Yes I do agree that there's nothing wrong with dating a wg, but it's wrong if she didn't disclose it to him that she is a Wg and I'm not saying you should tell him but you should re-evaluate your friendship.

On 2018-01-09 14:37:43 1DRAKE1 said:
Ok so I'm exaggerating a little but I'm asking some advice.

So we go to dinner last week and a friend joined with his new girlfriend. I recognize her the second they walked in. Her profile on this site shows her face. (She has never met me before)

So the dinner goes well, I tried to forget about it and have not said anything to him.

If he does know his not saying anything and if he doesn't know then I don't know if he should be told.He is a good guy and any woman can do a lot worse than have him in her life.

Any advice, if it was you.
Would you tell him, or just allow it to play out as any other new relationship would.

Thanks

My question to you is that what if your friend is the one that's actually punting on this site and he knows exactly what he is doing? Good guys Also punt you know.

The bullshit crap spewed by some of the guys is enough to make one puke.

If you have issues with escorts dating your friends, you should
be questioning yourselves and your own morals and ethics.

Do you as a man who pays for a
woman's time and sexual services have the right to think that she is a lesser being than you or your
friend?

If you such morally upstanding
individuals you should disclose to your friends, that you engage with escorts and are not above paying
women to indulge you their time and sexual services.

If you think that she will be tainted in his eyes, you are just as tainted. The person who partakes is just as guilty as the person who offers, that which you deem shameful.

Ok I'm closing this one off. Just got home from visiting with you know who.

So the new lady friend made a delicious meal and I couldn't help having seconds. Our discussion mostly was about 2018 and other stuff the year might bring.

Thanks to some of your comments I actually forgot about all of this stuff not long after arriving.

So that's that. His seems happy witch is more than I can say about the last couple of months and she seems to really like his company which is also very good.
I see now that this was a terrible question to ask. But I was concerned for a friend. If asking the question offended some of you then I do apologise. I'm minding my own business from now on.

Thanks again to the community for the input.

On 2018-01-10 11:59:27 Ali3n1147 said:
She must have seen this thread by now. If so she must be in a state, whether good or bad.

Hope she is okay, one will never know. Just don't think is is fair on either party involved. Live and let live.

Just my 2cw

And if he met her on this site, then probably him as well...
Oh well! *shaking my head*

On 2018-01-10 23:31:39 1DRAKE1 said:


So that's that. His seems happy witch is more than I can say about the last couple of months and she seems to really like his company which is also very good.
I see now that this was a terrible question to ask. But I was concerned for a friend. If asking the question offended some of you then I do apologise. I'm minding my own business from now on.

Thanks again to the community for the input.

You're a great friend at the end of the day.

Thank you for the feedback!

And may you have a fantastic 2018!

On 2018-01-09 16:44:12 Jewel said:
@flyingwild as you are not in our position you could never understand the risks involved showing our faces....Please don't state "face pics nonsense it's totally besides the point...." yes 1Drake1 could've booked her but he may never have....as someone not in our position, to protect our identities to protect our families, is more important than the whole world seeing we work as escorts because sadly there is still a strong stigma attached to this work that a man will never understand. I'm not stating this to pick a fight....sometimes it would be nice for others to walk in our shoes to gain a better understanding of the many challenges we face before stating the choices we make are nonsense.

Back when Gumtree had a section for casual NSA encounters, there were plenty of men who were placing their 'ads.' up - I'm willing to be that most of them didn't show their faces on there because they knew what the consequences of doing so would be.

When I was in the military , our Sgt Maj. used to open tell everyone he married a working girl because he wanted a wife with experience . Used to tell us that the sex was phenominal. Who can argue with that reasoning so a few years later I dated a WG. Yes we did run into one or two clients .. One who happened to be my accountant . Shoot ! I didn't care . I had a hot girl who guys used to look at and Yes ... she used to do a war march on the dong that made you know you had been worked over .

Hehe never had such luck