"Mini...what is your take on this subject Sir" everybody goes.....

Ok...basically fokkol people asked that question...thanks...

People get "put off" by allot of things. Me myself...I can just by accident think about work of politics or that shit...then an erection is the last thing that is on my "to do list".

As far as I know Skyeblue is always very respectful and I am 100% certain that he didn't ment to offend anybody. Pretty much the same as a lady telling about any other surgical procedure...isnt it? Allot of people don't like the though of doctors and knifes and surgical procedures and stuff.

What I think anyway.

Ya it happens, erections are not governed by logic so the fact that the topic put a damper on things is understandable. However, good judgement would require that u keep this to yourself. I don't think it was a good idea to bring it up on the public forum. My opinion on the matter

[QUOTE;843608;Sultry Indian Jiah] Some men really need to change their patriarchal mentality about women. You have a problem with women's menstrual cycles every month, pregnancies and hysterectomy.

I agree. Some men ALWAYS need to complain about woman. I had a hysterectomy because my ex husband complained about my 8 days heavy menstrual cycles every month... It took me 3 month's to recover because of a bacteria i got in hospital... then he complained about the 3 months without taking my healt in consideration... and when he left me he blamed the hysterectomy and not his affair. I'm WAY more sexual than ever in my life... So easy for men to constantly complaining about woman no matter what we do.
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On 2017-10-01 14:35:50 DIRECTORSSS said:


As far as I know Skyeblue is always very respectful and I am 100% certain that he didn't ment to offend anybody.

Have to agree. I cant help but think that a lot of the reactions have are over the top. He raised an issue in a respectful manner without naming the lady. No where did i see him actually blaming the lady for what he experienced. In fact he seems to be confused and looking for advice. Yet he gets shot down.

Im surprised that nobody considered that he might actually be a sensitive considerate guy. And subconciously without him even realising he may have been concerned about hurting her. If a lady even shows the slightest bit of discomfort or pain during sex i go limp. If im honest if i was in that situation i probably would have gone limp knowing that the lady recently had a major medical procedure. Agreed he probably didnt handle the situation the best but some of the accusations thrown at him are way too harsh. I would have probably sat down and discussed the procedure with the lady so that i gain a better understanding about the matter.

If anything i think the guy
needs a bit of advice

I have met skyblue100 personally and know that he is always respectful and a gentleman of note towards all the ladies and punters.

But unfortunately on the ESA forums you will be taken to the cleaners rather than receiving advice most of the times ... so bloody sad actually !!!

Also having a crisis of mine currently and would like some advice but after the comments towards him .. I rather try to resolved this one by myself !!!

Thank goodness for anonimity

I am back and having read all the comments, I realised I should not have posted the topic in the first place. But as 330guy indicated, I tried to raise the issue in a respectful manner as it is something that really bothered me. And thanks to the guys that supported me like Boobs and Mini. I find the lady in question very attractive and will certainly be visiting her again. I was just caught off-guard by her sudden announcement and it was a bit of a mood killer for me. And apologies to all the ladies that I offended, I really did not mean to. I will report back after my next visit to my lady friend.

I think some commentators, myself included, may have blown the original post out of proportion. Apologies for my part.

Good luck with your next visit to your friend! May the force be with you!

As long as the outer looks the same i will get a hard hard on they can take out all the insides i will still cum bring it on ladies.

Yep would have stopped me in my tracks as well. The thought of having sex with someone who has just had major surgery and could be hurt is not something I find appealing at all.

Some people will get what you are saying. Others won't