On 2017-12-26 21:32:56 Vegas said:
I found this article wrotten by a former wg, now married, very insightful in the context of this thread. "So You're Dating a Sex Worker? Here's What Not to Do".

https://rewire.news/article/2017/11/27/youre-dating-sex-worker-heres-not/

Sorry can't open the link....

On 2017-09-21 12:43:24 Arhwen said:
On 2017-09-21 11:44:34 reenaP said: On 2017-09-19 17:30:08 johnmann said: Its gonna be hard explaining to your future kids what their mother's work was when you met them!

Not hard at all. Just tell your kids their mother was doing community service when you met her. Afterall, thats what WGs do in reality; providing service to a community of horny maadhirs.

Lmfa Now the ladies don't have to lie about what the do for a living anymore.

Here is a follow up question. Has any wg here told their kids what they do for a living? Was it an easy pill to swallow?

On 2017-12-27 05:51:53 Meg said:
On 2017-12-26 21:32:56 Vegas said: I found this article wrotten by a former wg, now married, very insightful in the context of this thread. "So You're Dating a Sex Worker? Here's What Not to Do".

https://rewire.news/article/2017/11/27/youre-dating-sex-worker-heres-not/



Sorry can't open the link....

Hi Meg, not sure why one cant click on it to open. Copy and paste into your browser.

Developing an attraction is completely possible,
Stepping into a relationship might be more tricky.
Insecurity might arise from both sides eg
"Is he trying to gain a free ride"
"Is she only in it for the money"

If it is possible would depend on the couple and each individuals honesty, emotional & intellectual intelligence and their ability to self control in my opinion but yes
I truly believe that anything in life is possible if taken up seriously.

On 2017-12-27 06:07:00 mike02 said:
On 2017-09-21 12:43:24 Arhwen said: On 2017-09-21 11:44:34 reenaP said: On 2017-09-19 17:30:08 johnmann said: Its gonna be hard explaining to your future kids what their mother's work was when you met them!

Not hard at all. Just tell your kids their mother was doing community service when you met her. Afterall, thats what WGs do in reality; providing service to a community of horny maadhirs.

Lmfa Now the ladies don't have to lie about what the do for a living anymore.


Here is a follow up question. Has any wg here told their kids what they do for a living? Was it an easy pill to swallow?

Yes my daughter knows what I'm doing.
I'll rather be honest with her then build a foundation out of lies. It's not that easy because you would want her to keep this information to her self. But where and who can they talk to? They have friends they trust but that friends does talk.
All advice is, tell your kid what you do, so they understand that money doesn't fall from the sky. And that it doesn't change you as a mom with responsibilities towards them.
Just keep your habits sober and don't let it influence them negatively.

I will never tell my son what I do for a living, he sees me as superwoman, I can't risk him disrespecting me in the future and resenting me in the worst possible way...

I've taught him the value of money without disclosing where I get it from, all he knows is that mommy has a very hectic job that makes her travel a lot...

I really do not need to disclose anything to anyone and cause confusion...

On 2017-12-27 08:46:06 Climax said:
I will never tell my son what I do for a living, he sees me as superwoman, I can't risk him disrespecting me in the future and resenting me in the worst possible way...

I've taught him the value of money without disclosing where I get it from, all he knows is that mommy has a very hectic job that makes her travel a lot...

I really do not need to disclose anything to anyone and cause confusion...

Which is totally understandable. Then you must just ensure you take this secret to your grave.

On 2017-12-27 08:15:53 Meg said:
On 2017-12-27 06:07:00 mike02 said: On 2017-09-21 12:43:24 Arhwen said: On 2017-09-21 11:44:34 reenaP said: On 2017-09-19 17:30:08 johnmann said: Its gonna be hard explaining to your future kids what their mother's work was when you met them!

Not hard at all. Just tell your kids their mother was doing community service when you met her. Afterall, thats what WGs do in reality; providing service to a community of horny maadhirs.

Lmfa Now the ladies don't have to lie about what the do for a living anymore.


Here is a follow up question. Has any wg here told their kids what they do for a living? Was it an easy pill to swallow?

Yes my daughter knows what I'm doing.
I'll rather be honest with her then build a foundation out of lies. It's not that easy because you would want her to keep this information to her self. But where and who can they talk to? They have friends they trust but that friends does talk.
All advice is, tell your kid what you do, so they understand that money doesn't fall from the sky. And that it doesn't change you as a mom with responsibilities towards them.
Just keep your habits sober and don't let it influence them negatively.

But how did your daughter react to this when she found out?

Mike02... how do you think a little girl feels when she finds out?
Her heart was broken.
Single parents do what we have to to secure a stable life for our kids.
Yes we tri other jobs, but sometimes things don't work out financially then we back to where we started from.
All I could do was show her it's just a job and that it didn't change me as a person.
I'm still a mom a daughter a sister outside this purple life.
Ps: you won't know what I do if you met me outside this industry.

Here is a follow up question. Has any wg here told their kids what they do for a living? Was it an easy pill to swallow? [/QUOTE]

The age and family set up might have a great influence on this question I think.

For myself I don't think I will ever be able to tell kids, I would not want to open their minds to trying the same thing, I do it so that they won't have to I hope...