, he decided to pay by ewallet std bank cool he even gave pin that's upfront payment cool, I never withdraw it immediately that's what I normally do with most of ewallets cool, what he did he went back to withdraw it after service I guess after only 3weeks when I went to collect all ewallets guess what NO MOOLA we now fighting he's becoming agreesive even blocked me but now am thinking should I just ignore him or embarrass him, am not worried but still worried n concern how one can do that to someone that u really know like friends,,,,,

Physco indeed.

It's a tricky question, some guys don't like it when you ask money first they have that mentality "oh she ask n cares about money so much therefore session willnt be good"

I just follow the guy's lead, I trust clients who book me from ESA never had troubles!,

Donation first on other sites I normally advertise on(unless regular I'm assured at least)
I have had ....oh I forgot my wallet, I will send the money back or clients who pay you n take money back n run away after session... For overnight outcalls Fake bank cheques or fake ewallet transfers when you reach ATM oops no funds available!!!

In Hong Kong I met a guy in a nightclub, came with me to my hotel room. Gave me money upfront ....stupidly I hide the money under my pillow infront of him, we did everything, I must have fallen asleep afterwards when I wake up he's gone,so money too all I was left with was used condoms full of cum. Lol!

[QUOTE;783042;Jaco45] Is there not a grace period for withdrawing money sent via e-ewallet and failure to do so, results in the money being returned to the sender?


@Jacob45 it was my first time receiving std bank I only know of fnb whereby I create a security pin for all ewallets for in case my cell phone get lost, but then even a friend was suspecting that with std bank it returns to sender but still u don't become aggressive if you're not guilty all of a suddenly.

Agreed on the aggressive behaviour, its not justified.

On 2017-07-19 16:10:33 Poppy said:
[QUOTE;783042;Jaco45] Is there not a grace period for withdrawing money sent via e-ewallet and failure to do so, results in the money being returned to the sender?


@Jacob45 it was my first time receiving std bank I only know of fnb whereby I create a security pin for all ewallets for in case my cell phone get lost, but then even a friend was suspecting that with std bank it returns to sender but still u don't become aggressive if you're not guilty all of a suddenly.

Payment upfront sets a form of trust between the punters and the lady. The money is left on the table and not put away. You must understand its a risk for us not getting the payment upfront. The odd occasion in the past that I didn't, the guy paid me short, then argued and said that's the price I told him over the phone. Then another time a guy paid me and 'mistook the R20 for a R200' and conveniently didn't have any other money on him... I feel it's better to get the money upfront cause that way there can't be any 'misunderstanding on rate' conveniently after the service has been provided. It's a business transaction, one doesn't get to drive a new car out of the showroom until it's been paid for..... Imagine driving the car away from the dealership before it's paid for????

On 2017-07-20 21:57:27 Lili said:
Payment upfront sets a form of trust between the punters and the lady. The money is left on the table and not put away. You must understand its a risk for us not getting the payment upfront. The odd occasion in the past that I didn't, the guy paid me short, then argued and said that's the price I told him over the phone. Then another time a guy paid me and 'mistook the R20 for a R200' and conveniently didn't have any other money on him... I feel it's better to get the money upfront cause that way there can't be any 'misunderstanding on rate' conveniently after the service has been provided. It's a business transaction, one doesn't get to drive a new car out of the showroom until it's been paid for..... Imagine driving the car away from the dealership before it's paid for????

Although it really isn't a problem with either I wish to point out 2 things ..
1. A service is procured not an asset .so payment is for a service and not to buy you. Generally you pay the plumber after the pipes are cleaned or blowed clean .
2. You get to test drive the car before buying it at a dealership. Sometimes more than once .
Really didn't follow the thread just your comment

On this topic I actually concur with Durban guy 1980 and what he has pointed out is correct, imho. In my experience, I generally have had rather poor experiences from WG's who demand payment up front. The best ladies I've ever visited, such as Bree and Vanilla, never made payment up front an issue and they gave me the mind blowing service that dreams are made of. I wonder sometimes whether customer satisfaction and earning a client's return business is even on the minds of some ladies in this game.. although in fairness it is a two way street and everyone is human..cliche to say, but true.. so to not be in many Working girl's shoes is to not understand what it's like to be robbed by dishonest clients etc. I can only equate it to my own frustration of being a very young barman and being given the stint by dishonest patrons on their so-called "tab" they had with the establishment where I worked ..I was so naive and trusted them, only to be let down.. my manager picked it up soon after.. I was burned AND lesson learned. So in some way, I do empathise with many ladies who have been burned before.. anyway, just my input here..

On 2017-07-19 12:26:11 Chasten said:
It's normal to pay up front with a new lady - in my experience.
but when I see a lady regularly its always after - slip it under the pillow!!
Often with a regular, I transfer the money, so no cash involved 'for the session' - somehow makes it better / nicer??

Agreed! Once a client is A regular of mine he only pays afterwards. But a new client that walks in that door, I don't know from a bar of soap so why should I risk not being paid after he's had his way with me? I always give a good service which is why I have many regulars, but for argument sake let's just say he will be that one idiot that wasn't happy with my service and doesn't want to pay me? Why should I take that risk?? And yes, I actually did have a guy call me once asking my rates and then had the audacity to ask me, 'so if I don't cum in that hour do I still have to pay???!!!'
So if a girl gives bad service she's going to get affected by it because you punters can review us or have us banned. What can we do if a punter fucks us then refuses to pay because in his opinion the service was bad??? Whether good or bad service is given it still was provided!

Personally I don't ask for money upfront unless a guy decides to get that out of the way but I think being paid upfront is better for many reasons.

Sometimes guys tend to overstay for an hour or even more and I would be thinking they know my hourly rates but to my surprise I would get an hour's payment on a 2 hours or more session and I would lose the next appointment (scheduled 90 minutes after the current) because people normally call a bit in advance to confirm but my phone would be on silent but if I he paid upfront 15 minutes after the hour is up I can end the session.

I never compromise on the service I offer so getting money upfront is just to give me a peace of mind in terms of unnecessary overstaying ........