@I Never Learn. Your dad sounds like a wise man. I think I'll take you up on your advice.

@Wabbit I agree, there are so many amazing ladies here. That's what makes this strange.

On 2017-11-16 14:58:09 robbycolonel said:
Guys. I've lost all interest in punting. I don't know what the hell is going on.

Punting is like any other drug, where the addict is constantly trying to recreate the euphoria of that very first high by taking hit after hit, hoping that it will be even better than that elusive first high...

For most punters it becomes a never ending chase that lasts a life time, whilst for a small minority the chase in itself looses its appeal, perhaps because they finally realize that it is a pointless chase - when the subconscious shows them the truth - as that ultimate high was created by themselves, nothing more than a chemical reaction in the brain, caused by though patterns at the time....something that can actually be experienced again and again at will, whenever they want it to, without participating in the exhausting chase.......

On 2017-11-16 15:12:42 smokie1962 said:
Hi robbycolonel,

You are not the only one, recently had bad experiences in the WG's and as a net result, I have a look, window shopping, and see what is going on, but honestly the interest has been lost, considering going to massage girls only but will have to find a good massage girl around that will get me going again.

I think you have to come visit at The Doll House, you won't be disappointed

Sybil

"something that can actually be experienced again and again at will, whenever they want it to, without participating in the exhausting chase......."


You are not by any chance referring to the SSS ?


This is one of the best posts of the year.

Regards

It's just a temporary loss of interest. It happens .. it's human nature to get bored .

U try the traditional hookups , and those are fun for a while too , it keeps you away from punting .. but eventually you find your way back ..

In the midst of all this , a great massage girl u really need to find .. FH is a bit overrated(sometimes) .. hahaha ..

Good luck

On 2017-11-17 10:39:12 I never learn said:
Sybil

"something that can actually be experienced again and again at will, whenever they want it to, without participating in the exhausting chase......."


You are not by any chance referring to the SSS ?


This is one of the best posts of the year.

Regards

Lol well yes the SSS is one way of experiencing that euphoria over and over again, but you can also experience it with absolutely any person who you are intimate with, regardless of who the person is, if you choose to do so. Meaning you have the tools at your disposal within yourself, to recreate the ultimate high for yourself, because ecstasy/euphoria is very much a product of thought patterns, which creates a neuro-chemical reaction, which can translate into physical pleasure.

I don't know if the above makes sense, a bit difficult to explain what I mean, but put in simple terms: Personally I can flick a switch on in my head that will make me reach the ultimate high with any person I am intimate with, regardless of who the person is or how skilled the person is, if I choose to do so. Conversely I can also flick the switch off if I choose to do so and experience the ultimate low....
I don't need to go chasing after the ultimate high, because I am the creator of my own ultimate high.

Sybil

I am trying to wrap my head around this. It is almost the Pavlov principle where certain thought processes will lead to a desired outcome.

I don't think that I will be able to switch on and off like you, as I need the correct stimuli to reach the desired level.

But it is interesting that there is a way of getting to Utopia even if the person you are intimate with does not live up to expectation.

I think in my case it would just switching off (the brown paperbag prinnciple) and go for gold. I realise it is more complex for ladies, and that you will probably need to focus more on the "thought process" than the actual deed.

Very interesting.

On 2017-11-17 11:22:23 Sibyl said:
...but you can also experience it with absolutely any person who you are intimate with, regardless of who the person is, if you choose to do so.

I don't know if the above makes sense, a bit difficult to explain what I mean, but put in simple terms: Personally I can flick a switch on in my head that will make me reach the ultimate high with any person I am intimate with, regardless of who the person is or how skilled the person is, if I choose to do so. Conversely I can also flick the switch off if I choose to do so and experience the ultimate low....
I don't need to go chasing after the ultimate high, because I am the creator of my own ultimate high.

Sibyl

I just love this post!

I am exactly the same my lady. And you are right, it is not easy to explain, but I know what you mean. I always refer to it as a state of mind thing.

On 2017-11-16 14:58:09 robbycolonel said:
Guys. I've lost all interest in punting. I don't know what the hell is going on. Am I dying? Has anybody else ever experienced this?

Hey sweet heart, wow, i hope i am too of the point here cause you sound like a good human being... then again I believe all people are great just at times too influenced, stressed, intimidated etc.

Every body needs a break every now and a gen, too much of work can make u tired and too much of a holiday can accomplish the same.

Maybe at a time u really enjoyed visiting all us crazy girls but maybe your mind is telling you to take a break.

and on a little deeper sense, maybe u secretly desire something more than what can be offered in here, a honest relationship, whether u are in one or not, just to sort a couple of things out in your own life maybe.

Not all may agree with relationships and or the idea of commitment however we are dynamic, and our minds is amazing, they prepare us for what we really want I believe.

Maybe you should not fight or worry so much about it and rather except that a new door is opening for you and you don't need the approval or advice from any one here cause you already know what u need, and the advice received will come from someone who does not need what you do.

I would honestly advice you to take some time to do some proper self evaluation which only you can do for your self.

You can not go wrong, either it will bring you back, make you discover something new about yourself whether it is in the limbido area of your assistance or not.

With december coming up, the saving of money can not harm anyway..

I do apologize if i am too superficial.

Perhaps a very simple piece of advice from Crosby, Stills and Nash might help -
" If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with"
Works for me.