On 2017-09-12 07:42:47 I never learn said:
My thoughts, and please note : It is MY thoughts.


It is highly unlikely.

They are constantly on the phone making the next booking.

Because leaving doesn't happen overnight. When do they actually stop working ? And do they actually stop ?

They are their own business managers, making their own money. How will that be replaced ? Not by a meagre salary ?

Trust issues.

Selfishness as a preservation tool. Their world revolves around themselves. Nails and hair and weed and party and kak clients the usual ultimately boring dinner conversation.

The list is endless

Statistically the chances of meeting a life partner here are miniscule.

And just remember that even in the "real life", our divorce ratio is 56 %.

Scary

I think that South Africans are not good marriage / relationship material.

And the fucknuts prowling these purple shores ? I have met a few and of those only one or two will make it to my invite list for a braai. And I also don't like myself, so I am in the same boat.

The allure of dating a chick who you know fucks, that is more what it is.


We fall in love here so easily, because we are so fucking gullible. Fall in love here at your own peril, your heart will be broken, until you learn to distance yourself from the bullshit and accept this for what it is.

This might sound bad, but we are here looking for dumping sites for our semen. Think about that for a minute. We pay to dump semen. You can wank, but is it not so much nicer to be wanked ?

Don't confuse the dumping of semen with love.

100% correct lol interesting choice of words but correct non the less

On 2017-09-12 09:07:59 [deleted] said:
] Love is difficult enough ............... the level of difficulty in such a scenario go's past "P@*% Moeilik" and thats me" Loco" out of here its been lekker !!!

Wtf??? Where you going

On 2017-09-12 09:40:51 Arhwen said:
Honestly speaking for both the ladies and they guys you don't find Diamonds in brothel.

Eish...
Those are harsh words..
Like one doesn't deserve love when one works in a brothel.
Eish...
Some ladies really are diamonds. Are a rare find unfortunately circumstances found them working in a brothel.
But they are also human too.

Arhwen is always brutally honest. I admire her for that.

On 2017-09-12 09:58:37 Sugar Xtreme Xxx said:
On 2017-09-12 09:40:51 Arhwen said: Honestly speaking for both the ladies and they guys you don't find Diamonds in brothel.


Eish...
Those are harsh words..
Like one doesn't deserve love when one works in a brothel.
Eish...
Some ladies really are diamonds. Are a rare find unfortunately circumstances found them working in a brothel.
But they are also human too.

Lees Tussen () Nor in the sense that your value as a person decreases I do agree their are amazing ladies and gents in this industry but you cannot mix business with pleasure those relationships always fails sooner or later.

In the same token I have met ladies in this industry in successful relationships with non punters.

So do these ladies think that only punters can accept them for being in the sex industry is that all they believe they are worth.

I saw a punter that took a lady out of the business a day guess what lol he still punts.

Sorry babel this is a harsh industry no candy coated bullshit works hear.

Again those words were meant to show we here to fill our wallets cupboards and ego and men are here to empty their balls that is the truth.

If I may ask you how many ladies in this industry have long lasting healthy relationships with punters???

On 2017-09-12 10:11:24 Vegas said:
Arhwen is always brutally honest. I admire her for that.

Thank kind sir :)

@Arwhen Ek Lees nie tussen hakkies nie!!
You made your point across now to cover it up with ()...
Really.. Nee man meisie..
Not nice at all what you said...
Anyway
I'm leaving it at that
Cheers!!!

On 2017-09-12 09:40:51 Arhwen said:
Honestly speaking for both the ladies and they guys you don't find Diamonds in brothel. (I'm not speaking of who you are as people on the inside because I've met some really amazing people here)

Think about it. Ladies are here to feed their wallets thier cupboards and their ego. The guys are here to explode their load.

Sugar above is my Statement as posted next to my you do not find diamonds in brothel are words I posted between brackets. You chose to ignore those words I'm not covering up any thing like I said I don't candy coat BS.

On 2017-09-12 10:48:16 Sugar Xtreme Xxx said:
@Arwhen Ek Lees nie tussen hakkies nie!!
You made your point across now to cover it up with ()...
Really.. Nee man meisie..
Not nice at all what you said...
Anyway
I'm leaving it at that
Cheers!!!

Sorry if I offended you but you the one that chose to ignore what I said tussen hakkies but I'm not sorry for my opinion as I've been around long enough to know this is the harsh reality of this industry.

You still did not answer my question. How many ladies in this industry have long lasting healthy relationships in this industry???

With the answer to that question I rest my case ;)

I know of a few incl myself.
Maar wat jy gese het is lelik.
Anyway I will leave it..
Ps these days you seem to be having your knives out.. Slashing away, and away...
Relax a little.
Regards
Sugar Xtreme XXX