So some might have seen my post over the weekend about contemplating suicide. Man was I surprised at the response. Girls I've never even booked chatting to me on WhatsApp, giving advice listening to my issues and generally just being awesome people. As opposed to some other instances where I have been stood up and scammed out of cash. Truly this site has two sides. I'm glad I'm finally finding the gems amongst the rubble. And then I try to repay in kind and invite a WG, whom I know has a lot of problems in her life, to spend Christmas with me and my family, and she doesn't even bother to reply. While I'm sure many others would be just too grateful for such an invite. You live, you learn, you grow. Thanks for those beautiful souls who helped me make it through the weekend. Too many to mention, but you know who you are.

@Sniper_Viper...man...really sorry to hear you. Hope you feeling a lot better and those thoughts have now gotten outa your head. and YES this purple world can help. There are great people hereon and we appreciate them. There's always gonna be a hit'n miss sometimes but for most part the people in this purple world are great people. I hope you find the right lady to spend time with you over the season...I'm sure you will.

Glad to hear that you connected with people who wanted to uplift you.

So glad you feeling better!

Warm hugs and kisses to you

Xoxox

Well done hun .... so glad for you ...... always know there are people that care somewhere somehow, you are not alone took a lot of courage to do what you did !!!!

Morgs
xoxo

On 2017-11-27 13:59:22 Sniper_Viper said:
So some might have seen my post over the weekend about contemplating suicide. Man was I surprised at the response. Girls I've never even booked chatting to me on WhatsApp, giving advice listening to my issues and generally just being awesome people. As opposed to some other instances where I have been stood up and scammed out of cash. Truly this site has two sides. I'm glad I'm finally finding the gems amongst the rubble. And then I try to repay in kind and invite a WG, whom I know has a lot of problems in her life, to spend Christmas with me and my family, and she doesn't even bother to reply. While I'm sure many others would be just too grateful for such an invite. You live, you learn, you grow. Thanks for those beautiful souls who helped me make it through the weekend. Too many to mention, but you know who you are.

I'm truly glad you're feeling better and have, at least to some extent, had your faith restored. Keep it up good man!

Don't take it personally that the specific girl did not respond. With all the problems in her own space, she might be taking her time to contemplate whether this would be a good idea or not. Consider... you might have gone through a rough patch, but generally a Xmas gathering of family is usually quite joyous. She might feel that after such a happy day, returning to reality might be harder than other days, spent without that much joy. It's complicated, but her reasons might be sincere and merely self preservation.

Hey babes, only see now, good for you for seeing the up side.
Hope u are feeling much better honey. Remember, no matter who u are, how u look or where u are at in you life, u are to special to allow little nothings influence u too much,
If someone tells u or make u feel less, then it is because we are living in a dynamic world and the person is too different from u to respect ur individuality
Hope u feel better

Going to someone elses home for Christmas... you have the questions of work you do, you have to be dresses up and 'on form'. Im sure a gift to the other people would be socially expected which she may not have money for. After dinner, she would be expected to help clean up. What about church? She may want to go to midnight mass and you dont. Or you do and she is an athiest.... who knows. Would you have expected a bit of sexy free fun from the girl for inviting her? Your invitation may have been well intentioned but please dont think she is ungrateful for not responding. It is wrong to think people jump at the chance to be invited to a family dinner when it is actually alot of mental, physical and emotional energy...

I am an orphan and have spent every christmas alone since I was 17. Very tough. Before that the holidays were horrid because of a family situation. If I am invited somewhere to spend time with friends (I am fortunate to have friends who throw an orphan party for mutual friends who are alone on Christmas) and its enjoyable because there is no expectation on me to be the perfect guest. You say she has troubles, that makes spending time with others very difficult as well at this time of year.

So please reconsider whether she is really ungrateful or if your well intentioned offer was asking too much of her?