Yup, most of us are happy to usually have vanilla sex. For those of us who want to explore the kinkier side of things, there are specialist service providers. This thing of wanting to try anal, cof, (btw, what is atm?) golden showers etc has in my opinion to do with watching too much internet porn. These are things most of us might want to try at some point and then move on. I tried spanking once out of curiosity, but it's not my scene. "Serious" kink is a fringe interest catered for by specialists.
Not judging, just my thoughts.

On 2017-09-28 19:16:09 ACatiga said:
I get the impression that the average punter is happy with a BJ and a Shag nowadays.
There are 2 types of punters in my opinion.
1. The guy that cant get a girl to show him interest and then decides to buy the interest, thats all fine, and for him a run of the mill BJ or Shag is heaven.
Then there is No.2.
Where I fit in. I am married, and I can get the norm from my wife and others on the side for free.
What I want is the Porn Star, the girl that loves the freaky stuff. CIM, COF, Swallows, Anal, ATM, MMF, FFM, Golden Showers, Rimming and more.
Why would I pay for something I can get for free, I pay for what I cant get for free, and it seems there are few WG's that cater for all the No.2's out there.

Just my opinion.

Its your choice to book or look for the type of wg you into but not good to try and label other punters if you dont know why they really punt

And its also supply and demand gfe is more popular the pse


And maybe next time just ask who offers PSE names like foxi Mia and Chas come to mind instead of thinking guys who are into gfe cant get gfs

Definition of mediocrity:

1. the quality of something that is not very good : the quality or state of being mediocre
2. a person who does not have the special ability to do something well

There are 5 types of people who make use of adult services:

1. Human Connection - Those who are lonely/need someone to talk to/need someone to hold - the desire is not sex in itself, but instead human connection;
2. Pure Stress Relief - Those who want to be spoiled/pampered/unwind - focus is on the therapeutic part of the appointment, with pelvic relief as the safe sex grand finale;
3. GFE - Those with a romantic nature, who want to feel special/loved/passion/kissed deeply - focus is on lovemaking as opposed to fucking;
4. PSE - Those who want to explore fantasies and give life to pure lust, without being judged for their kinks - focus is on hard core sexual acts;
5. BDSM - Those who want to explore BDSM , without being judged for their kinks - focus is on physical and/or mental control with sexual relief being the grand finale, if granted to them;

Not all service providers cater for all 5 types of clients. Most only cater for 1 or maybe 2 types of clients. To see those service providers who do not cater to your requirements as offering a mediocre service, is a bit skewed imo. Ditto for seeing clients who do not share your requirements, as having settled for mediocre service.

In Conclusion you can only experience mediocrity if:

1.You have blindly booked a service provider in the hopes that once in the bedroom she will cater for your requirements,without telling her BEFORE making the appointment what your requirements are;
2.She falsely advertised that she caters for the client type that you are AND she verbalized this to you on the phone BEFORE the appointment, and then does not deliver said services;

Remedy to avoid Mediocrity:

ONLY book ladies who DEFINITELY offer what you are looking for...

Well said Sibyl! #like

Arz

@muffman, ATM = Ass to Mouth
Yes, literally.

Blame all the internet porn an Fifty Shades of Shit crap. Every chutiya out there wanna be freaky maadhir now.

"'Cause if you like it then you should have put a ring on it" - Beyonce

In the Purple World, does this mean an escort who does ATM?

People don't realize if you are decent and treat a SP as a human being that an entire new door opens for fantastic service (Best of all free of charge).

If you treat her like an asset don't be surprised if you get treated like an ATM.

*edit Automatic Teller Machine not Ass To Mouth

On 2017-09-29 11:01:11 zwan said:
People don't realize if you are decent and treat a SP as a human being that an entire new door opens for fantastic service (Best of all free of charge).

If you treat her like an asset don't be surprised if you get treated like an ATM.

*edit Automatic Teller Machine not Ass To Mouth

#Like
Spot on

Have to agree with Sibyl here. The title is way off since it doesn't mean mediocre by any means as implied but different experiences required.

That I've found is really a personal preference. There are many women who like that stuff, wgs or not. Many don't even know if they do and are willing to explore and learn. Then their are those that don't so move along instead of calling the rest mediocre.

On 2017-09-29 09:50:33 Sibyl said:

3. GFE - Those with a romantic nature, who want to feel special/loved/passion/kissed deeply - focus is on lovemaking as opposed to fucking;

There you go, if you reading this......This is what I mean ;-) I was returning the BFE LOL