I had a few ladies that wanted to walk me to my car at HOE, but I say my final good bye at reception. They 50 happy steps for me.. I always tip the happy security guard at the gate. The ride home is the best part as I'm still on cloud nine. The taxis can cut me off I don't care as I still got a huge smile on my face.. I turn up the radio and sing along reminiscing the magical experience that just took place.

Jasimo

That sitting alone can be a double edged sword.

On the one hand some ladies flock to your table and being the gentleman, you order drinks for them, and then they start ordering shooters, and the next thing you have a bill of enormous proportions.

On the other hand you sit there all alone between the crowd, and feel alone. That happened to me a lot.

Thats why I usually have someone with me. Safety in numbers. And we dictate who is allowed to sit with us or not. So much easier.

And my bookings : I will always finish at 19h15, so that the lady can still sit and chat afterwards.

Well, that is the plan anyway.

Also go on quieter days, like Tuesdays and Thursdays.

Cheers

@I never learn thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings, for giving me a glimpse inside the punter mind...it has struck a cord....

I know the title of this thread is about HOE and I do not work for them, but I have to drop my head in shame and admit that I have never actually given any thought to the range of possible conflicting emotions a client may feel, once he leaves my place and gets into his car.

I normally give the goodbye hug at the front door and then walk outside with my client, but not all the way to his car door. I do however stay outside and wave goodbye before closing the gate after he has pulled out of the driveway.

Welcome back boss.

Reena

Thanks boss.

Wishing I could stay on holiday forever, but no such luck.

Cheers

Sibyl

No need to hang your head. You are already doing more than what most are doing.

And then not all punters are little babies like me. I like the emotional rollercoaster ride that goes with a booking.

It starts early with the planning and getting the right excuses, right down to scraping the heels of your feet and the excess perfume that will elicit a comment.

Let me not get started, for fear of emasculating myself.

Rest assured that we appreciate the effort that you ladies put in to accomodate us.

We are simply needy little fucknuts.

Regards

Personally I think that is the difference between a venue and a independent lady.

A venue Charges the lady for her time in the room so your time will run with the venue's clock and once you done you done. On to the next appointment.

As a independent I don't have to pay for a room and I book my own appointments. I also never book two appointments directly after each other as I like to shower clean my space take a breather between clients and because I don't have to give away my money I don't have to chase the next appointment. This leaves time for a chat after a smoke outside if he smokes(I don't smoke) Then off to his car with the same sort of hug and kiss he received when entering provided he is a hug kind of person or he is kissable. Into his car most probably still chatting and as he drives down my driveway I open the gate and wave good bye with a big smile on my face.

I think when visiting a I dependant so the service is just a lot more personalised than what you would find at a venue.

Just my opinion though

I have never been to HOE, but imagine those steps to be like the one's at the Voortrekker Monument...

Maybe they should introduce a golf carting service, so you can avoid the steps?

On 2017-10-03 22:22:00 MrShyGuyV2 said:
I have never been to HOE, but imagine those steps to be like the one's at the Voortrekker Monument...

Maybe they should introduce a golf carting service, so you can avoid the steps?

Lol now there's some food for thought :)

Where's HOE? I think I'd like to visit