On 2017-11-10 19:41:31 frankstar said:
I am a highly educated individual. I have a job in which I deal with very serious people and topics on a daily basis. I went to one of the top boys schools in the country where I was a leader in my field. I have treated every single lady I have ever met on this forum with dignity and respect. Miss Paige and I have even grown a wonderful mutual respect in the wake of her drama. And yet I deal with this shit
"Hey black boy keep away from dem white girls stick to your own ama Zulu's. Retard, don't be talking about how stupid white people are then try to bang white girls. Double standard skunk." Now a couple of things. I am not Zulu. I'm not retarded and I certainly do not smell like a skunk. My R4000 cologne cupboard proves that. This guy has not messaged me for weeks. This message is old. But he has been watching my movements and sent me another unsolicited message tonight. I enjoy white women. It's a fetish but in my personal life and schooling and (5) years at university it's who I dated. Why should I get judged or suffer such abuse? Why should this enter my life on this site? Can anyone explain this thinking to me. I get racism at a braai but here where our choices are private. Why?
On 2017-11-10 21:00:45 Sniper_Viper said:
On 2017-11-10 19:41:31 frankstar said: I am a highly educated individual. I have a job in which I deal with very serious people and topics on a daily basis. I went to one of the top boys schools in the country where I was a leader in my field. I have treated every single lady I have ever met on this forum with dignity and respect. Miss Paige and I have even grown a wonderful mutual respect in the wake of her drama. And yet I deal with this shit
"Hey black boy keep away from dem white girls stick to your own ama Zulu's. Retard, don't be talking about how stupid white people are then try to bang white girls. Double standard skunk." Now a couple of things. I am not Zulu. I'm not retarded and I certainly do not smell like a skunk. My R4000 cologne cupboard proves that. This guy has not messaged me for weeks. This message is old. But he has been watching my movements and sent me another unsolicited message tonight. I enjoy white women. It's a fetish but in my personal life and schooling and (5) years at university it's who I dated. Why should I get judged or suffer such abuse? Why should this enter my life on this site? Can anyone explain this thinking to me. I get racism at a braai but here where our choices are private. Why?
R40 00 cone cupboard? You s that bad, 'eh? Just ignore the messages man. People will be people. All races are discriminated against in some way or form. Just rise above it and be a better man.
On 2017-11-11 13:56:41 flyingwild said:
It is sad that you had to experience that Frankstar but on a deeper level, if you think that having a private education, university degree and a top job entitles you to a certain level of respect even on a racial level you are very very wrong! R4000 equates to 2.5 bottles of the really good colognes, so it's not even a factor. This person doesn't like you for the color of your skin period, it's not right but that is the bottom line. Your education, job, minuscule cologne collection and mannerisms will never change the reality.