Really? How stupid can one be? Is it not obvious that if a girl offers you bareback that she is definitely doing bareback with other clients too! And vice versa, any client asking for bareback is doing it with other girls too. If you're not worried of getting hiv then you most probably already have
The amount of clients phoning a day asking for bareback is shocking.
And girls, wake up
What makes you think you are so special to believe a certain client only loves, adores and visits you that you will have unprotected sex?

On 2017-08-30 20:49:46 johndoe69za said:
If you are getting fh from a massage only girl it could be her way of beating the system where owners check for used condoms/packets to ensure no full house takes place

This is why I tell the ladies that first and foremost we are a sensual massage venue that doesn't allow oral or fh. However should a condom or condom wrapper be discovered in the bins myself and Eve have a no questions asked policy. We're all adults so let's behave responsibly. I would much rather find a condom in the bin than explain to someone's family their partner has an STD because I'm so backwards thinking that I'd flip out over a condom

On 2017-08-31 10:07:09 Nicky said:
Really? How stupid can one be? Is it not obvious that if a girl offers you bareback that she is definitely doing bareback with other clients too! And vice versa, any client asking for bareback is doing it with other girls too. If you're not worried of getting hiv then you most probably already have
The amount of clients phoning a day asking for bareback is shocking.
And girls, wake up
What makes you think you are so special to believe a certain client only loves, adores and visits you that you will have unprotected sex?

I agree 100%.
Honestly don't expect the service you get from other ladies to be the same as our services.
I have been in this industry to long and I can count on my 2 hands clients trying to do it without protection!
Move along buddy... we don't need your kind of business!
Atleast I don't.
And what the girls say is true, there is so many clients asking for bareback we decline them on the spot!

So, the question is this. Is the barebacking thing more prevalent among MG? Or WGs?
Are the punters who phone the ladies and ask on the phone for bareback for real or just prank calling? What if a lady calls his bluff to see if he will *actually* make a booking?

Any ways, at the end of the day each individual is responsible for his/her own choices & actions.

I'd rather be safe than sorry. No "slip-ups" allowed. No pun intended either. Just an observation: Is it not interesting that some regular participants in this forum have not participated in this debate. Must have been an extremely busy two days for some. Trust they were all exercising restraint.

reenaP I don't think you could say where it's more prevalent, I think it happens everywhere and if you have two individuals who are hell bent on doing bareback it's going to happen.

What I can tell you is that we've never had a case of std's amongst any of the girls who have been with us so I presume everyone is sticking to the rules and those who didn't used protection.

Reading this again I'm thinking

It's not every girl who offers or does bareback, I don't think girls who do that even exceeds 10% of the girls on ESA. So the statement on the heading of this thread implies that most girls in the industry are into bare back and they offer it.

That's not true, it's actually offensive to some people including myself. We don't walk around playing unsafe, some of us are single Mothers and breadwinners so no amount of money is worth our health/life.

Well I can also start a thread saying "guys please don't assume that we are all into bareback but that will be disrespectful to most guys because they practice safe sex just like most of us ladies do.

@Vanilla...here...here..
I was wondering why, after 46 posts none of the lovely ladies here on ESA did not say what you just did...cos although this may be def true in this industry per se ...and maybe def true with some MG's and or WG's that are on ESA...this thread topic can paint a diff picture...

I participated on this thread before but when I started thinking just how some guys tend to think the worst of us. Some guys even think we all drink excessively and do drugs just because of our work and down for anything as long as we are offered money.

I just don't like it when people generalize and paint us all with the same brush. You find a broke guy using his last money on a booking feeling so superior to us and a lot of us live good and responsible lifestyles.

If anyone reads something like this they will automatically assume that's what we all do which is an insult even to our clients, and a lot of our clients are responsible married men.

We are looked down at because of our current "status" ignorant that maybe next year I can lend a job that will pay me R60k a month and someone earning just R20k in some big company thinks he's better.

I hope that answers your question Gudtyms.

We have seen statements like "I don't trust these girls, when I go for a booking I leave my phone/wallet/watch in the car". It's not nice reading something like that, we are human beings with emotions and our work doesn't make us less human.