HI,

I have never spent time with a working girl, been to a strip club or had any other experience with the sex industry.

I have been thinking about having an experience with a WG for a while now.

I have some idea as to what I am looking for, but am unsure if what I'm too naive or unrealistic in my expectations.

I am looking to develop a relationship that is more that just physical. I would like to connect with someone on an emotional and intellectual level, spending time to get to know one another and connect on a personal level, before exploring the more physical side of the relationship.

I would like to begin our relationship with a conversation to get to know one another, perhaps over a slow, intimate dinner and maybe some slow dancing? If the chemistry is right we could decide to seduce one another. If not, we could go our separate ways.

You see, I'm not looking for a "one night stand" or a purely physical encounter. I'm looking for a medium to long-term relationship with a mistress. Someone who I can connect with emotionally, have deep conversations about life, share dinners, concerts, outings and of course share a mutually satisfying sexual adventure.

The ideas that over time we can share an intimate and mutually, satisfying emotion and sexual relationship.

Am I out of my mind? Is think kind of relationship even possible with a WG? Have anyone actually had this kind of relationship with a WG?

If you would like to explore this kind of relationship with me feel free to email me at: [Send Message]

Looking forward to hearing from you!

To Jimmy
There are quite a few threads on this forum about "punters" (how I loathe that word because of gambling connotations) fall hard financially and emotionally because they "fell for a wg". The Julia Roberts Pretty Woman scenario hardly ever plays out in real life. If you choose to visit a wg, keep it purely physical.
I presume you're single, and probably not Mr Smoothtalk who can pick up any woman he wants, anytime, anywhere, so I suggest you do some research, find out which social/hookup websites are credible, create a suitable profile of yourself and what you're looking for and good luck!

'Am I out of my mind' in short, yes.

@Jimmy0069 sounds like you'd be better off on a dating site.

But but but, here if your wallet is thick enough, you will find a WG where you can get all the "emotional, intimate, intelectual and yadda yadda yadda etc etc" stuff you want. Hell, you can even find a WG to fart in your face boss.

In summary, money talks, bullshit walks.

On 2017-11-22 08:22:25 reenaP said:
@Jimmy0069 sounds like you'd be better off on a dating site.

But but but, here if your wallet is thick enough, you will find a WG where you can get all the "emotional, intimate, intelectual and yadda yadda yadda etc etc" stuff you want. Hell, you can even find a WG to fart in your face boss.

In summary, money talks, bullshit walks.

Yes and no
Money does talk but the way you treat a wg also makes a difference.
They can fake orgasm but they cant fake wet!

@Jimmy, it sounds like you are looking for love. Wrong place.
Join a dating site or something like Ashley Madisson if you are married (just don't use a personal or work email address that can identify you) or be prepared to be strung along by a wg until your finances dry up.

On 2017-11-22 08:38:22 markymarky said:



They can fake orgasm but they cant fake wet!

Ummmm.. actually they can and some do fake wet!

Don't know if your married or involved?
Honestly it doesn't matter.
Think you looking for someone in the wrong place?
Honestly love is not what you gonna find in this purple world.( a need---need to have)(belustigheid jip).

Trust is a big issue for all our ladies.

And sweetheart if we meet you here, the trust is already gone.

And talking to someone?
Oh wow we sure are good listeners believe me!

But love?
We do this to survive not play someone's back and call unless it's to relieve you of the pressure between your legs.... ;-)

Yes we pay our way... and our time is important to us and our family.
Time is money.

It's this a bit to straight forward? Then I do apologize being heartless!

Hope you find some kinky lady in hoekie vir eensames of something.
Kind regards

I'm going to disagree with all of the above responses...

What Jimmy is looking for, if I read his post correctly, is a long-term PAID mistress - not a girlfriend or a potential wife, or even love. (That was never mentioned).

By the very definition of 'escort' and 'GFE' is what he is asking for THAT impossible? A no-strings, by appointment, REGULAR get together with a WG that is intelligent, friendly and willing to listen as well as fuck his brains out. For payment, of course.

Sounds pretty sweet to me. ;)

I'm in this kind of arrangement with a gentlemen I met here, it's been 3yrs and it's working well for both of us, if it happens I'm not available for him I book a lady for him....

He's married with a lovely family, there's no "love relationship" here I'm just the "paid head mistress", and that's good enough for me ...

Better keep it this way than lose his business right? Because as soon as "love" get's involved it ruins everything, there's a line that shouldn't be crossed and I've learnt over the years how to master that...

It is true, if you're a true gentleman with a big fat wallet you'll score yourself someone who'll be willing to be your "head mistress" no pun intended...

Hope you find what you're looking for @Jimmy0069//.