I was disturbed by another punter's concerned post regarding Asha. I applaud you for speaking out. It made me think again about our responsibility as men in this industry. This is supposedly all fun, but there is a dark side. If a girl is mentally disabled or challenged like what I understand from the Asha story, don't enable whoever is allowing that situation to take advantage of her. If you sense trafficking may be involved or a girl is under age, get out. Call the cops anonymously, at least try and do something. I remember going to a house once. The Thai girl was very uncomfortable and she literally started sweating that is how stressful it was for her knowing she has to have sex with a stranger. I stopped the booking before it even started, thanked her, paid and left. I didn't do anything further however. Maybe I could have done more. It probably would not have helped, but I could have at least tried. It still haunts me.

We read all about the things the ladies go through on a daily basis and that is only what they are prepared to share here for fear of retaliation from punters or harming their business. I can only imagine what they endure privately or only share amongst themselves.

I do believe that there are a lot more good guys here than bad and hope that we can show that it doesnt matter that we pay for sex we are good men and the ladies no matter what they do for a living deserves our respect.

On 2017-12-07 21:53:59 Vegas said:
Call the cops anonymously

That's more easily said than done, unless you have a mobile with gyppo RICA details, or can find a working pay-phone.

(Remember Jasper?)

It's good to know that there are men who recognize when the situation is not what it seems to be and honestly heartbreaking how little responsibility we all take out of fear.

Sadly it is easier said than done.

I often wonder how posts like these affect the girls in question?

Is it possible that it does more harm than good?
How do we know what is the right thing to do?

I'm so touched by this matter but feel completely helpless

On 2017-12-07 21:53:59 Vegas said:
....I do believe that there are a lot more good guys here than bad and hope that we can show that it doesnt matter that we pay for sex we are good men and the ladies no matter what they do for a living deserves our respect.

Vegas...I like your post...

In Asha's case...and in all fairness to those that are trying to help her, sadly she does not seem to have the mental capacity to understand that help is being made available to her, and maybe the reason for her being exploited.

Vegas...I like your post...

In Asha's case...and in all fairness to those that are trying to help her, sadly she does not seem to have the mental capacity to understand that help is being made available to her, and maybe the reason for her being exploited.
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I agree Saint JJ. Also Stockholm syndrome. Over the years I have tried to help many women, both wgs and non-wgs and the biggest issue I found was them feeling sorry for and siding with the abusers and not going through with the alternative offered. Does this mean we shouldn't help? NO would be the PC answer. But we all have to protect ourselves and often helping someone puts us in more danger than the one we are trying to help.

@Bbw Nadia, I hear what you say, but if someone is mentally challenged I wouldn't bring Stockholm syndrome into the equation here. She's not able to think rationally for herself. She's being pimped out and she doesnt and can't know better. But Im with you, I have little sympathy for people who can think for themselves and put themselves in these situations.

On 2017-12-07 21:53:59 Vegas said:


I do believe that there are a lot more good guys here than bad and hope that we can show that it doesnt matter that we pay for sex we are good men and the ladies no matter what they do for a living deserves our respect.

That. Exactly.

It's not only the punters responsibility... but ours too. I feel bad... when Asha send that same message over and over again... and ignored the replies, I replied with "something isn't lekker"... never knew or think about what the reason might be... it just got so irritated seeing the same message 3 times a day... reading this thread really makes me feel bad... like Arhwen said... "rather try to help her"...

On 2017-12-08 09:53:59 Ms Paige said:
It's not only the punters responsibility... but ours too. I feel bad... when Asha send that same message over and over again... and ignored the replies, I replied with "something isn't lekker"... never knew or think about what the reason might be... it just got so irritated seeing the same message 3 times a day... reading this thread really makes me feel bad... like Arhwen said... "rather try to help her"...

We all fell in that trap Ms Paige without knowing the background.

On 2017-12-08 09:21:16 Vegas said:
@Bbw Nadia, I hear what you say, but if someone is mentally challenged I wouldn't bring Stockholm syndrome into the equation here. She's not able to think rationally for herself. She's being pimped out and she doesnt and can't know better. But Im with you, I have little sympathy for people who can think for themselves and put themselves in these situations.

Its even worse for her than for a person if normal intelligence. Unless someone stages an intervention and just physically goes to take her and get her as far as possible, she will go back quicker than someone of normal intelligence because she knows no better.