Its gonna be hard explaining to your future kids what their mother's work was when you met them!

On 2017-09-19 17:30:08 johnmann said:
Its gonna be hard explaining to your future kids what their mother's work was when you met them!

Not hard at all. Just tell your kids their mother was doing community service when you met her. Afterall, thats what WGs do in reality; providing service to a community of horny maadhirs.

On 2017-09-21 11:44:34 reenaP said:
On 2017-09-19 17:30:08 johnmann said: Its gonna be hard explaining to your future kids what their mother's work was when you met them!

Not hard at all. Just tell your kids their mother was doing community service when you met her. Afterall, thats what WGs do in reality; providing service to a community of horny maadhirs.

Lmfa Now the ladies don't have to lie about what the do for a living anymore.

On 2017-09-14 19:12:06 Milika said:
Each time a punter starts to "fall" or "pretend to fall",I always think "hmmmm,he just wants free sex from me & will still go out there to pay somebody else"

So no,as much as I might enjoy a session or company of a punter,falling in love with a punters is far
from my plan..

I have to totally agree, sometimes there is a connection and it is very hard but logically.i know it will end in heartbreak. Better to keep your heart guarded. It is completely out of the question..

On 2017-09-14 19:30:56 DIRECTORSSS said:
On 2017-09-14 19:12:06 Milika said: Each time a punter starts to "fall" or "pretend to fall",I always think "hmmmm,he just wants free sex from me & will still go out there to pay somebody else"



Free sex....well yes. Isn't that how a relationship wpuld work? If a punter fall in love with a lady who work as a bankteller...they would also have free sex.

Him carrying on punting and pay other ladies...well...ja that seems very wrong.

Sorry for late reply Directorsss,I haven't been active on the forum lately..


LMAO...Well,they wouldn't get money from the bank teller just because she is one...My point is,some punters pretend to want a relationship just so that they can get free sex from a working girl...

I would rather give free sex to some guy I met on a dating site or in the club than to a punter who very well knows what I do for a living yet expects to sleep with me & not give cash money...

No love without FINANCE!!!!!

Hahaha..Reminds me of that song, You gotta have a J.O.B if you wanna be with me!

[QUOTE;837132;[deleted]] On 2017-09-14 19:12:06 Milika said: Each time a punter starts to "fall" or "pretend to fall",I always think "hmmmm,he just wants free sex from me & will still go out there to pay somebody else"

So no,as much as I might enjoy a session or company of a punter,falling in love with a punter is far from my plan..

I understand where you are coming from, based on my situation I understood that this is how she made her living. If she was happy to go for a dinner then great, but any other time spent I insisted on paying for.

I applaud you for that...That's what some men don't understand or choose to ignore ...

Am sorry that it didn't work out for you boo...Maybe it just wasn't meant to be...Don't give up on love...You will eventually meet the one trully meant for you...Maybe not on this site.

Hugs & kisses

On 2017-09-21 14:47:10 Milika said:


I would rather give free sex to some guy I met on a dating site or in the club than to a punter who very well knows what I do for a living yet expects to sleep with me & not give cash money...

Completely understand this Miss.

This is an interesting topic and for once, I've taken the time to read every single comment even the long ones by the veterans. I'm also grappling with this issue in my own personal life and I don't think I have this figured out yet. My view though is that there are no clear cut black and white, right and wrong answers to these questions. Each situation is unique and success or failure depends on individuals involved and their circumstances and their temperaments.

One thing I've come to appreciate about life in general though is that we never experience reality as it is, rather our views are coloured by our experiences and whatever indoctrination we may have been subjected to so in the end we mistake the view that comes through our tinted glasses for the sum total of what is out there, without seeing the many variations in colour that have simply bypassed our view. This is what happens whenever we make general statements and I've also been guilty of it on numerous occasions. I believe for instance that the strong views expressed by Arwhen among others are cynicism disguised as realism. Sure a lot of bad things happen in love and relationships and maybe more so for those involved in this industry but is that the sum total of what goes on? Are there no counter-examples to the horrible stories? I seriously doubt it, but as I said, success or failure depends on the individuals involved so I'm more inclined towards the optimistic views of Sugar and Climax, that under the right circumstances, anything can happen.

There are two generalisations that keeping coming up over and over again which I have issues with. One is that working girls are only ever in it for the money and are essentially con-artists and that any affection is not genuine but just an act to keep you coming back for more so as to milk the wallet. The other is that punters are not genuinely capable of being in love with the girls they visit and that this too is just an act to get freebies. I take exception to these views cause I've had the good fortune to experience genuine love on a number of occasions from the girls I've visited and I give credit to the fact that I always leave myself open to such possibilities. When one adopts cynicism, then your experience of life will only confirm and support your preconceived ideas cause you've closed yourself off to all other possibilities. This is true regardless of what your experiences may be. I'm reminded of the men are trash movement that was popular recently, sure u may have genuine reasons to believe men are trash if you've been a victim of abuse but does the men are trash view accurately reflect all there is to men?

Now as I write this, I'm currently involved in a relationship with a stripper that just happened unexpectedly without any planning from my side. She is very much in love with me and this I can tell, for actions speak louder than words and there is a lot she has done to show how much she loves me. I'm very much in love with her as well and I've stopped seeing all other girls besides her and I visit her on a weekly basis and there's a lot that I've done to show that I love her. Being in love though doesn't mean that all sense flies out the window and success depends on both parties being mature and pragmatic. Whether or not that will be the case with us remains to be seen and there's a lot of issues that we grappling with to which I don't have the answers yet but for now I'm gonna make the best of it and treasure the moments as they happen. Love does indeed make everything beautiful and I can never imagine my life without the feeling.

Some related stories from elsewhere on the inter-webs

www.thedailybeast.com/when-you-fall-in-love-with-a-stripper
www.thedailybeast.com/i-was-a-stripper-i-didnt-need-to-be-saved

The above two articles relate the same story from the different different individuals involved. Amazing how the same incident has completely different meaning and account, confirming again that we never truly experience reality as is but through the distorted lens of our own making

thebolditalic.com/what-happens-when-a-stripper-falls-in-love-with-a-customer-4aa6338de680

I found this article wrotten by a former wg, now married, very insightful in the context of this thread. "So You're Dating a Sex Worker? Here's What Not to Do".

https://rewire.news/article/2017/11/27/youre-dating-sex-worker-heres-not/